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 Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 6:49 am
I had a situation that was completely new to me...and I am kind of curious how all of you would have handled it.
There was this new kid in town and we've been talking online...well I offer to show him around, because what the heck, I was new in town at the beginning of the summer...and it is helpful to have someone show you about.
We made plans for last night after I got back from a movie with a friend....While at work I get an email saying that he needed to cancel out plans because, while he liked that I had my own style, I wasn't "small enough" for him.
Needless to say- it hurt...a lot.
I've never had someone tell me that in the friend sense...I have had guys tell me they wanted someone smaller when it comes to dating...but this was in a 'trying to be a friend' scenario.
I ended up sending him an IM, which he ignored, saying that it was a pretty immature thing to do, and that I wished him good luck in SC..and all that jazz. My message was kind of biting and cold, but I needed to let him know how I felt.
I did end up saying something in myspace, facebook, and my online journals about it..but only that email to him.
How would you have handled something like that?
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 2:00 pm
Wow. What an a**.
Why did he bother to waste your time if that was how he felt? Hmph. Personally I would have been MUCH meaner. I would have made a juab such as "while I might not be small enough for you, I am willing to bet you are too small for me, and most women probably". But I am a b***h like that.
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 6:15 pm
He's probably one of those dicks that think "oh, a girl wants to hang out with me, she must want me"......and I HATE THAT!! Seriously, if he can't go out with a girl just as friends, then he needs a reality check. He's one day going to have to talk to and oh maybe....work with someone who's not a supermodel, and he can't just say "Oh, sorry, I don't want this job anymore. You're not small enough for me!"
What a p***k.
Personally I deal with these people by doing one of two things:
1. I get really mad and yell and scream at them
2. I pretend they don't exist.
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 7:59 am
Wow, that made me laugh. ^_^
Hah..he probably is too small for most women. xD
I never think of good things to say when I should say something...I'll have to remember that however.
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 10:53 am
Some people tend to be more attracted to people they find physically pleasing, not just on a romance level, but on a friendship level too. If this guy decided that you wern't good enough for him, because you wern't "small enough", I think that he might be a little to small minded to be a good enough friend for you. People who are like that, make me really sad. It's really hard to find good friends, for anybody. I know I struggle with it all the time. I might have never been degraded in that perticular way, but I know how it feels to be seen as less than human, You know? The best way to deal with that, is to stay positive. Self destructive thinking is a pattern, and you have to teach yourself to recgonize it. Find a healthy outlit for your anger, or fear, or sadness, and just let it all go.
Just remember, hoarding anger hurts you more than the person you're angry at.
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 4:01 pm
I've said it before and I'll say it again: People like that aren't worth your time.
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Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:10 am
O. MG. You were so nice to help him out...omg.. He isn't even worth thinking about. Asshimar I've said it before and I'll say it again: People like that aren't worth your time. and again Quote: I've said it before and I'll say it again: People like that aren't worth your time.
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 10:15 pm
i would have yelled and screamed my lungs out at him for being such a closed minded p***k (scuse my language)...
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Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 11:48 pm
since i have never lost my temper at anyone in my life (even though they are totally assholes), i would have send a nasty hatemail to him using creative insults. i really hate it when people reley on s**t like F*** YOU B****! lame a** insults in my opinion.
i really like that that one chick said about "your probably too small for women" that was wicked. i loved it! lol
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Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 12:59 am
Well maybe you should try setting him up with one of your guy friends eh?
I get isolated from people alot too for looking and acting like a stoner or so they say.
so I know the pain ahaha.
I can't help it. :/
Who made up this crazy rule that I have to be a stoner to be fun and creative? Bullshit. I pity people who depend on that sorta thing to be interesting.
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 9:13 pm
that b*****d, who gives a s**t
if your freind is chubby! They're your freind, not
some trophy!!!
Really, I dont what I would have done.
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