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My good friend had a girlfriend whow as BI. She lived in georgia and he lived in Toronto. For the first while they loved eachother alot but then he ebgan to change and eventually they broke up ebasuse she dumped him for a girl in germany . Being his first relationship when they broke up he was stupid and said he was thinking of breaking up with her before thuionking that it would help everything. Now she wont talk to him anymore , she yellls at him and screams/makes fun of him everytime he says hi or tries to explain everything and say sorry . eventually he got the thought of killing himself and he told her. later on she called hima baby and more anmes and she sitll wont return anything he says for an appoligie or anything. He still ahs the thought of killign himself in his head and idk .
But he Is Bi and he is a bit transgendered. Now he thinks hes not boyfriend meterial at all and thinks hed be better of beign a girl or not living at all. Like he acts liek a girl too , he like smakeup , clothes and even guys and i doont know what top tell him but he is one of the best guys in the world , hes loyal and super nice. He is kinda cute too but hes lost all the confidence that his super good friend have worked so long to help him build. Ie even seen him cry at the thought of her and how they used to eb and i truly dont know anymore. Infact hes acually more like a girl then a guy. I do think hed be better off a girl but it isnt pssible. hes like 6 foot 3 and has like size 14 mens feet. But i dont want him to killhimself either !
What should i do !?!

Okay, first off I'm going to send some links to a few websites (give me a second), also call the police or tell someone, no one is better off dead. This is unfortunately a big part of being transgender, there is a 50% suicide rate, and that's because people don't understand that passing isn't necessary! Your friend needs to be who he is, whether it's to be a girl or a boy or anything other. That is what you should do at first.

I'm sure Jaz would be perfectly fine with that, just make sure that they go through the screening process, if not, have him PM me okay? And also, does he go by he or she? Because if it's she, I'm terribly sorry and I'll refer to him as he wants biggrin

Okay tell him to PM me (if he has a Gaia account) I'm a transgender and LGBT rights activist, I know a lot of people and I'll help in anyway I can!

That's wonderful things worked out so well for you. Usually teenagers don't always get a warm reception telling people about transgender feelings. Geez I remember how my family reacted when I first told them about me.

To the poster: Anyway, I hope that you and your poor friend find some peace.