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 Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 12:27 pm
Vent 1 *twitch*
Okay so as you all know I am engaged to a much older man. However I am currently pissed because it seems all those who are closest to me including my best friend and made of honor do not think he is the one for me but still want me to be happy WTF?! What the hell is that supposed to mean?! oh wait it means you dont support who GOD picked out for me because he is older than I am and you cant see how it could ever work even though yall know I have never and probably never will get along with any male that is my age!!!!, or rather have never had an interest in them! I mean if Joseph was my age and still had the same personality and everything you would be all like "aww your so perfect together Im soo happy for you" and you would not be looking for reasons I shouldnt marry him. Yes I am aware that it will be difficult for us to have a family because of our age diffrence i am fully perepared to be picked on by our kids classmates and all that stuff but I dont frigen care I love this man!!! He is the right one for me He is the only one who has ever made me feel as secure as I do!!! so Im talking to my best friend an we get to this
Ay. says:
and right now we dont have a place for the wedding it doesnt look like and it makes me nervous
bob is the ruler of the world with cheese waffles at his side. says:
well...mayb its a sign lol....im jus kidding
Amy. says:
thats not funny
bob is the ruler of the world with cheese waffles at his side. says:
really im kidding.....
Amy. says:
still not funny sis
bob is the ruler of the world with cheese waffles at his side. says:
pleaz dnt b md @ me
bob is the ruler of the world with cheese waffles at his side. says:
i kno
Amy. says:
I forgive you but its still not funnym
I dont know about you all but I feel extreamly angry this is not somthing you should joke about I have never done any thing so mean to her when she is in a relationship, even if I knew they were bad for her I always said I was happy for her and wanted to know how things were going. This is the girl thats supposed to be my maid of honor, the only true friend I have ever had and she pulls this s**t. Of all people I would have thought she would have understood.. scream
No im not done with the rant yet! so Just sit back down and listen!
I am fing tired of getting told I want you to be happy blah bla bla you get the point by now. and its only by those that are close to me so it really hurts. those on the internets or that im just getting to know think we are right for each other cause they see him for who he is not his age! they dont judge him because he i so much older than me, or on the fact that he has not had the best life so has not been able to get a good career. that is why he is in the construction buisness. My ex Military man didnt make it all the way because he got injured and then when he did try to go to school his GI bill ran out before he could finish it off and they signed him up for a loan without him knowing what he singed somehow. *breaths* im okay realy I am....who am I kidding of corse im not okay I am in this apartment 600MIles away from the love of my life and surroneded by people who are judging a book by its fing cover grrrrrrrrr I feeel like like Stabing somthing to death wheres my katana when I need it eh? okay I think im done now
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Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 8:25 am
Well, what are ya waiting for?? mrgreen
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Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 2:45 pm
there is your rant ripper enjoy
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Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 7:35 pm
Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 5:58 am
Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol.
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 8:57 am
Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol.
your right.. there is allot of that going on sweatdrop
there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone who you met online and having a relationship with them.. so long as you eventually meet at least biggrin
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 11:33 am
ignatius25 Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol.
your right.. there is allot of that going on sweatdrop
there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone who you met online and having a relationship with them.. so long as you eventually meet at least biggrin Thanks *hugs* see most of the people on the net here support and understand now why cant I get my friends and family to see god it pisses me off..hmm I may have another rant comming soon well not exactly a rant but a question for help on somthing
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 12:22 pm
Unfortunately your friends and family may never see him like you do. It is the truth. Everyone has a preset idea on who their loved ones are going to end up with and most of the times that isnt the case.
I remember when I was with my ex husband. No one liked him... My family and friends were all against him... And they were right about him. Even though I loved him he wasnt the right one for me. We were together 8 years. Now I am not saying that that is what is going to happen to you.
In your heart if you love this man it doesnt matter what anyone thinks. Stay true to yourself. I know it would be better if your family and friends were behind it and the rest of society were but in time perhaps things will change.
You have to understand alot of people would be skeptical about what an older man would have in common with a younger girl. Why cant he find someone their own age. In truth age has nothing to do with it. I have seen your pictures, you two look very happy and fit well with each other from what i can see. Just continue to enjoy your relationship and try not to let other people get to you.
