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 Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2011 4:04 pm
Ezer Tornado Name: Ezer Tornado (Rachel)
Age: 21
Occupation: College student
Location: California
Marital Status: Single
I'm a virgin by choice, and I want to be for the rest of my life. No, I'm not going into nunnery or anything. XD I just don't want to get married. Truthfully, I've never had a crush on anyone before. I really like guys, but they don't like me. ninja I've found a lot of guys attractive, but I've never acted on those feelings - I'm just too shy. =P
I think the reason sex is so appealing to people is because it was made to be that way - intense and, for lack of a better word, powerful. In my opinion, treating it like something casual is wrong - but that's just my opinion.
Anyway, I have a lot of respect for people who are virgins. To me, it shows a tremendous amount of will and self-respect toward themselves. I don't have anything against sex as long as its born out of love. I think if two people love each other, it's inevitable.
So that's about it. ^^
Oh and thanks for accepting me into the guild! Ohhh sweety, trust me: THEY LIKE YOU. They're just seriously intimidated by you. XD *hugs* I understand your black heart. <3 <3 <3
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2011 4:43 pm
And yet, although I say irresponsible things like that...
Name: Sakura Moonflower/ Saku/ Paula, Nice to meet you!
Age: 23
Occupation: an Awful sales person, soon to be unemployed. <3
Location: California, USA
Status: Single, and patiently waiting for the one that special someone. <3 (I think I've found his a** too, he's hiding in Canada. >_> )
My reasons to remain a virgin... for as long as I can.... are as vast as there are stars in the sky.
The reasons range from religious-which isn't the strongest, as it is only the reason I initially wanted to remain a virgin until marriage- to psychological-I was molested for many years as a child and narrowly escaped with my virginity intact. As a result, I prize it dearly, and protect it ferociously.
Can you honestly blame me?
Another aspect to the psychological is the fear of sex incurred by the molestation, the fear I have of myself for ever enjoying a single sexual act as I am disgusted somewhat by that fact due to what I endured as a child, and the fact that although I would love to have children some day, I am not in any hurry to rush myself into a situation where I am pregnant with a child the father does not want and the mother is without job security or a stable, livable income. I do not wish to raise a child without the ability for it to know who it's father is, and as a result I refuse to go to bed with merely anyone-I would choose quite carefully. I would not have sex with someone whom I thought would back out on the kid, or ******** up one too many times with my child, or who would just plain be a danger to my child. I'm not having it. Plus, I refuse to be a mother who failed in the financial aspect with my kid, so before I ever reproduce I want to be able to introduce the child to a relatively stable environment... and the beautiful world I was born into is being marred by too many stupid human beings put into positions of power. I also refuse to marry to anyone below the basic standard of deserving me. I'm not some prize to be won, but I will not be treated like some worthless creature. I refuse.
If you haven't guessed, one other reason I abstain from sex is because I don't want to have a child when I'm not ready for it-AKA risk an accidental pregnancy. The number one way to prevent pregnancy is to simply keep others the ******** away from me and that lovely place between my thighs. -_-;
I'm a friendly person, but as soon as someone hints a remotely sexual interest in me I am usually quick to squash it or spurn them completely. My weakness is strong and my fears rule me.
And people hint at sexual interest in me more often than I am comfortable with admitting. I am ashamed to say I'm quite the heart breaker, even though I don't have the number one positive view of my looks. Even so, I'm not necessarily ugly despite having been told that for the first thirteen years of my life by bullies. I'm not gorgeous, but I am strictly a virgin by CHOICE, NOT by default. I am quite adamant about my remaining a virgin for as long as I possibly can. XD Besides, I'm proud of being a virgin at my 'advanced' age. It's not something regularly attained, from what I've heard... all of my friends exempting maybe one have lost their virginity already, and a few regret it. I don't want that regret, and I'll do everything within my power to make sure I do not have that regret since for the most part it IS within my power. Exempting rape, I think I would sooner fight to the death than live with having my virginity stolen from me with force against my will.
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