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Love, like truth and beauty, is concrete. Love is not fundamentally a sweet feeling; not, at heart, a matter of sentiment, attachment, or being "drawn toward." Love is active, effective, a matter of making reciprocal and mutually beneficial relation with one's friends and enemies. Love creates righteousness, or justice, here on earth. To make love is to make justice. As advocates and activists for justice know, loving involves struggle, resistance, risk. People working today on behalf of women, blacks, lesbians and gay men, the aging, the poor in this country and elsewhere know that making justice is not a warm, fuzzy experience. I think also that sexual lovers and good friends know that the most compelling relationships demand hard work, patience, and a willingness to endure tensions and anxiety in creating mutually empowering bonds. For this reason loving involves commitment. We are not automatic lovers of self, others, world, or God. Love does not just happen. We are not love machines, puppets on the strings of a deity called "love." Love is a choice -- not simply, or necessarily, a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to others without pretense or guile. Love is a conversion to humanity -- a willingness to participate with others in the healing of a broken world and broken lives. Love is the choice to experience life as a member of the human family, a partner in the dance of life, rather than as an alien in the world or as a deity above the world, aloof and apart from human flesh

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debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 2:33 pm

debsdragons

ok sorry it took so long to reple I was killing a boss with peoples
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:48 pm

debsdragons

he already messed the front up
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:43 pm

debsdragons

no only atimatic...... thats why my dad wont let me drive his new fit
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:39 pm

debsdragons

yep and my mom want let me praktis in her car because I almost hit too cars in it
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:35 pm

debsdragons

yeah I still need lessons sad that my dad isn't paying for when he can
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:32 pm

debsdragons

not leave forever......... I still need to see my dad....
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:29 pm

debsdragons

being a jerk.... I'm moveing out of state
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:26 pm

debsdragons

yep but right now he's not being nice
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:23 pm

debsdragons

nothing I haven't even seen my bf. but I can't because my mom's coming home today from a 3 week trip
debsdragons

Report | 07/18/2009 1:14 pm

debsdragons

QH the same one I've been going to....

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