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 Posted: Sun Dec 23, 2007 8:37 pm
I am quickly falling have fallen for this guy I met a few weeks back.He is older but I dont think it matters and he's told me it doesn't.
We used to talk on msn from 5pm until about 2am.
Text each other all day etc.
We went to my local pub this Friday and he stayed at mine because it was easier than getting a taxi back to his.
He was buying me drinks all night and dancing with me, so we were quite drunk come the end of the night.
I was outside having a cigarette and he sat next to me and was rubbing my back and holding me cause it was cold and then he kissed me.
So then we go back to mine and he was meant to be staying on the couch and me upstairs in my bed.
We start kissing again and things get a bit touchy feel-y and all that jazz.
We went to have sex but I thought I heard my mum wake up so went upstairs.
I text him saying 'I don't want to go any further if you know what i mean because I like you a lot more than a quick drunk shag on my couch.'
He said 'Here's you being honest and here's me being honest. I get on with you more than any girl I've ever known, maybe get to now each other more that's fine : ) '
After all that jazz we stayed up all night, still kissing and stuff. Just like cuddled up together on the couch under a duvet watching DVDs.
I'd never mentioned my age before until I said 'Oo Im 17 in 17 days'. And he was like '17?' and I was just like 'Oh did you think I was already 18?' He said yes [we did meet in a club] so i asked him if it had put him off or was he bothered. He just told me he wasn't, he was just a bit shocked.
In the morning we went over to town because he needed to get some Christmas presents and things. When I was getting ready he said I looked cute and my hair looked really nice. We were holding hands walking round and things and we talked loads about work and had coffee and things.
Later he was going to meet his friend and he gave me a kiss and was saying he'd walk me the bus station and I was telling him it was fine.
He told me to text him or something then we went our separate ways.
About half an hour later I got it into my stupid head it would be a good idea to text him and say;
'I really do like you I meant what I said last night and it wasn't just because I was pissed. I'm sorry if this makes things awkward'.
He didn't text back so a few hours later I text him saying, 'Im really sorry I shouldn't have said anything.'
And he replied with basically dont worry about it.
I was talking to him on MSN tonight and the conversation has just gone really really slowly compared to normal. I know he's playing 360 but it is usually so much quicker. Half of it I'm not getting a reply.
I should point out I have a boyfriend and he knows this, I am dumping him in a few days because things aren't working out at all and we've been together 19 months or so.
Kaydee : Im sorry for textng you the other day by the way. Id hate to be told something like that from someone that i hadnt known long. I feel like a knobhead for saying anything .
FIEND: nah dont be, you have a lot going on like just see what happens
Kaydee: What do you mean see what happens?
FIEND: with your fella and everything
Kaydee : oh right
Should I have just kept my mouth shut?
I don't even know if he liked me in the first place to be getting all teary eyed and upset over.
And if he did I don't think he does now.
I really want to see him again. He said he'd be out on my going out night for my birthday on the 5th but I dunno.
Im so confused.
Have I done anything I shouldn't?
I dunno if it means anything but when we were lying down he kept moving my hair out my face and stroking my cheek. He did it when I was asleep but I could still feel/hear.
Fallen?
I ******** love him and it hurts.
He's 24.
My current boyfriends 20. I dont want a cheating rant
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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 9:46 am
It sounds like he does like you, at least it does to me, with the "its ok if we get to know each other more first"and the rubbin and being sweet and stuff. He may have been busy the other night and might have been preoccupied while talking to you. He could possibly be a little hesitant with the fact that you do have a bf, so he may be kinda riding it out to see what happens with that. Theres no harm in asking him how he feels to get his side of it, sometimes you have to do that. Then that way you would know that if he likes you, then to proceed with everything and it wasn't a big deal, or if hes a little hesitant about it, or whatever. And hey, age is different for everyone, my hubby and I are 8 years apart, hes 29 and I'm 21 whee Good luck hun, hope everything goes well with him heart
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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 10:17 am
He obviously likes you, but you have to let him come to you. Any 24-year-old guy will be floored by a girl telling him she's not even 17 yet, especially when he meets her at a bar. I don't want to discourage you, but realize --YOU'RE 17!! You are probably very mature for your age, but you're still pretty naive about a lot of stuff. I know that it's easy to fall head-over-heels at that age, I've been there. You will change so much in the next few years that you'll hardly know yourself, looking back and laughing about how immature you were at the age you are now.
I guess my point is this: Don't expect anything, especially a commitment, from anyone. There are lots of people out there, and your tastes will change as you mature even more. I am a lot different at 20 than I was at 17, and I'll be a lot different when I'm 23 or 25. He's just a guy, and you shouldn't let yourself get too stuck on him and him only. I do wish you the best, even if my words don't seem the most encouraging. Just remember: Only you can make yourself happy, and you can never force a relationship to work no matter how bad you may want it.
You didn't do anything wrong by telling him the truth. It would've been worse for both of you if you had lied or not said anything and he found out later on from someone else.
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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2007 3:00 pm
Toxic Apocalypse He obviously likes you, but you have to let him come to you. Any 24-year-old guy will be floored by a girl telling him she's not even 17 yet, especially when he meets her at a bar. I don't want to discourage you, but realize --YOU'RE 17!! You are probably very mature for your age, but you're still pretty naive about a lot of stuff. I know that it's easy to fall head-over-heels at that age, I've been there. You will change so much in the next few years that you'll hardly know yourself, looking back and laughing about how immature you were at the age you are now.
I guess my point is this: Don't expect anything, especially a commitment, from anyone. There are lots of people out there, and your tastes will change as you mature even more. I am a lot different at 20 than I was at 17, and I'll be a lot different when I'm 23 or 25. He's just a guy, and you shouldn't let yourself get too stuck on him and him only. I do wish you the best, even if my words don't seem the most encouraging. Just remember: Only you can make yourself happy, and you can never force a relationship to work no matter how bad you may want it.
You didn't do anything wrong by telling him the truth. It would've been worse for both of you if you had lied or not said anything and he found out later on from someone else. Thank you. I guess I forget how young 17 is. I hang around with older people and my bf at the moment is 20. Youve been really helpful.
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 4:08 pm
I hate being 17.
this is s**t.
i want to cry
well i have
i just got rejected everywhere.
i wish id never told him i was 17
i just got rejected everywhere because of it
he siad if i was 5 years younger you never know
feel so down now
i wish id never said anything
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 7:00 am
People in LI can be really talk-down-to-you-y and dickish. Last issue I shared with them, they treated me like I was a damn child because I'm a weak woman who can't control my feelings....ANYWAY.
Being in your late teens can suck a LOT. People don't really know what to make of you. Especially those of us who are gunning for the older guys.
We all have weak minds and we all think of cheating once in a while. If you act on those impulses it doesn't mean you're weak, you might just be a little confused as to what you wanted in the first place, at which point you need to step back and assess what it really is you want and make some decisions from there.
You are a good person. ^_^
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High-functioning Werewolf
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 6:03 am
I totally agree with Toxic Apocalypse. biggrin
He's just a guy, they come and go. I assure you that you will find someone much better. It might feel that you love him, but in the end you'll see that it's just infatuation. Truth is, that love doesn't appear in two weeks. I've known my 1st fix close to 4 years now and I still don't know how I feel for him.
You've got lots of time to love. <3
Strenght to you, sugar.
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