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Lately I've noticed a few users with the following image in their sig:

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Now, first off, I don't know who has made it. I don't know if has a petition associated with it, or how many people share the sentiment. However since I don't really care, but I find the sentiment expressed interesting, here we go.

I'd say to ED users not to take this too personally, but I know that's impossible since everyone thinks you're talking about them, because people are self centered like that.

I've looked over this sig few times and thought about it, and felt the urge to point out what's wrong with it, and what's wrong the mentality behind it, and explain why I think that this mentality is having a negative effect on ED, or is in part contributing to further problems in the extended discussion

And since I adore this forum because it lets me wax poetic about other forums, something I love to do when procrastinating, which I do often, here we are.

So the image asks the question:

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Is it wrong to post something in ED, even if it doesn't really count as discussion simply because you want intelligent people to see it?


And the answer is yes. Yes it is wrong.

Why is it wrong?

Two big reasons, the first really obvious.

1) Extended Discussion is a bloody discussion forum. This is pretty clear from the name, the description, and the guidelines to using the forum.

So then it is naturally quite incorrect to make a non discussion thread in a forum intended for discussion. The forum is not called 'smart people talk here' but rather 'have discussions here'. This is key for reason #2.

Now that we have the painfully obvious out of the way, reason #2.

2) The sig assumes that ED has a larger percentage of intelligent people than other forums on Gaia.

*bzzt*

Wrong.

Sorry folks. We should have stopped deluding ourselves about that back in december of 2003.

Having discussions does not make one intelligent or intellectual. Talking about serious issues does not make one intelligent or intellectual. It is only how you do so that reflects intelligence or intellectual ability.

And yet, somehow the two have become so intrinsicly associated together in the minds of many ED users that ED is considered the 'smart' or 'intelligent' forum, thus giving users who post there a false sense of self importance over those who might choose to spend their time on Gaia posting in other areas and on other topics.

And this might once have been true. When Gaia had 40,000 accounts and most active ED posters were over the age of 18 and could type a complete sentence without using netspeak.*

But guess what? Things change. ED has not just changed, Gaia has changed.

There are a lot of different kinds of people on Gaia who come here for lots of different reasons. The large majority are young teenagers.* This has not always been the case, but it is the case now.

And this demographic change has in general been reflected in all forums on Gaia.

There are smart people and dumb people spread all over Gaia. The thing that seperates ED from GD or CB are the types of threads in the forum, not the user base.

If it were the user base, there would never be a non-punctuated, one line reply to an ED thread ever. But there are. There weren't always, or they were lower in frequency, but now there are lots and lots more, because more and more there are users in ED who are not up to the 'standard', whatever that is, of what ED users want to think of themselves as.

And this is natural. Because ED is not in a vacuum. It is part of a larger forum on Gaia, and Gaia is a forum that, depending on how nice you want to be, either is welcoming to everyone, or caters to the lowest common denominator. So a user is welcome to spam their heart out for gold in CB and then trot over to ED to spew forth their opinion on abortion. And they do just this, because that is the sort of forum Gaia is intended to be.

The more time you spend out of ED and in other forums, the more you realize that there are quite a few pretty bright, interesting people who've never set foot in ED because they've no interest in doing so. A good deal of that lack of interest is drawn from ED's self cultivated reputation as pseudo-intellectual assholes.

In conclusion:

ED isn't the smart people's forum. The average ED poster isn't any brighter than your average GDer or music forum regular.

Get the ******** over yourselves.


*If you flame me or get pissy at me for implying that the older you are the smarter you are, you can go bugger off now. Like it or not, age correlates positively to knowledge, skill, and experience. There will always be exceptions, so I am not saying all teenagers are dumb or cannot have intelligent discussions. Far from. What I am saying is that in general, an older, college age demographic will be better able and more inclined to have an intelligent, informed, rational discussion and so the overall age of the people who frequent a forum determines the quality of discussion contained within it.

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Very well said. This is the second rant of yours I've read recently, and again I agree with you wholeheartedly.

I find it quite ironic that the maker of the signature is 'intelligent' enough to require a forum all of their own, but not intelligent enough to realise that 'intelligent nondiscussion threads' do have a place already, and that Gaia is divided into forums by subject, not by the intelligence of the users you wish to share your views with.
Really, although I agree that the majority of Gaia needs to stop thinking of themselves as more intelligent than everyone else on the site, it's pretty useless to tell them to stop like this. It's satisfying to rant, but the only people that are going to read this and listen are the ones that it wasn't directed at. *shrugs* Well thought out, though, and well written.
I, myself, have been in a few sides. From CB, to ED, Music, GD, and GCD. To tell you the truth, I have never seen more or less intelligence in either forums.

I've seen that signature before and I thought it was pretty annoying and useless.
The problem, although I wouldn't have phrased it so condescendingly, is that the subforums of gaia are so massive that they are like their own communities. ED's exclusive users along are probably a larger community than most entire forums. It's understandable that they might want to talk with eachother about other things which eachother instead of strangers. The trouble is that you're not going with the way the forum is supposed to work.

If GD or Chatterbox asked for an "extended discussion" forum they would be told to come here, and that would be just as reasonable as ED being turned down for a general discussion subforum. If you want your own segregated community of whatever-it-is-you-thin-you-ares, then make a guild or go to another forum.

If you were really lucky someone would make a ED-general discussion guild and get it advertized in such a way that everyone would know about it. Don't count on something like getting a subforum that goes against the nature of it's parent. it won't happen.
TriskDaemon
Really, although I agree that the majority of Gaia needs to stop thinking of themselves as more intelligent than everyone else on the site, it's pretty useless to tell them to stop like this. It's satisfying to rant, but the only people that are going to read this and listen are the ones that it wasn't directed at. *shrugs* Well thought out, though, and well written.


