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It has happens to me as well. Even if its just on the streets of London. There are times when people, humans have nothing but pure hatred for one person. For no particular reason. Its natural. Its almost like a defense we put up for ourselves when we feel threatened by another's presence. I know for a fact humans have too many defensive things in the way of really trusting the person they hate without cause, reason, or suspicion.

So basically...for you...and for others who feel this way its only defensive, all you're doing is protecting yourself from someone you feel unsure about. Give it time and it may wear off. If not...I'd keep my eye on that new person.

The first time you see someone, you always get a feel of that person. Weather it's due to a bad past experience or maybe in the recess of our minds we were taught to be afraid of certain people due to the way the dress, or talk or act, we hate them for that even without knowing them.

Kind of like when a 9 year old hears someone making gay jokes, so when they enter high school they think it's ok to keep making fun of someone that is gay.

I like to think of it as a hating time bomb. WE say something stupid and pointless and someone hears it, and as they grow up eventually they find someone to vent their anger or have fun with and boom.

So now a days I try not to even bother with how a person looks and at least strike up a conversation with them to get to know them.

Broken you said you were in high school so I'm not sure how open you are, or he is to a conversation out of the blue, but get to know him first before you start hating, and either way life is to short to be held back by such hates so give the guy a chance who knows you might actually have a crush on him, respectfully speaking of course, you never know till you talk so try smile

hmph...took the advice of getting to know him...finally got to know the b*****d a lil more...all he duz is annoy people to f-ing death and carry around a stupid smile while doing it...*sigh* sori for the hurtful language...itz just that he really hurt one of my frends (emotionally...not physically!!) watz worse he made it look like he was the victim and not my frend...i should stop befor i show my ugly self to this guild >.< again forgive me mad

It happens sometimes. I have 2 people in my classes. It isn't the sight of them, it's just their voices. The sound of either one of them talking makes me want to scream abd throw them out of the room. The sound makes me feel unnaturally hostile and wrathful. Sometimes things like this are your minds way of telling you to stay away from them. It may be that they would hurt you or are into bad things. Myparents have tried to introduce me to plenty of people they thught were good, usually kids my own age. My mom was enraged when she found out that I ignored them and generally avoided them at all costs. My dad told her to stop being angry and watch. A few weeks or years later, all of those people are into the wrong crowds, into drugs,or in jail. My mom doesn't pressure me to befriend certian people anymore. So listen to that sense! Itmay save you from a lot of pain in then end.

I had something like that happen to me in school, there are these two girls that started in our 6th form and they stuck together and were quite quiet, but I didnt know what it was about them but I just got general bad vibes from them even though no one said anything bad about them, so I tended to stay away from them. And yesterday one of the girls started punching this other girl for no reason at all, and the other girl is a really nice person, so my bad feelings about them were right.