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 Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 1:48 pm
Sometimes it seems as though my two year younger sister is acting like a dog. Shes impatient, rude, interruptive and loves to tattle whenever i'm in trouble. It seems as though she thinks I'm doing everything wrong in my life and i'm the stupidest. Of course I wasn't a bright child when I was around younger (I'm thirteen.) I recently watched a touching film that says every child is special. My sister doesn't think I'm special at all. I have a knack for writing and she doesn't know it. However, she gets really good grades in school, interested in art, and has alot of friends.
Me of course, didn't have too many friends during 1-5 grade. I had TONS of friends in 6th grade and started feeling more mature and my body was changing. I look alot prettier now. Yet she calls me names and says that I get a F average.
But of course, my sister is getting really rude these days and is simply sneaky about things. She looks at my stuff (especially some of my writing) which are completely suppose to be secret.
I can't control it. I'm tired of it. Please give mature, safe answers, not like "SHE SHOULD GO TO HELL or SHES A b***h." Give soft, smooth answers, please, or I'll eat you like pizza.
None of my relatives, who are very dear to me, think that I'm not special at all. I have sense of humor, good writing and English. My sis doesn't seem to notice this and probably never will.
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 8:37 pm
Does it really matter? If you can see that you have a knack for writing, than what does it matter if your sister cannot see it? It's terrible that one's own sister can sink so low as to make fun her close kin, but that's the way it goes. Hear her opinions, but don't take them to heart. It's quite obvious she does not have the right amount of light in her own. I'm most assured that you will meet more people who can accept you, your flaws, and your talents. And keep in mind that this is one person who is your JUNIOR. If the rest of your family can see that you're special, I'll reiterate what I said before: your sister doesn't seem like she has much light in her heart, especially since she can't see yours.
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:16 pm
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You should try to be patient with her. Everyone is special. Even the disabled and handicapped. She is too young to differentiate good and evil. If you have an annoying sister, and someday you are still with her, many arguments won't break you apart unlike those who had never fought each other before. Those who had always been friendly when argue, they would break like glass.
Don't mind what other people think of you. They don't know who you are. And if you are keeping a diary, I recommend you dispose of it. Because if things you want to remember sticks to your head and things that you don't need to remember will be forgotten.
I have 3 siblings and they are annoying. And such a burden since I am the eldest.
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:58 am
My patience has gone. Whenever she yells at me to get off the computer, I just quietly get off and sit in my room. BUT if my sis is on the computer, and I tell her normally to get off, I usually get slapped and yelled at. >.>
My parents... well. I wouldn't like to say this but they seem to think I have a life on the computer.
And they think I'm lazy too. I manage quite well around the house when I'm alone. I almost burned my fingers when trying to lit a match on the stove so I can cook something light once. It was in Asia that is. And now my sister teases me about it.
NOT TO MENTION, my sister was also the reason of my worst Eid ever. >.>
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 12:01 pm
I should also mention that I NEVER slapped anyone in the face when I was around her age. Not across the face. I recently heard that God made the face the most beautiful. Yet she still slaps me.
I normally don't hit my siblings. Well sometimes but in the worst conditions. And since MY sis is feared, it seems as though my younger siblings seem to pay more respect to her then me.
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 5:00 am
Personally,siblings are a bother to me. But sometimes they are good. But in this family, my two little sisters are both very rude, to our parents, to me and to other people. Sometimes I hit them, sometimes I just shout at them when my patience is running low. The thing is, your sister is a black sheep. Your parents choose to support her rather than you. Trust me, I know. stare
Respect, and fear is a different thing. If she stays like that till her death, be sure that she would pay the price. My advice is that you teach her how to be a good Muslim, how to be less brutal and if can, pray for her. Although, why should you follow what I say, I myself dislike my sisters.
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Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 3:01 pm
 He has Redeemed Me!Though I Your sister probably thinks she's funny. Or maybe it's because of the friends she hangs out with? They could be altering her attitude. My younger sister is like that, thinking she's better than everyone else, and... ugh! It's so annoying! Anyways, I personally wouldn't think to deep about this. I know it must be hurting you... But it's just sibling fighting. Every family has it, some more and some less.
And everyone has talent, no matter what. Speaking, languages, drawing, etc. Some people just block out everyone else talent to make room for theirs, which they think is superior, even though you can look at it from even ground. I love to write as well. If you want, though I am new here, we could share what we write! Unless it's personal, or you don't want to, then it's cool~ Anyways, I hope this helped! And sorry it's so long~ am undeserving, He gave his life for mine. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 12:14 pm
a'otho bellah men al shaytan al rajeem << say those words whenever she slapps u or u get into a fight with her!!
and u need to start talking to her and start telling her that u r starting to get pretty annoyed from her immature attitudes with u and tell her that u r pretty old for those attitudes around u n' if she kept acting like that ... u r gonna hate her forever!!!
but if she Said Okay and understood ur situation u can start a new page with her ;D and u guys could be like best friends !!
BUT if she refused , then go 2 ur mother or ur father .. and let them talk 2 her about it !!!
[~[ Hope everything goes well with ur Sister ;D and inshallah u'll be great sisters ]~]
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Posted: Mon Dec 08, 2008 8:53 am
Be patient. There is a big reward for those who were patient in the hereafter. It's hard but we have to face all these "obstacles" in this world.
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