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Pesh
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 1:03 pm


Bonzinut
Dear Bonzi,

I don't feel like I can go on any more. People around me talk to me all the time, but don't listen when I talk.

Nobody wants to hear what I have to say.

I screw everything up, that I try to do. Frankly I'm just tired of being me.

Is there anyway that I can become someone else?


I know that nobody will answer, but I thought I'd write anyway.


Thanks for your time,

Ignored


Dear Ignored,
I understand how you feel, there are some people that are like that. But the people that are like that aren't worth worrying about. There are people around that you do listen and value your opinion, people that care about you. Those are the people you should be concerned with. The others aren't worth the effort to be upset with.

As for screwing everything up, I doubt you really do. For the most part, we tend to be our own worst judge. Don't be so hard on yourself, you have many tallents. Try to focus on those and not the other things.

And unfortunately you really can't be anyone other than who you really are. If that were poosible, more people would do it. ^^; I've wanted to be someone else occassionally as well. But I'm happy with being me, and you should be happy with who you are too. You're a great person and a good friend, be proud of that and don't try to be someone else. If people can't appreciate that, then it's their loss.

I hope that was helpfull
Pesh ^_^
PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 12:58 pm


Dear Bonzi,

Why is it when you give some people advice they always come back with an excuse or complaint? Or complain when people don't make comments on something written, but then not take the advice/comment seriously... gonk Some people make it so that I don't really like to give advice anymore. Why ask if you don't really want to know?


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Pesh
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Bonzinut
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 9:27 pm


Pesh
Dear Bonzi,

Why is it when you give some people advice they always come back with an excuse or complaint? Or complain when people don't make comments on something written, but then not take the advice/comment seriously... gonk Some people make it so that I don't really like to give advice anymore. Why ask if you don't really want to know?


heart Always Confused


Dear Always Cofused,

The reason is because some people are just happy, being unhappy. I'm sure the advice you give is good solid advice. They would rather complain about everything, then actually DO anything about it.

I have had the same thing happen to me. It is very frustrating, but don't give up.. Stop giving advice as much.. but don't give up.

Hang in there.

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