Neko_Bast
the best way to not feel frumpy is just buy some new cloths. that helped me alot. I just had my husband take the little one for a few hours and me and my sister when out to get me some pants and shirts that actualy fit. ^_^ Even one or two items will inprove your mood. I also got my hair cut. ( though little one still puts my hair in his mouth....)
I'm sure that would indeed help a bit, unfortunately we've been a little strapped for a while so moneys went towards other things. But as soon as I get a little extra cash I'll make it a point to do that for myself. Not to mention it'd probably be better to do that after I lose a little more weight. I got a 20$ gift card for my b-day and went shopping just to get a pair of pants and I was kind of a mess about it. Trying things on and nothing seeming to fit right or look good was really upsetting to me. I am losing though and I know it just takes time.
Neko_Bast
What are you doing for your little ones first b-day? are you haveing a party? gona make a cake?
I made my sons cake, chocolate with buttercream frosting. It looked like the ocean with his bath toys as the sea creatcher. The party mostly consited of family....we has a lot of family in town.
Well all her fathers family is here in town but all of mine are 2 hours away so we'll probably have two little get-togethers for her, one here and one there.
