old name?
My orginal name is banned lol. it got hackzord and the hacker got it banned. It REALLY pissed me off.
I really need to come up with a new name.
Its okay. I completely understand a stalker actually broke me and my ex gf on here up because she wouldn't leave her alone. It gets stressful. Well I have to be up at 3am so I'm gonna go for the night. See you tomorrow?
Just got a reply that I thought you should hear:
"That's fine, it's just gonna get worse for her then. I'm no longer responsible for what happens."
Just thought I'd give you the FYI. =/
I skimmed about 1/3 of it. Yea even back in the day you'd have been Ban-Hammered for that lol. I've got nothing against furries but at the same time I don't much see the appeal. Though sometimes they can be rather hot sweatdrop
That would probably be for the best. I know that at least for me and my exs that if we both hadn't taken time to cool off (long periods) after every good sized fight we'd still be yelling at each other just because we never got the space.
Well I tried. Kinda proves your point that they messaged me when I have no idea who they are.
Would you like a Fw of the pm?
Personally? I'd leave it be. Me and my ex got into some knock down drag outs that ended horrible but we always came back to each other. Just... if he says never again. bite your pride and leave him alone but if he comes back don't ignore him. If he doesn't come back and a good long while passes then try again and apologize for making him choose like that because it was wrong you were just so hurt and would really like the chance to make things right. No promises it would work but it almost always has for me with exception of 1 case.
I honestly am only getting to different sides of this story that don't line up. That's why I hate being the middle man lol. I see you point but I can see theres too. I've "quit" gaia, facebook, myspace, cabal, flyff, and so many more games/sites yet still log in and reply to the stray message/comment that came in. Does that mean I've betrayed those people who I told I quit? no I simply was getting around to those people who obviously hadn't gotten the message yet. Granted your comments shouldn't have lead to all of this but things get blown out of control easily online. You admit it was pointed at her even though you didn't state the name. so technically you did say something about her. (just making sure you get that) Her friends are acting in the wrong and I've asked that they talk to them and try and get them to lay off. But someone shouldn't be judged by the actions of there friends. If you don't want to sit down and sort it out fine but it would be the right thing to do.
And just making sure that this is out there. I am choosing no ones side here I am simply stating my opinion and evaluation of the situation. sweatdrop Because I so don't wanna get drug into this mess lol
Well emails like the one you sent... don't end well just so you know. Goodluck with it though =/
Most guys at least see it as a ultimatum and will just get pissed and prideful and choose "never talk to you again" then regret it later on.
And they said that they aren't encouraging there friends to cause any trouble that they are doing it all by themselves because and I quote "you said horrible things about her on facebook". They are quite upset about how things are playing out between you two. If it was me I'd at least give them a chance to explain. I know my friends irl are stupid and would start s**t and make matters worse for me in this situation too. And honestly what could it hurt to sit down and have a little chat? I can only see it making things better not worse.
if you asked for 10 minutes of his time and he said no then just leave him be. I know it hurts but if you honestly want to try and fix things with him your best bet would be to give him time. If he is upset, hurt, or whatever time will heal it. Pestering someone about it will only cause things to get worse just like picking at a scab. Give him a couple weeks or a month or two then try again.
On a unrelated side not, your ex friend is messaging me. If their friends stop harassing you would you spend ten minutes with them to sort things out? It seems to me from what they have said that this entire thing is just a huge misunderstand between you two but I honestly don't know. It might be best for everyone though to just sit down and chat. I'll play referee to make sure no ones blood gets spilled ^^
Well years of build up gives a good well of emotion to pull from.
Well I really don't know you or him too well so my opinion might not be the bed. I find being blunt and honest the best route though and if that doesn't work then a simple heart felt message explaining everything of how you feel and what you want etc etc and if that still doesn't work the only real option you have is to give him space then try again later once things have smoothed over a bit. Personally I wouldn't do more than that because I don't want to give off the wrong impression.
Writing in general is hard to find inspiration for. 3nodding
I doubt you could bore me. Most people can't unless they make me constantly try and find topics to talk about.
We all have sides to us, just because someone might seem hurt, happy, desperate, or whatever other emotion they show doesn't make it all there is to them. It is only a side and if you want to get to know someone you must learn all of the sides not just the pretty ones either. This is my way of saying I will think no less of you no matter the topic.
I might depends on if i find the inspiration. I much prefer them to be about love not hurt and loss but they always seem to end that way these days. =/
Well like i said I can try and talk to her. Most mods are set to invisible so they won't get bothered, which is kinda funny in my opinion.
I was thinking of venting but it started coming out like that so I spotted venting and started writing honestly. That is why it is originally posted in TSC my venting forum.
I'd love to read one of yours some day I doubt they are as bad as you think. we are always more critical of ourselves than others are. ^^
And it is just wrote. wrotten isn't a word, written might be the one you were thinking of though.
Well the feelings were supposed to show my love, hurt, and hate all at once. I doubt I'll let who its about see it though cause she'll either cry or smack me. Probably smack me.
Alright your choice. I'm used to being the one people turn to cause I used to run so many damn guilds on different games. xD I hope you find one of the good GMs.
After a while constant pain becomes normal. -shrug-
I've only ever wrote like 4 poems and that was back in high school I think i got 1 or 2 in my journal if you ever want to read'em. I usually just write stories though (also in the journal) but I felt poetic today and just started writing. Its a amazing feeling letting the words, feelings, and emotions pour out like that. I honestly wish i was better at poetry but I usually have a hard time conveying myself through words. I hope to add to this one though.
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