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[ Kyl ]

PostPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 2:46 am


-Sigh-

Thankx again.
Is it the same everywhere, as far as the sex thing goes? -
I can't change it anywhere else without surgery?
That's so f-d up...
PostPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 9:39 am


Yeah, sorry...

Right now New York is working on changing that for their state, but they're the only one so far.

And I agree it is f-ed up.

bakaseinen


[ Kyl ]

PostPosted: Sat Dec 16, 2006 11:40 pm


(:
Whatever.
I'll cross it out on my cards.
Put M.
If anyone gives me any s**t they can kiss my pale, white, proud, queer a**.
PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 3:19 pm


woot! i allready cross out my gender on papers and insert M/none.

Raven_Of_The_Sky


[ Kyl ]

PostPosted: Sun Dec 17, 2006 8:34 pm


(:
Yay-uh!
Parrtayy.
PostPosted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 9:24 am


Ugh.
So, I'm back with more questions.

How much has counseling cost for you guys that have been to it?
Has anyone else had top surgery, preferably "keyhole" surgery that can tell me how much theirs cost?

I've talked to my mom about top surgery and she's supportive of it.
But believe it or not I've managed this without bringing up my gender identity issues.
And I doubt she suspects it or would undersand if I tried to talk to her about it.
Not that she wouldn't try, right? ...I don't know.
So she still doesn't know about my genderqueerness/transgenderness. :/
And I want to get my name changed before I get my license, but I'm afraid to bring that up to here because the only excuse I have for wanting to change my name is because of those.--And she's going to pay for my top surgery for me when she saves it enough. So I'm afraid she won't if she knows about my gender issues, because she'll think I'm trying to change myself when in reality I'm trying to be myself, you know?
:/

[ Kyl ]


bakaseinen

PostPosted: Fri Mar 09, 2007 11:05 pm


Well for the time being I'm able to use insurance for my therapy sessions, so what would be like $140/session is reduced to a $25/session co-pay. I don't know how long I'm going to be able to keep my insurance, but I'm hoping it'll last a little while...

And I haven't had my surgery yet, but it's in the planning stage. All that's left is to save up the money, $6800 for a periareolar/keyhole with Dr. Fischer in MD (with my folks paying for the hotel stay since they're coming with). How much yours will cost will depend largely on who you go to to do it. Dr. Fischer has a flat fee for all mastectomies, whether keyhole or double incision, that's to cover everything. Other doctors have different fees.

There's someone in Cali I've heard a lot of people go to, a Dr. Michael Brownstein. He does both types of mastectomies and the prices I've heard range from $7500 to around $9000. Oh, and you might want to check out Transster, and look by different surgeons and surgery types to see who you like best. That helped me decide.

And although I think it's awesome that your parents are willing to pay, in my opinion, honesty might be in order. Especially if it's their money being used, it'd be a good idea to be clear on what it's being used for. That way there's less chance your parents can claim you were trying to deceive them or anything else that points to you as less than honest with them. And if it means you've gotta pay for it yourself, well that's just another obstacle to push past. Hell, I've gotta work almost two years and save up just about everything the government doesn't take to earn enough money for my surgery...and actually when I finally get it I think it'll feel much more worthwhile than if my parents had sprung for the cash...like they would... rolleyes ...
PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 9:50 am


Well it's only my mom that I even have a relationship with and that knows that I want the surgery and is willing to save up the money for it for me--I don't talk to my step father figure for reasons.

I'm afraid to talk to her about my gender issues now because I'm afraid she won't want to pay for the surgery anymore seeing it as me trying to change myself. I could save up the money myself if she didn't but I don't know how long it would take because I can't even get a job yet. I plan to pay her back for it , of course, but I won't be able to until I get my license and a job, which seems too long to wait to start being able to be myself and live my life, you know?

Thankx for the tip and I know about Transster and have been there before.
I guess I'm focussing on getting myself a good gender psychologist now, that's what's important.

I didn't know where to start, so I looked up psychologists in the phone book and for the most part it's a list of specific psychologist's numbers, that I know nothing of so I'm going to try the internet.

[ Kyl ]


Raven_Of_The_Sky

PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 5:09 pm


[Tk]
Well it's only my mom that I even have a relationship with and that knows that I want the surgery and is willing to save up the money for it for me--I don't talk to my step father figure for reasons.

I'm afraid to talk to her about my gender issues now because I'm afraid she won't want to pay for the surgery anymore seeing it as me trying to change myself. I could save up the money myself if she didn't but I don't know how long it would take because I can't even get a job yet. I plan to pay her back for it , of course, but I won't be able to until I get my license and a job, which seems too long to wait to start being able to be myself and live my life, you know?

Thankx for the tip and I know about Transster and have been there before.
I guess I'm focussing on getting myself a good gender psychologist now, that's what's important.

I didn't know where to start, so I looked up psychologists in the phone book and for the most part it's a list of specific psychologist's numbers, that I know nothing of so I'm going to try the internet.


google is your friend. 3nodding
PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 9:08 pm


Lol, yes.
I've been using Google forever.
<3 [:

[ Kyl ]

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