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riveriver


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 11:57 am


I've had it up to, -holds hand above head-, with it.

There's this girl. And she is constantly trying to be like me.

She went and got her hair cut, to look mine. She started putting hair accessories in her hair, which happen to be the exact same ones as me. She bought the same skater cap I have, bought the same school bag, THE SAME COLOUR, and she even went out and bought a Spongebob Squarepants belt that I have, when she doesn't even like the damn show.

I'm 13. She's 15.

She wears the same deodorant as me, and talks like I do. Even my own Mother has noticed this. She types like me online. She bought the same fleece I have, and many other t-shirts!

She even bought converses when she said she didn't like them.

And oh! SHE EVEN GOT HER MUM TO BUY HER AN IPOD. THE EXACT SAME ONE I HAVE.

She literally listens to the same music as I do.

She applied to get into my school, when she found out that she had to move school. But thank God, she didn't get in.

Now. I said to her when I saw her that I wanted this uber awesome hat, and today. I find out she went out and bought it, although when she saw it with me, she went 'ew'

There are so many more things.

Oh yeah, and she's 'in love' with my going-to-break-up-with-soon-boyfriend, :]

Apparently, he's made her have insecurities, and now she can't go out with any other boy, because he holds her back or something ridiculous :]

>.<

I don't know why, but I've cried a few times over this and this is kinda the last straw.

It's just annoying, and I don't see why see does it.

I don't know what to do..

Anybody have connections with hit men?
I'll pay, of course.

Rant over.

Ta x
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 5:00 pm


Go up to her and be like, "b***h. You are so ******** annoying. Grow up and stop trying to be me!"
Except nicer, lol.
She sounds really immature. Especially since you're the one who's younger! @__@ Shouldn't the ages be the other way around? xDD
Definitely try to talk to her about it calmly. Sometimes a good reality check is all these kinds of people need.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:02 am


Radio Nikki
I've had it up to, -holds hand above head-, with it.

There's this girl. And she is constantly trying to be like me.

She went and got her hair cut, to look mine. She started putting hair accessories in her hair, which happen to be the exact same ones as me. She bought the same skater cap I have, bought the same school bag, THE SAME COLOUR, and she even went out and bought a Spongebob Squarepants belt that I have, when she doesn't even like the damn show.

I'm 13. She's 15.

She wears the same deodorant as me, and talks like I do. Even my own Mother has noticed this. She types like me online. She bought the same fleece I have, and many other t-shirts!

She even bought converses when she said she didn't like them.

And oh! SHE EVEN GOT HER MUM TO BUY HER AN IPOD. THE EXACT SAME ONE I HAVE.

She literally listens to the same music as I do.

She applied to get into my school, when she found out that she had to move school. But thank God, she didn't get in.

Now. I said to her when I saw her that I wanted this uber awesome hat, and today. I find out she went out and bought it, although when she saw it with me, she went 'ew'

There are so many more things.

Oh yeah, and she's 'in love' with my going-to-break-up-with-soon-boyfriend, :]

Apparently, he's made her have insecurities, and now she can't go out with any other boy, because he holds her back or something ridiculous :]

>.<

I don't know why, but I've cried many, many times over this and this is kinda the last straw.

I don't know what to do..

Anybody have connections with hit men?
I'll pay, of course.

Rant over.

Ta x
stressed


im an amature hitman.... but thats not what you want to do... you need to talk to her and seriously tell her how you feel about the way shes peevining you, who knows she might turn out to be a good friend. its going to take some patients to get through to her but i believe you can do it...
PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:48 am


Thanks, both of you.

I talked to her about it once, but she said that she didn't have a clue what I was on about.

I really do think I should be the 15 year old. It would make a lot more sense. But I'm 14 tomorrow, so the intar-webz won't judge me anymore and think because I'm 13, I'm immature. mrgreen

The other thing is, is that she is a very good friend of mine. Or was until recently when this all started getting a bit extreme. I met her over the internet through my best friend, and they both knew each other in real life. And then ever since, I've been getting the trains on my own, or with my other friend whenever I've been free to go and see her..

It takes a lot of effort to be her friend.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 3:15 am


First of all Happy Birthday! And yes, the internet is still going to judge you for being young.

And as for this problem, why does it bother you so much? You sound reeeeally upset by this. Don't you know that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery?

If she's imitating you, that means you're someone worth imitating. She probably admires the way you dress and talk. I'd take it as a compliment that someone older than you thinks of you this way.

I know it can be annoying, but beyond that, let it go, it just means you're so awesome that people want to be like you. How do you think celebrities feel?
PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 3:29 am


first of all: happy birthday!!! cheese_whine
i think that she must admire you too, but if it annoys you, just tell her all the time that there is a girl you really want to be like yourself (maybe an ex of your boyfriend? i didn“t get everything of this) and maybe she switches to imitating her. blaugh

Astharte



riveriver


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 11:02 am


-dances about happily-
heart


Masticatius; Great. At least I'll be a little older so they don't all look down on me? D= xd

Thanks. I did think about this, and I suppose it is flattery, but it's all so creepy X_x
The celebrities are all vain. :]


Astharte; That. Is. An. Awesome. Plan. I might try that. I know her quite well, and she'll probably most do that.


Thank you all, again :]

PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 11:41 am


I agree that it's creepy, but the fact that someone is desperate for approval is not going to ruin your life.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 12:36 am


Masti's right it wont... itll just annoy you... till they find thier own style. honestly id say be honored she wants to be like you... its always good to have fans mrgreen
PostPosted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 6:20 am


Radio Nikki
-dances about happily-
heart


Masticatius; Great. At least I'll be a little older so they don't all look down on me? D= xd

Thanks. I did think about this, and I suppose it is flattery, but it's all so creepy X_x
The celebrities are all vain. :]


Astharte; That. Is. An. Awesome. Plan. I might try that. I know her quite well, and she'll probably most do that.


Thank you all, again :]



no problem!!! heart xp

Astharte


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 1:27 am


Lol Astarthe that's awesome. rofl
At least she doesn't go to the same school as you, and she obviously looks up to you. It's annoying, but it's probably a phase that will pass quickly.
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