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 Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 2:10 pm
well..how should I start? I feel so confused, mixed up and somewhat hopeless.... my boyfriend broke up with me on friday... he told me he didn't wanted to but he had no choice, it was either that or his mom was going to send him to Dallas (it's about 4 and a half hours away from here) His mom hates me so much and I don't even know why! I did nothing bad, I didn't do any harm to him, nor her. I was polite when I met her. I do feel broken hearted , and as if my soul was torn into pieces.
As far as I know, she said it was because I'm too young, which is totally absurd! I'm just one year younger! and I know that once I turn 17, she'll come up with other bullshit if I go back with him. He told me he wanted to wait for me, but I told him no, there's no point in getting back together.
He said he wants to fix it, but I just see no point on it! I don't know what to do! I can think, I can't get him out of my head... It's been 2 days, and they were the longest and loneliest days of my life... I really want to forget him, I can't cry myself to sleep for the rest of my life. I have a whole life to live, I'm barely a teenager, I don't want to feel like it's the ends ( that would just be idiotic)
Am I doing the right thing? I don't want to hurt him, but I can't live a lie.
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 7:09 pm
Well I don't see why she wouldn't like you, but you should do what you believe to be the right thing. What happens may not play out as you expect but, It's what you want and if either of them can't understand then it wasn't meant to be.
I hope that was atleast somewhat Helpful, If you have Windows Live messenger and ever need to talk just hit me up wink
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 8:30 am
This was in your DA journal, si? I read it yesterday, and I've been trying to come up with a solution, but to no avail.
Well, I send my sympathies...Erm...
So she doesn't like you because you're too young by one year? In my opinion, that doesn't sound like a perfectly sound reason... Well, the most obvious thing here is that it doesn't seem like his fault...After all, he is trying to make ammends. Erm...I was thinking that maybe there's no point throwing your life away, bering miserable for ages and perhaps like, screwing up the rest of your life because some old woman doesn't want you dating her son...How long has she been hating you for? Because I remember when I was going out with this girl who was a different religion and my mother didn't like it, but she forgot about it after a while, which was like, one or two months.
If that doesn't work, then you could just...Actually, that wouldn't work, because his mother might ask to see his new girlfriend...Well...This is actually quite a problem...It's hard to come up with a solution...One of the obvious things to say is to just move on without him, but that's much easier said than done....
Sorry, I really can't come up with anything. I do hope that this phase will disappear soon. I send my condolences.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 12:11 pm
@Josh((Yes, I will call you Josh anyway)) : I told him to stop calling me, and to get over me, I want to get over him too. Thanks, it is helpful
4laugh
@Sempai: Yes it was, but I erased it XD
She doesn't like me because of that and apparently she thought I was changing him. I did not change him, and if he did, it was his decision. My mom told me that she's afraid that her son would get me pregnant or something. of course I was like "what the ********?" but oh well, she got her way.
I decided to move on, he's not the last guy on earth you know? Besides, we never really went out together. He was always busy with stuff his mom ordered him to. She was mad when we went to prom, she was mad when we went to Alexa's Party. For 3 months, we only saw each other at school. Like I told Josh, it was overwhelming.
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 1:58 am
Oh, well it's good that you're getting over it and moving on, because I guess sooner or later his mother would've done something crazy. I'm imagining King Kong climbing the tower.
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:37 pm
yeah, it hurt like hell, but I'll get over him eventually. Hahaha that would be her xD
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 4:00 am
You know what? I really feel like playing Kingdom Heart right now even though I hate it. I guess I just like the atmosphere in the game, it's very jolly.
I think it's because my electric guitar is broken, and i actually have nothing better to do.
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 7:09 pm
Sempai... why do you think he did it? If he really didn't wanted to break up, did he rather do that instead of disobeying his mom? It's just not fair! It's so hard to get over him. I can't get him out of my mind.... I just want to know why... he let it die.
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2008 8:55 pm
If he really did it because of his mom it was probably cause he couldn't stand to risk a long distance relationship if she actually moved him out there.
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Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 8:14 am
I agree with Josh, he said what I was thinking. Ever had a long distance relationship? They're quite painful things.
With the same different religion girl I mentioned earlier, my mother threatened to move me to another catholic school if I didn't break up with her. Well, I guess that catholic school wouldn't have been that bad because all my primary school friends went there and it's actually relatively close to my house and...*Carries on rambling*
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Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 3:25 pm
Hahaha you called Musika " Josh " XDD lol .... erhm...
I guess so. Ahhhhrrg this is so hard...
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Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 6:11 am
Well...You called him Josh...And...I just wanted to use it emo . Is that not his name?
I went to the cinema with my girlfriend on Saturday to watch Indiana Jones. I hated it, but she liked it >_>. I should've just let her choose What Happens in Vegas. Anyone else seen Indiana Jones?
Yeah, sorry I can't help with your problem...Fab. Man, I'm getting good with names.
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Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 5:59 pm
That is indeed his name xD
my sister did and she liked it.
Hahaha it;s ok. I'm actually angry at him now . He asked me to let him fix things (which by this I thought getting back together) but then I see him holding hands with another girl, and kissing her. It only makes me think "That the ******** does he want?! " He says he loves me but he's with someone else. It doesn't bother me that he's with her, it;s the fact that the son-of-a-b***h tells me all this bullshit. I don't believe him anymore. I don't love him anymore. I thought he was different, I thought he'll never hurt me, but he ended up hurting me the most. I don't need him, and I surely do not need his bullshit. I'm happy school is almost over, so It'll be easier for me to forget him. I just wish the mother ******** didn't do what he did, but oh well.
And, if his mom was mad because he had a girlfriend, and that's the reason he broke up with me, then why the ******** does he have another girl now? It doesn't make sense to me!
Pardon my language.
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 2:10 am
The ending to the movie is really stupid. It ruined the whole movie for me.
Huh, it does sound quite fishy to me...He seems so unsly about it. He actually seems like quite an a** from what you've said. I can't think of anything to say except...I dunno.
Nah, I have no problem with your language. It's better that youl et out as much anger as you can rather than bottling it all up. I heard about this one dude that bottled all his anger up and never took it out, then one day he went crazy and killed his whole family.
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2008 7:34 am
awww well my sister said that the only part she didn't liked was the aliens thing...xD
Right now, he is an a**.
Hahaha thanks. Holy s**t, I better let it all go then! lol lately, I've been saying more bad words than a sailor. rofl
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