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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2011 1:23 am


And We been going out for a while now. And I really want to give myself to him, and when I think about it, I feel like I'm ready. But as soon as we are in the moment and we're about to go farther, I get nervous... Like, REALLY nervous... And when I say that I think we should stop I can tell he's upset...I'm afraid I might loose him if I don't do something soon. HELP!
PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2011 10:16 am


have you two already talked about it because for me talking with the guy i like trying to fix any problems i see does help alot

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 18, 2011 4:33 pm


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And We been going out for a while now. And I really want to give myself to him, and when I think about it, I feel like I'm ready. But as soon as we are in the moment and we're about to go farther, I get nervous... Like, REALLY nervous... And when I say that I think we should stop I can tell he's upset...I'm afraid I might loose him if I don't do something soon. HELP!


Being nervous is always a normal reaction. It's finding out what makes you so nervous is probably the hardest thing to figure out. Now if he's understanding, he'll want to talk about it. If he's not, then best not take your chances, because despite the fact that you like him and he might be great and all, someone that wants to rush something like that is probably in the relationship just for that.

So ask yourself if he is willing to help you through it, and if not, then maybe you guys need to have a really long talk about your relationship in the first place, and then your second priority should be what makes you nervous about that moment.
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