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 Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 8:25 am
Ok.
I've only been in a relationship with my bf for 2 and a half months but I feel more depressed now then ever and I think it has something to do with our relationship. Like at the beginning of the relationship I could go days without talking to him, but now I can barely go a few hours and I feel like he's getting annoyed about it, cause I call...a lot. And I can't really stop myself. And yesterday me and him went into a chatroom on VF just for the hell of it, and he started flirting with almost every girl in there, and later that night I called him and he started talking about this girl from there that called him and blah blah blah, he just kelp on talking about her. Then he started comparing me to her and it really pissed me off.
And I really don't know what to do about it.
And on top of that he was in the army and after he got out he was diagnosed with Bi-polar type 2, so he goes on a lot of trips and I've had to stop him from killing his self twice.
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 12:20 pm
This happens a lot.
Clinging to him isn't the best thing to do, definitely. Stepping back and taking a nice Chill Pill should help tremendously. He's talking to other people because he's probably trying to ease the pressure you're putting on him for attention.
In other words, he is not your life. You are your life. He cannot take care of you, only you can take care of you.
Kapeesh?
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 9:09 am
Also, try talking with him about how you dislike him comparing you to other girls, but try not to get emotional, otherwise it could get ugly, but indeed it is true that you shouldnt cling so much to him, or he will really start disliking the time together. about the bipolar trait, it can be hard, but hang in there, just remember it is just some of the time in which it strikes.
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 12:30 pm
learn the Naru-Punch. if he does somthing even remotly out of line *wham*
(it works, I know from having it used on me several times!)
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 12:33 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 11:56 pm
I say break up with him. It sounds like its coming to an end.
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little_evil_goth Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 2:45 pm
yea
I just broke up with him a few days ago
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 4:08 pm
You will find someone soon, meanwhile, you get us!
yay! ninja
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:58 pm
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 2:38 am
*hugs* You'll feel better about it promise.
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little_evil_goth Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:44 pm
Hey, I can understand very hard relationships and they are not good, but if you want to talk X-MissSpookeyness-X, then just send me a message and we can talk if you want. Okay?
-Pained Remorse
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Posted: Tue Feb 17, 2009 7:10 pm
I'm sorry it didn't work out... But you'll be okay! I promise!
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