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It's certainly been a while since I made one of these so just PM me if want to know anything else. Cool beans.
Name: Ryan
Nicknames: Ryan-Lion, or just Lion
I am currently in a university majoring in Flute Performance because I just love music that much. I play the flute and piccolo as my primary instrument(s) and have bassoon as my secondary. Almost all of the music I own is classical, but I listen to pretty much anything if I like it. If you want to talk music, then PM me, it's a great conversation starter with me (as you can see because I just did a whole paragraph pretty much on music)! xd I'm friendly and laid back and get along with almost anyone 3nodding so don't be afraid to add me as a friend, just maybe introduce yourself first, cool beans?
<3 Lion
Name: Ryan
Nicknames: Ryan-Lion, or just Lion
I am currently in a university majoring in Flute Performance because I just love music that much. I play the flute and piccolo as my primary instrument(s) and have bassoon as my secondary. Almost all of the music I own is classical, but I listen to pretty much anything if I like it. If you want to talk music, then PM me, it's a great conversation starter with me (as you can see because I just did a whole paragraph pretty much on music)! xd I'm friendly and laid back and get along with almost anyone 3nodding so don't be afraid to add me as a friend, just maybe introduce yourself first, cool beans?
<3 Lion
you chose BX - your Enneagram type is NINE (aka "The Mediator" wink
"I am at peace"
Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.
How to Get Along with Me
* If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.
* I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advantage of this.
* Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
* Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
* Ask me questions to help me get clear.
* Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
* Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
* I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
* Let me know you like what I've done or said.
* Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.
What I Like About Being a NINE
* being nonjudgmental and accepting
* caring for and being concerned about others
* being able to relax and have a good time
* knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around
* my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator
* my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now
* being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe
What's Hard About Being a NINE
* being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive
* being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline
* being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally
* being confused about what I really want
* caring too much about what others will think of me
* not being listened to or taken seriously
NINEs as Children Often
* feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant
* tune out a lot, especially when others argue
* are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves
NINEs as Parents
* are supportive, kind, and warm
* are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective
DONATORS/GIFT-GIVERS (who therefore have my undying gratitude):
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