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 Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:27 pm
Does anyone expericence the pain of emotional loss? Or suffering pain, and neglect without having none of that happen?
This is just out of curioisty I want to see if its really just me...or if there are others who share some connection
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 9:51 am
Listen,I can't begin to tell you how much that has happened to me. Honestly,I woke up one morning and felt like i had just had my heart ripped out. You are definately not alone.
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 11:46 am
I know what you mean. Sometimes I feel like I'm carrying around other people's emotions. Like the terrible feeling I have isn't me. I don't know what it is, but I try to stay away from it. If it's me who experiences that, I plunge myself even deeper and I get worse and worse =/
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 12:07 pm
Its good to know I am not the only one. For a minute. I thought I'd be banned from the guild with nonsense like this.
But anyhow. thank you both. -^_^-
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 12:28 pm
ElfenGothic91 Its good to know I am not the only one. For a minute. I thought I'd be banned from the guild with nonsense like this. But anyhow. thank you both. -^_^- Of course not! This is my guild. You wouldn't be banned for this. Besides, this isn't the philosophical forum. You can post nonsense here mrgreen . The only rule is not to disrespect others.
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 2:12 pm
I get like that too. I just have days where I feel so down and I can't seem to do anything to make myself happy, sometimes surrounding yourself with people who make you happy like your friends can help, or just turn up the volume of some happy dance music and sing and dance your heart out. smile
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 5:15 pm
I am found in the doldrums at times as well..
I appriciate it for its aesthetic
The deeper sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain!
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 6:24 pm
Dieonysos I am found in the doldrums at times as well.. I appriciate it for its aesthetic The deeper sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain! What exactly do you mean by that? I find it perpetually miserable LoL
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:28 pm
mika_babykiss Dieonysos I am found in the doldrums at times as well.. I appriciate it for its aesthetic The deeper sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain! What exactly do you mean by that? I find it perpetually miserable LoL I mean that the two emotions are siblings.. they can either grow tall together or be completely effaced from a personality and nothing is more drab than a sedated indifference
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 8:26 am
Im a manic depressive, and I have attacks every few months or so, and I never know how long they last. But I have learnt to deal with myself and my friends know, so for example this one time all of us were just hanging out and I started to feel a sudden weight come over me. Heavy loneliness and anger, so i said good night, they were concerned but understood, i got in my car and drove away. That was one of my worst spells. I stayed depressed, angry for 3 weeks, untill it just, lifted off me.
Ive learnt to live with it, but I find it very hard to find things in life ..or at least find ways to make myself happy, so I find happiness through others. All in all, life goes on, good times and the bad.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 11:08 am
Sometimes I get the feeling that I carry other peoples' emotions. Not just sorrow and depression, but all other as well. It is very strange to me but usually I just think that it is happening for a purpose, like I'm supposed to know what they are feeling at the time. It sounds kind of crazy, but its true for me.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:14 pm
mika_babykiss ElfenGothic91 Its good to know I am not the only one. For a minute. I thought I'd be banned from the guild with nonsense like this. But anyhow. thank you both. -^_^- Of course not! This is my guild. You wouldn't be banned for this. Besides, this isn't the philosophical forum. You can post nonsense here mrgreen . The only rule is not to disrespect others.
I am not much of a person to disrespect anyone. so there's no worries about that. 3nodding blaugh 4laugh
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 3:07 pm
I too suffer from sudden and unexplainable feelings of despair and pain. Sometimes it's depression, and sometimes it's empathy. If it's depression, it really is all in my head - despite how difficult and hopeless it seems, I DO have the power to decide how I feel. If I don't want to be unhappy, I decide not to be unhappy. I think about something that makes I feel good, like eating an ice cream cone, spending time with an old friend, or simply having a philosophical conversation on the internet. wink
When my empathy gets in the way, I have to realise that it's not me that's feeling down, it's me empathising with someone else who's feeling down. Then I have to decide whether or not I want to let that other person's feelings keep me down. As with the depression, it's a conscious choice I have to make to be happy.
Dealing with feelings of saddness can be extremely difficult, but it is possible. I wish you good luck. smile As for people banning you... they just can't empathise. wink
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 7:55 pm
I think that those lingering emotions, may be the result of some un-resolved issues that may have even started as an infant. The sub-conscious can surface in strange ways at any moment with or with out a trigger.
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:52 pm
Sometimes I'll just be sitting and listening to music or reading a book and out of nowhere I'll feel like the world is falling apart and it's my fault that it's happening. It's the worst feeling in the world, but it always passes with a bit of time. And I usually feel stronger afterward. Not to sound cliche but, what does not kill us makes us stronger.
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