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 Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 2:52 pm
so this is going to get quite complicated, so lets get some facts out right now: my parents don't know about me being bi and don't aprrove of "those people": i have never had an actual girlfriend because of it. ok, now lets get to the complecations:
in middle school, me and Ranny never really talked much, we were in different 'circles'. we both had a crush on the same guy, so that made us talk less, then i started dating the guy we both liked, and she hated my guts. then, once i broke up with the guy, he started dating Ranny...then she dumped him and we were on good terms again cause we both now hated that guy. but wse still didn't really talk. then in high school, we were in the same creative writing class and we sat next to each other for the sole reason of we were the only people we knew/got some what along with in that class. thus, we became friends. we are both the affectionate type and almost everytime we see each other, a hug and kiss is exchanged. not one of those 'get a room' kisses, just a nice peck on the lips.
well, a while ago, some girl started a rumor the Ranny and her were going out and they weren't. Ranny told me that she wasn't bi or lesbian, so she wouldn't go out with the other girl even when she finally asked Ranny. then a week or so later, Ranny told me that she thinks she might be bi...and i told her about my being bi.
now onto the dilema, i want to ask her out, but here are my fears:
:she will say no and there goes our friendship
:my parents have no idea about my being bi and well, we all know how that ship sails
:Ranny's best friend hates my guts...seriously, she has told me herself and our stade fight almost turned into a real fight(we had to do a skit in drama class)
:Ranny is black and i am white, and around here, there are some people that -to say the least- don't like interracial relationships
any advice? help? how do i tell my parents? (and i've tried the whole, bring up the subject and tell them, but trust: that is worse!). how would i help my parents underestand?
HELP!
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Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 6:10 pm
First off, take as much time as you need and don't try to rush things. Trust me its important. I haven't tried to rush things and only four people know about be being bisexual (obviously that arn't on here).
And if you really do need to explain it to your parents I would just say the best way to put it is that you have enough love for people that you don't mind sharing it. Also you never know who you can love until you open your heart enough for them to find you.
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