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 Posted: Fri Aug 24, 2007 5:41 am
hi im new to dis guild so show me sum love but anyway i just met dis guy dat i really like and i really want to talk to him on a deeper level but i dnt think hes intrested in the same sex and i havent even came out da closet to anyone and the bad thing about it iz he goes to mi school and if i do try to hook up wit him and he rejects me hes bound to tell eveyone, people please help me!!!
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Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2007 7:06 pm
Coming out to anyone leaves the possibility of anyone and everyone finding out. Coming out to a guy that you like means the same thing. Cant really say more then that. If he is gay or bi, then you should be fine, but even then he might tell some of his friends, who might tell others, and so on. Cant say much more on that issue. >.>
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Shizuki Kisuke Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 2:44 pm
ok first off do u think he's gay or bi question
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Posted: Sat Nov 17, 2007 2:07 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 11:44 pm
heart heart heart ok first of all tell ur friends ur gay trust me theyll except u people at a younger age tend not to really care about that stuff its older people who care but ya come out to ur freinds so they now ur gay
2cnd of all go up 2 the guy and ask him if hes gay or flurt wiht him or something or even better if u have a gurl for a freind have hur go up and ask him if hes gay or bi or what not
and if he is then ur set but then if he isnt ur still set but ur not becuase hten people will already know ur gay and wont care so he dosent have enything over ur head but the bad part of that would be he isnt gay lolz
but ya search him on myspace and see if it says hes gay on his profile and all that stuff watch him and see if he flurts wiht chicks and all that stuff i mean its simple just pay attintion but ya just do what im telling u and everythings going to be ok but then agin it wont be ok becuase it could turn out that hes not gay but ya thats liek the worst sanareo here lolz heart heart heart
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 5:22 am
Heeeey.
Ok heres my deal. How close ARE you with him? Like i fell for my best friend so it was easy to do this. But anyway...ask him for advice...tell him one of your female friends likes you. He should be like...oh thats great (or somesuch) then tell him that the only problem is....*dramatic pause* youre gay! That gets THAT out of the way. Plus he is less likely to tell people becase you came to him in an "i need help" way...shows that you trust him and if he has a heart...he wont break that trust. Once you see how he reacts to that you should get SOME idea of how he is.
Hope that hellps!
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Posted: Sat Nov 22, 2008 6:22 pm
First of all, find some of your BEST FRIENDS!!!!!! and ask them what they would say if you were gay, if they ask why just say that you found out that one of your other friends were (don't give thhem a name tho cuz that will start trouble) then if they say the y would be okay with it and still be your friend and what not you can tell them.
secoond of all, get to know the guy. because you need to findout who he hangs out with and too make sure you like his personality. then see if any of hes friends are gay. then ask him advice on GF problems( make something up) because "you" think all of the girls flock over him and see what his reaction is to that. or you could do the enire walk up to him give him an odd look and and say " Are you gay?????
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Posted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 11:57 pm
BoyInPink heart heart heart ok first of all tell ur friends ur gay trust me theyll except u people at a younger age tend not to really care about that stuff its older people who care but ya come out to ur freinds so they now ur gay
2cnd of all go up 2 the guy and ask him if hes gay or flurt wiht him or something or even better if u have a gurl for a freind have hur go up and ask him if hes gay or bi or what not
and if he is then ur set but then if he isnt ur still set but ur not becuase hten people will already know ur gay and wont care so he dosent have enything over ur head but the bad part of that would be he isnt gay lolz
but ya search him on myspace and see if it says hes gay on his profile and all that stuff watch him and see if he flurts wiht chicks and all that stuff i mean its simple just pay attintion but ya just do what im telling u and everythings going to be ok but then agin it wont be ok becuase it could turn out that hes not gay but ya thats liek the worst sanareo here lolz heart heart heart I totally agree, friends care about you ^^. I was surprised at all of my straight guy friends who didn't care (kinda makes me wonder xP), but ya start by telling your friends ^^.
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