It is more than horrid to say that parents will start to judge you. Maybe some people would, but others wouldn't, and that's if they're your parents or not. How awful to take something as important as parenthood and make it sound so bad. Bad people make bad parents, good people make good parents. And that is true of everything isn't it? For a group to claim not to judge anyone, I found that statement to be bigoted and judgmental. Parents need love too you know.