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 Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:04 pm
and if we were still made to share everything, I would share this moment with you.
Not really. Chelsea and I got into our real first argument today. . .
I hope she's okay. I wish I was with her. . . She gets depressed over a lot.
What do you do when you can't make the person you care about most happy?
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:06 pm
Something I've learned the hard way is that sometimes you just have to leave them alone. Let them know you still love them, but give them their space and time to work things out on their own.
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:22 pm
I guess so, but it's tough just to stand by and watch somebody you care about be miserable, you know?
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:44 pm
Oh, I know, but if you keep trying to make them feel better, they'll either get annoyed at you for bugging them or start to feel bad that you feel bad, in which case they (and you) lose sight of the original problem, so it never gets solved.
In a side note, I think that's the longest grammatically correct sentence I have ever written. ninja
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:03 pm
Congratulations Song!
I think we're okay now, both of us. I'm glad that's over. . . for now. =P
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 7:12 pm
I'm glad to hear it. Fighting sucks, but sometimes it makes you closer, as long as you can deal with it in a mature way.
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 2:36 am
I know what you mean XP me and my ex-gf used to fight a lot. And then I mean A LOT! Like... once or twice, maybe three times a week in periods razz it wasn't fun, but it... kind of was worth it. I think there can't be a healthy relationship if your don't fight sometimes. It's hard to watch someone being hurt though, that's true. But I agree with song.
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 3:55 am
I think you can have a healthy relationship without fighting, but not without disagreeing sometimes. Just depends on how you handle it.
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:09 am
songwriterscramp I think you can have a healthy relationship without fighting, but not without disagreeing sometimes. Just depends on how you handle it.
Fighting is a relative term. Quarreling is fighting, in a way. Just like you can call war for 'conflict'. It doesn't go with what you normally associate with the term, but it can be used still razz
I'm not saying you have to fight until you bleed, literally, to have a healthy relationship ninja
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:26 am
DeathIsInLoveWithMe songwriterscramp I think you can have a healthy relationship without fighting, but not without disagreeing sometimes. Just depends on how you handle it.
Fighting is a relative term. Quarreling is fighting, in a way. Just like you can call war for 'conflict'. It doesn't go with what you normally associate with the term, but it can be used still razz
I'm not saying you have to fight until you bleed, literally, to have a healthy relationship ninja
Or are you? ninja
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:30 am
songwriterscramp DeathIsInLoveWithMe songwriterscramp I think you can have a healthy relationship without fighting, but not without disagreeing sometimes. Just depends on how you handle it.
Fighting is a relative term. Quarreling is fighting, in a way. Just like you can call war for 'conflict'. It doesn't go with what you normally associate with the term, but it can be used still razz
I'm not saying you have to fight until you bleed, literally, to have a healthy relationship ninja
Or are you? ninja ninja the world may never know! ninja
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:07 pm
Wait, are you saying I can make her bleed, and it would still be healthy? ninja
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:36 pm
ShirleyAMOR Wait, are you saying I can make her bleed, and it would still be healthy? ninja
I think that's what the message is. ninja
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:38 pm
Robertp3001 ShirleyAMOR Wait, are you saying I can make her bleed, and it would still be healthy? ninja
I think that's what the message is. ninja Awesome. ninja
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 7:40 pm
ShirleyAMOR Robertp3001 ShirleyAMOR Wait, are you saying I can make her bleed, and it would still be healthy? ninja
I think that's what the message is. ninja Awesome. ninja Excellent. ninja
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