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 Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 1:55 pm
Ryu_Chichu inspires me to feel free to ask anything... I've been in a relationship with someone for over 4 years now and we're engaged but I recently fell for someone at work. Im IN LOVE with my fiance but I have a LUST for my co-worker. Am I a bad person? What should I do?
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Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 3:34 pm
you are NOT a bad person. lus is natural
my bf actually encourages me to flirt with other people, because we both think that it is healthy and natural. as long as you do not decide to persue this work-person then you are not doing anything wrong.
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 1:25 am
[Hisa] Ryu_Chichu inspires me to feel free to ask anything... I've been in a relationship with someone for over 4 years now and we're engaged but I recently fell for someone at work. Im IN LOVE with my fiance but I have a LUST for my co-worker. Am I a bad person? What should I do? you are not a bad person di what ever you think is right beacuse you are the only one who can make that decion for your self its ok to flirt and talk with ur lover and see what he or she says about it... allways talk with ur parner frist about it because it will make things sometimes better if you both telling the truth about things
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 1:44 pm
I really wish it was that easy but my lover isnt as open-minded about our relationship as I am. My lover is very territorial and has a fit if anyone even looks at me.
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 1:43 am
[Hisa] I really wish it was that easy but my lover isnt as open-minded about our relationship as I am. My lover is very territorial and has a fit if anyone even looks at me. yeah i know how that is but do you really love ur lover??? and if you dolove ur lover then stay with ur lover...
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 9:44 am
I am going to stay with my lover. I would neva throw away what we have. We been through so much for over 5 years now. I jus want what my lover isnt giving me anymore. stressed
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 10:19 am
then ask for it
let him know that there is something missing in your relationship
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:49 am
[Hisa] I am going to stay with my lover. I would neva throw away what we have. We been through so much for over 5 years now. I jus want what my lover isnt giving me anymore. stressed then ask for it and talk to ur lover that you want some but not like everyday mabey like 0nce every other week something like that
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 9:07 am
[Hisa] Ryu_Chichu inspires me to feel free to ask anything... I've been in a relationship with someone for over 4 years now and we're engaged but I recently fell for someone at work. Im IN LOVE with my fiance but I have a LUST for my co-worker. Am I a bad person? What should I do? OMG! i inspired someone!? whee i have found that love takes forever to go away but lust comes and goes, follow your heart AND mind, not your ..........."whatever your working with" wink
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 11:45 am
Lol, thanx guys. You all gave very helpful advice. Wish me luck and I'll you you guys know what happens.
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 1:20 pm
Okay... Last night the unthinkable happen...
My lover told me that him wants more and not from me. Apparently he's been extremely attractted to my sister, my best friend and his best friends girlfriend lately. I was kinda happy but mostly upset. Does this mean our relationship has lost it's spark? He said he didnt want to leave me but he didnt know what to do. Any suggestions or advice?
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 4:26 pm
maybe you should both take a break, to find out what you "realy" want
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Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 8:41 pm
Ryu_Chichu maybe you should both take a break, to find out what you "realy" want I agree.
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Posted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 5:52 am
[Hisa] Ryu_Chichu maybe you should both take a break, to find out what you "realy" want I agree. yeah take a break before you end up getting hurt worse then you are now and sounds like hes confused and that he needs to think things out and while you two take a break just think about things and just ask your self is he the right guy for me
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Posted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 4:40 pm
i hope you two work things out
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