*huggles*
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Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 3:49 pm
Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol. Lol, yeah, but all those things combined.. that's probably why they don't like him. Just keep in mind that they're not doing it to hurt you, they're just worried. I mean, you've met him and you talk to him a lot... but have they met him? If so, has it been more than once? How much time have they spent with him or spoken to him? Most families don't like it when you marry someone they don't know well. O-o;; Which is understandable, I think.
heart
Either way, my mom's only 19 years older than I am. :]
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 7:09 am
Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol. Lol, yeah, but all those things combined.. that's probably why they don't like him. Just keep in mind that they're not doing it to hurt you, they're just worried. I mean, you've met him and you talk to him a lot... but have they met him? If so, has it been more than once? How much time have they spent with him or spoken to him? Most families don't like it when you marry someone they don't know well. O-o;; Which is understandable, I think.
heart
Either way, my mom's only 19 years older than I am. :] have the met him = Yes has it been more than once = Yes he lived with us for awhile when he was trying to find a job in ohio to be closer to me, he ended up having to go back to Kansas though cause there is no market in ohio right now on a side note He and I have alot in common but also still have are difrences and I almost always have fun with him, he makes me happy
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 7:17 am
Veunus Rahl ignatius25 Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol.
your right.. there is allot of that going on sweatdrop
there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone who you met online and having a relationship with them.. so long as you eventually meet at least biggrin Thanks *hugs* see most of the people on the net here support and understand now why cant I get my friends and family to see god it pisses me off..hmm I may have another rant comming soon well not exactly a rant but a question for help on somthing
the one before that probly woulduve lasted alot longer though... we were together for almost 2 years
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:24 am
Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol. Lol, yeah, but all those things combined.. that's probably why they don't like him. Just keep in mind that they're not doing it to hurt you, they're just worried. I mean, you've met him and you talk to him a lot... but have they met him? If so, has it been more than once? How much time have they spent with him or spoken to him? Most families don't like it when you marry someone they don't know well. O-o;; Which is understandable, I think.
heart
Either way, my mom's only 19 years older than I am. :] have the met him = Yes has it been more than once = Yes he lived with us for awhile when he was trying to find a job in ohio to be closer to me, he ended up having to go back to Kansas though cause there is no market in ohio right now on a side note He and I have alot in common but also still have are difrences and I almost always have fun with him, he makes me happy Then I really don't see what their problem could be.. except for the fact that people tend to have biases against relationships that develop on a computer screen.
*hugs*
Either way, only you matter. They're not marrying him, so they don't need to like him.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 11:19 am
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Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 7:20 pm
ignatius25 Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol.
your right.. there is allot of that going on sweatdrop
there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone who you met online and having a relationship with them.. so long as you eventually meet at least biggrin Hell my fiance and I met over the internet! We met over myspace lol We talked for 3 weeks and then went on our first date and well now were living together and engaged still going strong. My aunt met the man she is now married to from the internet. So there is nothing wrong with internet relationships! Prove people wrong.
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Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:31 am
Xx_zebby_xX ignatius25 Veunus Rahl Frau Svenja von Wolfsberg Oooooh the stereotypes that are built into this day and age!!
They're probably not even looking just looking at his age... but did you guys meet over the internet? I'm guessing since you guys are getting married that you've met face-to-face before, ja?
My friend Meghan is getting married next year to a guy she's been dating for.. oh about 4-5 years now. Problem is, they met over the internet. They met lots of times in person and have been living in perfect harmony together for the past almost 3 years now, yet there are still some people who're like "OMG YOU GUYS MET ON THE INTERNETZ THAT'S SO WRONG IT'LL NEVER WORK."
*le sigh*
As for the age difference, a lot of people either just think it's gross to marry someone who's old enough to be your dad (how big is the age difference, if I may ask?) or they'll just look at him like a sugar daddy. :[ Yes we met on the internet and he is 18years older than me I would have had a very young dad if he was my dad lol.
your right.. there is allot of that going on sweatdrop
there is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone who you met online and having a relationship with them.. so long as you eventually meet at least biggrin Hell my fiance and I met over the internet! We met over myspace lol We talked for 3 weeks and then went on our first date and well now were living together and engaged still going strong. My aunt met the man she is now married to from the internet. So there is nothing wrong with internet relationships! Prove people wrong. Yea I know I just wish my family and bestfriend would take there horse blinders off, I found out from another friend that my best friend is telling lies about me and my love to her older sister who also used to be my friend but I dont give a s**t.
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