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 Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 1:05 pm
It depends on the trauma. Some things will heal, some things won't, but either way you should make an effort. It's a case-sensitive thing, though, how you should go about healing.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 9:40 am
Time makes wounds easier to deal with and makes the pain more bareable..but i dont think your wounds are completely healed. Example:
I am 19 now when I was like 3-4 I was abused psychically and emotionally by my parteranl father and his wife (my step-mom) Today i suffer from pstd, depression, low self-esteem and what not.
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Posted: Mon Jul 24, 2006 7:58 pm
I don't believe time heals all wounds at all. This saying is only there, to comfort people, and that saying is probably what relieves the tension, and the hurt after awhile, just because people have heard that "time heals all wounds", and they think "well, it's been a long time, i think i'm going to be over it soon" or it digresses, and it slowly gets better, but all the people do is submerge the hurt, and the pain deep within their subconscience. It's like love. No matter how old you are, you can feel the love deeply, and time doesn't heal this wound ever, especially if you still love her with all your heart, but you know you can never have her....And you would give anything to have her, you would do absolutely everything for her. I believe with this paragraph i've showed well how time in fact doesn't heal wounds, but only submerges it.
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 6:04 pm
I think that this refers more to people forgeting the intensity of an incident.
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Posted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 6:17 am
It is my opinion that for emotional wounds, time can heal them with a little help. Granted, it really depends on the severity of the proverbial "wound" in question. Sometimes, things can leave heavy scars on an individual and lead to problems later. Some traumatic events can eventually lead to Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, for example. As well, not everybody is the same when it comes to coping. Some people need support and somebody to talk to while others do not. In the end, it really depends on who the person is and what the problem is before one can asess the best way to help them cope with their problem and help their wound become a scar, in a manner of speaking.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 1:06 am
Only about 1/3 of what Freud said could really be backed up with psychology today.
Anyway, I'd agree with many that it depends. It depends on the trauma, their environments, personality (some seem to get over things easier than others in my opinion), and support they get. Some people don't get over things, that's just how things are.
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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 9:53 am
I believe it depends on situation and the person themselves. I have been through verbal and emotional abuse and some neglect. While it took time...a LONG time to heal...I have healed, thanks to friends and the personal willpower to go on with my life. (I couldn't afford therapy back then)
But as with all wounds, there's always a scar or two to remind you of what you have gone through...it just depends on you to make it remain there, or for it to heal
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