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 Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 11:45 am
Well my daughter A Dreamsnight mare left my house today, she's going to attempt living on her own now... Shes moving to Colorado, so far away from me well not as far as London where she intends to go to college, but still... im in my room right now rally down.. im hungry but dont want to eat... and thirsty o_O.. ... .... ok getting lazy there ooo I know i'll be even lazier and ask my son to bring me some juice whee mrgreen not sure the reason for this subject ... i guess i still need more people to talk to and ease my fears that i have and that shes going to be all right. Any advice?
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 2:52 pm
aw, be happy for her! She's independent and confident, it means you were/are a good mum 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 3:23 pm
Thanks Ghost i am proud of her.... i just miss her so.... and shes only been gone a few hours ......
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 5:36 pm
*hugs Bestmom* Ghost is right hun. Raising you kids to be independent and go on their own one day is what parenting is about, and this means you've done your job. And, despite the distance, this can actually be a chance to become closer to her, since you'll appreciate the time you do get to talk or spend time together even more.
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ananda082001 Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 7:00 pm
Yeah i know ........ its still hard ..... thanks for all the votes of confidence heart *hugs*
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Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 6:24 am
It will be alright.
I, on the other hand, still live with my parents sweatdrop . I have nowhere to go. At least nowhere where I wouldn't just become an hermit and never talk to anyone about anything that wasn't work related.
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Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 10:04 am
lol living with parents in these times isn't a bad idea, she's actually moved in to his dads apartment and has her own room .... so shes not technicality out on her own just yet >.< shes just flew out of one nest in to another ninja sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 10:57 pm
*pet Bestmom* she is only a phone away from you. And everyone is right, she will be ok. Send her my regarts.
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Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 6:01 pm
I shall Bolon ^_^ im getting better with the idea of her moving on, but i all so let her know that the door is open if she ever needs to return home for any reason.
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 11:12 am
I still live with my parents too...and to make a long story short we moved several times and now my mom is pregnant so I'm here to help her with my little sister
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 3:22 pm
I know i'm never around buy ... hi! I just recently got my own place ... about 3 monthes ago, and i am soooo happy on my own. I know your daughter will be okay.
So... she really isn't on her own --- just not with you? What was the point of that? I don't think you have any reason to worry, and i'm sure her dad will take of her when she needs it. She's an adult and will learn new things, some may not be easy lessons, but she will be okay.
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 3:27 pm
I can say from experience, that although it didn't work out as I hoped, moving out was one of the best experiences I've had to day. I moved, about 750 miles away with nothing more than what I could carry in my suitcases on a train, and brought the rest with me during a couple trips home. I moved in with my best friend ever and her husband, and it was great being there. I loved it, despite the occasional snag here or there. It ended up not working out though because the job I had kept cutting my hours (which is crappy cus they KNEW I was trying to get a place of my own x.x), and I had a very hard time finding something else that would have paid better. In the end, I had to come back home, and move back in with the parents... but! It hasn't been all bad, I have a better understanding now of how hard it is to make ends meet and really be an "adult" about things.
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 10:01 am
1) Janet its not her dad she moved in with (just for the record her dad is a loser and is homeless some where in California) shes living with her boy friend and his dad.. but shes a strong person
2) Its been a month now and she found a job yay for her ^_^ im so proud of her .. still miss her to death but am dealing with it.
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 11:25 am
My kids are 1 and 3 .... I dread them ever leaving me. I know it will come faster than I can imagine crying
-Pluto
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:31 pm
Just remember that no matter how old they get, they'll still be your baby. Yes, you'll miss and worry bout them which is natural. They'll always have a place in your heart. Moving away from home isn't that easy tho.
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