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 Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2014 6:10 am
How do you feel when your first time having sex?
I've never had before >.<
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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2014 3:49 pm
My first time having sex I didn't really feel anything. The guy I lost my virginity to had a rather small p***s.
It wasn't until I met my husband that I actually felt anything during sex.
It didn't help that the guy I lost my virginity to had gotten spoiled by porn so much that he wasn't attentive during sex, in the 2 years he and I were together, we only had sex twice.
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 8:13 am
It always depends on the person and the situation.
My first time was great, but it happened after three months of fooling around with my boyfriend. It didn't hurt too much, and it ended quickly (it was also his first), but it was fun and a new experience. I remember being rather upset about it the next day, but for no reason than the strange societal guilt brought on from "losing your v-card."
Anyway, I suggest doing it with someone you trust and that you already have fun with. Not just with virginity but with sex in general, I don't give such a gift to someone who doesn't deserve it. This doesn't have to be your point of view.
It's likely going to take a lot of practice to have sex that feels amazing. Just pay attention to what your body likes and always communicate with your partner!
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2014 2:34 pm
It's an interesting experience.. If you are both virgins.. It was scary for my first time because I didn't know what to expect, but afterwards it was fine. As everyone says, it hurts at first.
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Posted: Tue May 19, 2015 5:07 am
My friend said it hurt and there's bleeding too. Although the pain differs from person to person...
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Posted: Tue May 19, 2015 3:15 pm
It's been a while ago....I remember I had a pinching pain until I relaxed.
The more relaxed you are the better. redface
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Posted: Thu May 21, 2015 9:15 pm
Well...my first was with a guy who was a virgin as well. I don't remember bleeding; but I do remember a bit of a discomfort. It wasn't as eventful as I thought it was gonna be and he tired easily. I didn't really feel anything until I met my third boyfriend who I'm happily with.
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Posted: Sat May 23, 2015 8:54 pm
Mine was.... weird. I was 13, and pressured into it.
not raped, tho.
and like, I expected it to HURT, and it was like... idk numb down there at first. I didn't like it yet but it wasn't painful either idk
everybody had me so scared lmfao
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Posted: Sun May 24, 2015 6:10 pm
I think it really comes down to who you have the sex with.
My first time having sex, it was with someone who I was kinda drunk with. It wasn't bad, and it was consensual, but it wasn't super special. I'm still friends with the guy.
When I met my current boyfriend, he was a virgin, so when we had sex for the first time, it was amazing for him because I knew what I was doing. Fortunately, it was pretty great for me just cause it was with someone I really liked, plus it meant something because we both knew what was coming.
So, again, I think it's up to who and how you're feeling.
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Posted: Wed Oct 21, 2015 4:48 pm
My first time of having sex was it was with my 1st legal boyfriend. It wasn't bad and he really know how to turn me on. The funny thing is that he only know how to turn me on through the internet. biggrin He's quite good at it.
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Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2016 1:19 pm
I have a fun story about this whee
I was about 16 and it was late august. My boyfriend of maybe 5 months and I were at his friend's cabin. The two of us were of course getting a bit more on the intimate side and on a bike ride we talked about having sex.
Our plan was basically
1) Drive back alone
2) Stop at a rest station
3) Utilize his new cars feature where you could put down the back seat for a long bed area
4) Lay out some blankets to make it cozy
5) Make love to the musical selections found on CBC 2
As you can imagine, this plan didn't quite work out. His mom ended up hopping in the car with us because she felt that the roads were too dangerous for us to be driving at that time and we didn't get the chance to achieve even step one. This made us antsy to take off our panties when we got back to the city so we met up again and talked. After coming to the conclusion that neither of our houses would be right places to pop the cherry we spent the night sexually frustrated in a field full of schools. Bored out of our minds and wanting something to occupy our hands we take to a pastime of ours, climbing the catholic elementary school at the end of the field and kicking the ball thats up there-here's the catch though; once we were up there making out happened instead which led to a little hands down pants action which ultimately led to some very chilly and scratchy sex.
If I were to describe what having sex on the roof of a catholic elementary school is like Id say it is both awkward and rebellious. Awkward because neither of us had any idea what the ******** to do, not to mention how scratched up every inch of our skin was (I looked like I had passed through a wood chipper by the end of it all). Rebellious because well I was loosing my virginity as an unmarried teenager on the top of a catholic elementary school.
From what I remember there was literally no vaginal pain or bleeding probably because I was realllllyyyy horned up for the whole thing, my knees and back were a different story (words of advice, getting pebbles in scrapes stings like nothing else). Id say that the experience was blissful for me and I believe every other person on this earth deserves such an experience if they wish it.
Remember though, make sure that there is enough lubrication in any hole you're sticking stuff into (thats how you avoiding bleeding and pain. The v****a actually expands when aroused and if aroused enough will produce enough natural lubrication to keep your dainty parts safe), always use protection unless you know for 100% that your partner is clean AND you are trying to get pregnant, and don't get down and dirty without consent from all parties involved.
Otherwise, happy s*xing!
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2016 10:03 pm
Let's just say my first time left me saying "that wasn't it was it?"
The guy was very kind and i trusted him. He made sure i was comfortable and if i was feeling any pain he would stop.
For the most part though i didn't bleed but it was a little uncomfortable at first but it went away pretty quick.
The whole situation was pretty much over before it began.
Like others i was super scared about it. I thought it was going to be super painful and blood just everywhere and that wasn't the case at all. It depends on the person.
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2016 11:32 pm
I mean ultimately virginity is a social concept, not a physical experience...
But people emotionally experience sex in different ways. For me, sex wasn't and isn't a big deal at all so my "first time" was quick, painless, and easy with another girl. Since then I've had a few equally pleasurable experiences.
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Posted: Thu May 18, 2017 8:34 pm
First time I had it.
It hurt a little then I was fine.
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