*shrugs*

It killed time and entertained me and in the end, that's what Gaia is really about. I may go spam it about to attract its target audience though. Especially as said target audience compounds its problems by never getting out ED, as they're often 'above' posting in other forums.
Hey, you da mod. Out goes the sig.

I actually forgot who I stole it from, but it seems to have spread quickly.

I guess the guilds system eliminates the need for chat places for he or she who considers hisself or herself to be mentally superior.
Dx have I mentioned I love you lots~? heart it's so satisfying to see something that's not NPC-related on the front page of this forum. ^^

Can't see the image, since firefox is hating against me big time, but I'll twiddle with it on IE later. ^^

I agree though. I consider myself er.. not stupid, but I wouldn't set foot in ED. :/ just doesn't seem like a very welcoming forum, y'know? x___x;
The way I see it, people (myself included-though not as obsessively) in ED are in love with the dellusional bullshit in regards to the fact that being funny must automatically mean that one is intelligent.

Regulars--who can feel free to shoot me upon reading this (only to have me shoot back them ;o) seem to focus on the fact that making all the dead jokes, and using all the "cheer up, emo kid"-like "smart" pictures qualifies them to be intelligent.

And they're not. You're not, dudes. "Woah. Whuts up, man? I heard you were dissing my pictures, like? That they're not smart enough? That's not cool! LikelikeohmyGod."

I've been a not-so-popular member of that forum since mid-November 2003, maybe. I've seen actual intelligent people be replaced with replicas "Made in China", who miss the entire point of the forum, and seem to interpret "Extended Discussion" to mean "Wannabe Comedians Hangout, LOL". Sure, I'm guilty of making bullshit posts, but that was my own vain attempt to 'fix' the problem, and sucking at it.

I guess I'm saying that ED isn't as good as a forum as it used to be. The fact that it is disliked largely has to do with morons choosing to flame misplaced thread, or lost idiots rather than attempting to make a damn thread. Some regulars have gone so far as to confess the fact that they suck at making discussion-worthy threads. They choose to blatantly 'hang around' and be general jackasses.

I again, mention that I'm not innocent of the general funny-lame threads, or promoting the false ED image. I just choose to be a good hypocrite and pwn myself before anyone else does.
The nature of ED now is exactly as it's always been: discussing things in an extended fashion.

What this means is that the topic is organic -- it can change, grow, even sprout off into different directions. With this in mind, ideal ED threads are made with this mindset, and such change is not only expected and prepared for, but incorporated into it from the get-go.

However, people have taken Extended Discussion to be everything above the "is masturbation wrong?" line, with such threads being flamed out of the forum by people attempting to emulate the Voltron, Angsty Shem, et al. Essentially, the defaulted elitist nature of the forum has been cultured, grown, and distilled into newbies that can't distinguish between something thought-provoking and something involving the Pope's death.

Under the current rule of ED, a thread about popcorn is unpermissable, yet a non-discussive thread that's simply stating the opening poster's emotions is totally acceptable.

Not to mention that those who put themselves in command of clearly labelling spam can't be bothered to file an actual report.
Anatolia

I've been a not-so-popular member of that forum since mid-November, maybe.


Off-topic, I like you sad

why do you think you're not so popular? XD
gigacannon
Hey, you da mod. Out goes the sig.

I actually forgot who I stole it from, but it seems to have spread quickly.

I guess the guilds system eliminates the need for chat places for he or she who considers hisself or herself to be mentally superior.


Gaia is memetastic! Where's lysia when I need her?

And this doesn't have to do with me being a mod. It has to do with me being a bitter ED user since ED was created.
Noraboo
gigacannon
Hey, you da mod. Out goes the sig.

I actually forgot who I stole it from, but it seems to have spread quickly.

I guess the guilds system eliminates the need for chat places for he or she who considers hisself or herself to be mentally superior.


Gaia is memetastic! Where's lysia when I need her?


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Lysia
Anatolia

I've been a not-so-popular member of that forum since mid-November, maybe.


Off-topic, I like you sad

why do you think you're not so popular? XD

<3

xD Because I'm not.
Adesinia
The problem, although I wouldn't have phrased it so condescendingly, is that the subforums of gaia are so massive that they are like their own communities.


That's because you're a lot nicer than me, sweetie. heart

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ED's exclusive users along are probably a larger community than most entire forums. It's understandable that they might want to talk with each other about other things which each other instead of strangers. The trouble is that you're not going with the way the forum is supposed to work.


True. This is why forums tend to generate 'chat threads' and threads that aren't appropriate for the forum, but don't fit in anywhere else, because they're designed to address the specific regulars of the forum. As such they don't make sense anywhere else, but still aren't appropriate for the forum they are in.

When Gaia was smaller, it was possible to have 'exception' threads. They contributed to the community and were fun. I made a few myself even. That's less possible now, because exceptions are seen as rules, and they now feed into the negative sense of community. Instead of being inclusive communities, forums tend to become exclusive communities, hostile to new users they see as being unfit or not meeting their standards.

These cause a pressure for conformity within the forum, and result in a very onesided representation of users. Users who do not conform but still have the desire to stick around and post are rare.

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If GD or Chatterbox asked for an "extended discussion" forum they would be told to come here, and that would be just as reasonable as ED being turned down for a general discussion subforum. If you want your own segregated community of whatever-it-is-you-think-you-ares, then make a guild or go to another forum.

If you were really lucky someone would make a ED-general discussion guild and get it advertized in such a way that everyone would know about it. Don't count on something like getting a subforum that goes against the nature of it's parent. it won't happen.


Indeed.

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