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 Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 8:15 am
Okay everyone. I need help. Let's just say I'm the jealous type. NO LIE.
I've always been like that and it makes me so mad. My jeaousy is always getting in the way of things. For example: A week before school ended the Concert Band got to miss a day of school to go graduation rehersal for the Seniors so we could practice the music we were going to play. After that we were taken to the mall to get something to eat. I was hanging out with a bunch of my friends and my crush of course. *girlish squee* whee and we were having a great time. Until this girl from chorus began to flirt with him, putting her arms around him and calling him cute. This began to just ruin my mood. I got all pissed off because well... this chick has BOTH a boyfriend and girlfriend (yes im serious) but continues to flirt with the guy I like. He's obviously creeped out by her and avoids her, but it stil got me jealous and my mood turned from happy to all pissed off gonk .
The point of my story is that I get jealous with EVERYTHING. It's too the point that I'm afraid one of the incoming freshman in band is going to start liking the guy I like. I don't know why I'm being so paranoid!?!
Ackkkkkk.
Please help me gonk
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Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:00 pm
 I had the same problem sadly ;-;
And when I needed to solve it, I went to the internet!
Google MIGHT help xD
I got over it by just thinking that she has the right to talk to him as much as I do. And a bunch of other stuff I forgot ><;
But it's different for everyone to solve jealousy so..yeah..clueless..
-ish sorry cannot help-
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Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:05 pm
Well as you said, the guy you like was creeped out by her and avoided her. I wouldn't worry about her too much then. Do you get on well with this guy? Do you flirt with him at all? If you like him why don't you ask him out? Plain and Straight ill say it out that us guys do NOT take signals and hints lol . You pretty much have to ask us straight out or be very obvious about it smile .
About Jealousy, i know its hard but try not to get jealous. Jealously (in the long term or when you are with someone) will only lead the person you love/like away from you. Try and remove jealousy and instead focus on trying to turn it into somthing postive. Try and talk to the guy you like more, get to know him, enjoy his company and if it is meant to be it will happen (if it doesn't dont feel bad about it, your only young and theres plenty more ahead!). Best of luck! smile
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Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 1:23 pm
Cravez Well as you said, the guy you like was creeped out by her and avoided her. I wouldn't worry about her too much then. Do you get on well with this guy? Do you flirt with him at all? If you like him why don't you ask him out? Plain and Straight ill say it out that us guys do NOT take signals and hints lol . You pretty much have to ask us straight out or be very obvious about it smile . About Jealousy, i know its hard but try not to get jealous. Jealously (in the long term or when you are with someone) will only lead the person you love/like away from you. Try and remove jealousy and instead focus on trying to turn it into somthing postive. Try and talk to the guy you like more, get to know him, enjoy his company and if it is meant to be it will happen (if it doesn't dont feel bad about it, your only young and theres plenty more ahead!). Best of luck! smile
Basically I know WHY he doesn't like me like THAT. It's because I'm deff not as pretty as all the other girls he's liked. The girls he's liked are skinny and adorable. So I deff need to loose A LOT. xD But I know I can do it!
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Posted: Mon Aug 11, 2008 2:01 pm
-Elite Dreamer- Cravez Well as you said, the guy you like was creeped out by her and avoided her. I wouldn't worry about her too much then. Do you get on well with this guy? Do you flirt with him at all? If you like him why don't you ask him out? Plain and Straight ill say it out that us guys do NOT take signals and hints lol . You pretty much have to ask us straight out or be very obvious about it smile . About Jealousy, i know its hard but try not to get jealous. Jealously (in the long term or when you are with someone) will only lead the person you love/like away from you. Try and remove jealousy and instead focus on trying to turn it into somthing postive. Try and talk to the guy you like more, get to know him, enjoy his company and if it is meant to be it will happen (if it doesn't dont feel bad about it, your only young and theres plenty more ahead!). Best of luck! smile
Basically I know WHY he doesn't like me like THAT. It's because I'm deff not as pretty as all the other girls he's liked. The girls he's liked are skinny and adorable. So I deff need to loose A LOT. xD But I know I can do it!
Oh s**t.
We have the EXACT same situation.
-High5-
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Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2008 4:32 pm
Hmph. I'm not sure I'd want to be with a guy who wouldn't like me unless I weighed a certain amount. talk2hand It's so not cool to be superficial like that. XD
Well, good luck with your goals anyway; it's always good to have something to work for. razz
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