"Dear sally.... " Need some one to talk to? Then come on in | First Page | Forum

Toboekyo · 2007-06-22T16:40:11-07:00

[align=center][size=24][b]Welcome![/b] [/size] [size=18]H[/size]ello there, this is a forum for anyone who needs some one to talk to but would not like there avi to be seen in the actual thread. All you have to do is Fill out the form and tell me [i]Sally [/i] what your problem is. You must be clear while you explain it for me to help. I will give you my opinion and what might help. If it does not work out I am not to be held responsible for it. [b]Steps on how to get to...

Gaia Forums » GAIA Gaming » Mini Shops » Services

Thank you		100.0%	[ 35 ]
Total Votes:	[ 35 ]

Report ad

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Post: 28677123_1 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:40:11 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:40:11 +0000

Welcome!

Hello there, this is a forum for anyone who needs some one to talk to but would not like there avi to be seen in the actual thread. All you have to do is Fill out the form and tell me Sally what your problem is. You must be clear while you explain it for me to help. I will give you my opinion and what might help. If it does not work out I am not to be held responsible for it.

Steps on how to get to sally:

1. PM me the problem and form
2. Chat in here, and do not discuss YOUR own problems. The whole point is to keep it on the DL
3. I am going to post the problems in the Advice column in the thread. Your name will NOT be shown and if yours is up there no one will know its you.

Rules:

Please follow ToS
Keep with in the rules of how to get to sally
Respect all the problem that are posted in the Advice column.
If I see you not respecting them and being immature you will most likely get reported. (which I really dont want to do.) So please behave.
If you just want to chat then you are more than welcome to chat with me in this thread or through PMs.

Q&A
ToFu! says: "I don't mean to be rude or anything, but I'm wondering why you are charging at all for your 'service'?"

"Unless you have a background in psych or therapy, I wouldn't think charging for advice people can get for -free- all around Gaia is the best idea."

"I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just wondering why you are charging gold to ask for help?"

Answer: Im really not in it for the gold, but I charge only because their is not a service already. I do give help to thous all over gaia for free. I just think the service area should have a service for those who wouldnt want their names seen. Also The amount of gold given is more of a donation, thats why there is no set price. (donation are for the items on my wish list here : My quest thread )

~Intro~Form~Advice~post 1~post 2~

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_2 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:46:30 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:46:30 +0000

Form

You PM this to me Do Not post in forum amount of gold you will pay for advice will vary on how complex your problem is. It is your decision on how much gold I deserve on my advice.

If you are low on gold I will give advice for as low as 10 gold!!! Even at this price I will not give you any less then I would some one paying 100gold.
also the gold given is more of a tip, you are not paying for an answer. If you do not have any gold whats so ever than you are not expected to pay. This is a service but it is respectable to pay for someones service as is.
"I am here for you the customer and money should never stand in the way of a problem and an answer."~Toboekyo (sally)

Name:
[align=left]Amount given: (an estimation on what you are offering.It may change after advice is given.)
Problem: (please explain clearly and dont leave any detail out. The more you tell me the more I can help) [/align]

~Intro~Form~Advice~post 1~post 2~

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_3 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:50:00 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:50:00 +0000

Advice Column
(You can read what others have asked and what I have told them. I hope they can help you in some way)

Quote:

Problem:There is this guy and he acts like he likes me and is always trying to show off and act all big and bad around me I went to a dance and I was dancing in a group with me friends he was trying to dance with me and my friend chased him off.I think that kinda hurt his feelings after they told him i didnt like him after they didnt even know.Any advice?

What sally has to say:
Well , I would say if you do have feelings for him. Even a hint of something you should talk to him and apologize for what your friends did. I would advise that even if you dont like him more then on a personal level. He is just trying to get your attention. Both guys and girls try to impress their crush. Its our way of getting them to see us at our best moments. And maybe attract them to us. The most you can do right now is talk to him. Maybe settle the constant showoff routine as well? Make sure you tell him everything straight out. The worst thing to do is say something like. "I think I like you" or "I dont know if I like you" this is leaving room for more problems to a cure. He may still look your way and try to impress you but just stick to being direct with what you are saying to him. Last thing, if you dont like him dont blow him off. Thats one way to make both of you feel horrible and ruin any chance of being friends -or a relation ship- from forming.

I hope I could help you out!
Best wishes ,Sally

Quote:

Problem:Dear Sally,

Me and this guy went out for almost two years.

My sister's wedding was about a month ago and we had a family trip to Las Vegas two weeks ago.
And me and him haven't been talking so much in between those times. When I came back, he never asked me to hang out, and when I asked him to, he always said he was "busy".
Later on in the week, he broke up with me because he complained about how I never talked to him and how we never hanged out as much as we did.
And well, I told him that I tried to but that he denied it.
He told me that we'd be the bestest of friends.
But then about an hour after we broke up, I found out he was with another girl already.
And it kinda made me think he was dating her before he even broke up with me. Or that he had a line of girls at his feet.
It's probably not true, but it really seemed like it.

My friends have met his girlfriend, and they've said she acts like a whore.

And well, I ran into him a couple of days ago and asked him how him and his girlfriend are. And then we had a conversation, but he acted like he didn't wanna talk to me anymore.

We talked to each other yesterday on the phone, and I told him EXACTLY how I felt. He told me he's sorry and that he still loves me and stuff. But that he doesn't wanna come back to me for some reason, that it's too late.
Weeeell, we were both crying.

But then likeee, 15 minutes into the conversation, he started to take it less serious and think I was joking.
He started trying to make me laugh, and I tried bringing back the conversation tons of time, but he refused to talk about it.

-----------------------------------------------------------------

I still love him, tons.
Almost everything reminds me of him, and the times we've had together.

But IF he asks me out again, should I accept it?
If he doesn't, should I try to get him back? Or should I leave him?

((( There's still tons of the story left, but this is the main part of it. )))

Signed,
Anonymous

What sally has to say:
Well, I think that your going away for a period of time really put a strain on him. I hate to say it but if your friends say that his new g/f is a whore then maybe he was lonely, she seduced him type of thing. Maybe he broke up with you in a way to protect you form the aspect of cheating on you. He seemes like he doesnt know what to do while your gone and just needs you to be there for him. He may not relize hes pushing you away.

If you truly do love him then show him by setting up a special date, something you two enjoy doing or maybe even a date to the 1st place you guys ever went as a couple? He may just be scared of loosing you so he broke up with you thinking you guys would break up anyways. I think he still cares for you hes just worried and scared. It wouldnt hurt going back out with him, But I wouldnt pursue him just yet. Hang out with him or talk to him casually and let him adjust. Once things seem to have settled down about this then maybe bring it back into play.

I hope it works out for you!
Love sally.

~Intro~Form~Advice~post 1~post 2~

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_5 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:52:25 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:52:25 +0000

Review form:

[align=center]Was the advice helpful?
will you tell your friends about it?
Would you ever come back for any other problems in the future?
From 1-10 ten being the highest what would you rate this service? [/align]

Reviews!

Quote:

Was the advice helpful? Very very very!
will you tell your friends about it? Of course! <333
Would you ever come back for any other problems in the future? Yes. ^^
From 1-10 ten being the highest what would you rate this service? 948506518910320561 billion kajillion boom!
{{{ 10 }}}

~Intro~Form~Advice~post 1~post 2~

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_7 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:55:48 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 00:55:48 +0000

Post two:
Employees

-Sally's assistant -
(they will be helping me keep track of everyones problems and come to a conclusion on what the best solution would be, they are the mods of this thread pretty much)

rini_21

~Intro~Form~Advice~post 1~post 2~

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_9 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:05:35 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:05:35 +0000

Stats:
Online and looking for growth.

Opening day:
June 22 2007

Wanting:
I may make this into a group effort. Meaning I may higher a few people who can help with advice. But they will have to fill out a resume. And even an interview.

Number of gaians helped so far:
2

Links/banners

[url=http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=28677123]
[img]http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b142/toboekyo/doll-image.png[/img][/url]

[url=http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=28677123]
[size=18][IMG]http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b142/toboekyo/adl467f05c2987828.gif[/IMG][/url]

Help out in the following threads!
Your presence is needed/appreciated in the following threads.

User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_10 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:08:49 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:08:49 +0000

heart Open! heart

rini_21

(?)Community Member

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_11 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:09:49 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:09:49 +0000

Ooh, I've ALWAYS wanted to be an advice columnist! I would love to apply for a position if you're currently interested in hiring people.

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_12 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:14:09 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:14:09 +0000

Oh that would be great. Alright, What would you want to do exactly. Would you like to be one Dear sally? Or just the person to write up the advice I give?

I will interview you for the job and get the details straitened out once I know what you would like to do.

rini_21

(?)Community Member

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_13 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:15:27 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:15:27 +0000

I can be either. Whichever you need most right now, i would be glad to do.

Toboekyo

(?)Community Member

covenant-hunter's Wife

Dapper Fatcat

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_14 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:29:57 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 01:29:57 +0000

Right now I think we should both work on each problem. Two heads are better than one.

But what are you more comfortable at? If some problems are to uncomfortable for you, let me know and I will take over it.

Also I would like a small sample of your writing if thats okay. About 10 lines, it can be about why you want this job, or anything along those lines.

last but not least I do not have enough gold to pay you at the moment so you will be Sallys assistant. Once we get enough business you can have your own section in the thread. And the buyer can chose who they would like for advice.

bekamonster

(?)Community Member

Genius

Offline

Report Post
Post: 28677123_15 created on Sat, 23 Jun 2007 02:15:34 +0000
Posted: Sat, 23 Jun 2007 02:15:34 +0000

..paralyzed by the same old antics..

Awesome idea! I was literally just thinking about why I'd never seen an advice column on gaia.. I think it's cute!

I'll be back if I have a question/issue ^^

..back and forth like some walking spastic..

Report This Topic | unblock images

1 2 3 4 5 6 ... 37 38 39 > >>

Gaia Forums » GAIA Gaming » Mini Shops » Services

Welcome to Gaia! ::

Quick Reply

More Information