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 Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 8:52 pm
I came out to my mom, close friends and the members of my GSA. I tell people at other schools too, but I won't come out to my whole school because I don't want that kind of attention.
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 8:26 pm
if my mum knew i wasn't straight, she would freak out and fall out of the window. once i was on myspace and this girl asked me if i was straight, and i said "nah im not straight" but i have this problem where i say things out loud when i type them in, i can't stop. (once my mom asked me a question and i said "idk mum") so i said it and my mom said "your n-not st-straight?!" and i said "yeah hehe im um A-sexual hehe." even thoe im not A-sexual or straight.
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 12:21 pm
My mom found out like 2 years ago cause I had a note in my pocket that I wrote to this girl I liked and I guess it fell out of my pants she found it and after school she treated me to some Carl's Jr. We parked outside after eating and she pulled out the letter and was alie "WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?! *smack* BLAH BLAH BLAH YADDA YADDA YADDA!!!" after that we never talked about it. Until I came out to my closest friends last October and we had some sort of intervention thingy and I finally came out to my mom the way I wanted to and she seems to be cool with it now. But she has this mentality that if your gay you automatically start having promiscous (sp?) sex stare she's very like eh with my friends cause she probably thinks I bang 'em or something xp rofl
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Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 11:20 pm
Not really. Some close friends only like 3 and the girl Im in love with. But nor my family, nor some friends know D:; Maybe Cause I'll know they'll kick me really hard XD
I guess for not hurting my mom I probably wont ever come out. I don't really want to make her suffer. She has passed so many awful things in her life and I don't want to be the cherry of the Sunday D:
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Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 6:57 am
Well, i'm not a FULL lesbian. But I came out to being Bisexual to my two best friends and they didn't care. But I helped one them a little bit because she upset cause he didnt know if she was attracted to girls or not. She's Bi-curious.
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 12:14 am
i am going to make sure my mom and dad do not find out my sexuality. dad thinks im A-sexual and my mom thinks im heterosexual. im so scared that they might find out that i am (insert sexuality here)
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Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 3:16 pm
I'd love nothing more than to be completely honest to all the people close to me, but I really can't.
I've come out to many of my friends, 2 of my cousins, my girlfriend (Duh.), and my brother. Any other members of my family are completely, and blissfully ignorant to my sexual orientation. They believe me straight like the rest of them.
My family is very...closed minded. My parents especially. I think, my dad would eventually be okay with it. My mom, however, never would. She suspected that I wasn't straight once, and nearly keeled over. No joke. She went totally bonkers.
I've managed to reassure her that I'm the "normal" kid she always thought I was. The straight kid she needs me to be.
I'd love to share my girlfriend with my mom. She's my heart, as is my mother. But my mom knows her only as my close friend, and suspects nothing. I can't bring myself to tell her the truth after the way she acted before. I can't tell her something knowing that it would only hurt her. I owe too much to her...
My girlfriend also agrees with and supports my decision to remain "in the closet" around my parents. As far as I know, she has yet to come out to her mother as well.
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Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 6:58 pm
I've come out to specific friends. Some of them were alright with it, and some of them don't touch the subject at all, probably because they either don't care about it and they find nothing to discuss, or they're afraid bringing it up will offend me. lol~
I want to come out to my parents... and I've come close and dropped some pretty big hints. Whether they caught on or not is a mystery to me, but I would love to stop skirting around my parents and family, having to put up with their, "Oh, this boy and that boy--!" crap. It feels like they think I can't get a boyfriend; the truth is I don't want one - I want a girlfriend. > ___ <' It's so frustrating, and yet it amuses me how clueless they can be about something so big and yet mom and dad are always so intuitive to little things.
I'm too afraid to come out to them as well, because I fear their reactions. I think they'd both be alright in the end, but I have an overly-active imagination and I tend to think about "what if" and all the possibly negative outcomes of the situation more than the positive things. I dunno.. Any suggestions? .-.
Either way, I consider my coming out to most of my friends a nice step for now, but I wish I could be completely honest with everyone and just be freer to love as I want to.
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Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 8:17 pm
Ok...well, I told one of my cousins....she told my whole damn world......guess I'll never be in the shadows ever again...I'm bi and loving it! I don't care what anyone thinks anymore but sorry to most strange online guys I just say I'm a lesbian to get them to leave me alone and stop flirting with me cause I don't exactly like someone I don't really know and just met to flirt with me
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 11:47 pm
I havn't and I'm not planning to. Well, I honestly answer direct questions. My mom has asked me if I like girls but I said "no" because I don't consider myself bi or lesbian I usually say pansexual though that doesn't properly define me. -little kid voice- I feel special! I'm undefinable! lol
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 9:19 pm
I`ve discovered that at highschool, and I decided to tell my friends. Every friend that I told was so suportive that it made me want to tell the whole world! >.< My family doesn`t know. I know that they could be nervous at the begining, but they would still love me. The problem is that I think I lost the timing to tell them. (all my family is deeply religious....) One aunt of mine used to ask me and I denied (she has the most sharpy gaydar I`ve ever seen... sweatdrop ) At that time I was afraid of my mom`s and gramma`s reaction... sweatdrop
Nowadays I have a boyfriend, and we have a daughter. He knows about my sexual orientation (I`m bi), and he supports me. He knows that I like dating girls and we live kind an open relationship. If I tell my family now, it will be troublesome (much more than I thought it would be when I was in Highschool...) But I gess if anyone asked me directly, I would say the truth. My boyfriend`s family doesn`t even dream about it, and some of them are bi/homo haters, so, I gess I`ll leave it that way. At college, many friends knew. But all of them already graduated. I practice a martial art, many friends knew, but I think it is troublesome to tell the others, because some people maybe could be unconfortable with that (My sensei`s ex wife dumped him for a woman... sweatdrop ) and some girls could avoid training with me. So, I avoid the trouble. If anyone asks, I`ll tell. But I gess nobody will do that... sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 8:50 pm
forever~crying~inside umm my moms knows im bi and shes totaly fine with it. she even knows who i like. and my brother knows, hes know for a year but i dont think he accepts it yet. my little sister doesnt know and my dad doesnt know. though when i turn 18 i might just never talk to my dad. and for my school i have no clue how many people know but i honestly dont care who knows there cuz it really is gay friendly. Alright time for an update: My family knows except for my dad and I don't really care if he knows. I might just tell him if it comes up but other then that probably not. And my friends know and the majority of the people I know at my school know. Even some of the teachers at my school rofl haha I'm a dork. And my uncle I believe suspects it so I might just tell him. You know I don't think there's been anybody other then me in my family that has been anything other then straight... I don't know. I'll just have to ask, lol
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Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 6:41 pm
I came out to my whole immediate family and all my friends. My mom likes to tease me about it. my sister makes crude jokes and my father and i like to joke about hot girls in movies together. All in good fun.
Everyone who I have told is completely ok with it. I am blessed to have so many understanding people in my life ^_^
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 5:22 pm
Grah! I ******** hate, hate, hate, hate parents who read through their children's notes and letters!
I didn't plan on coming out to my dad at least till I move out, and then I wanted to say it to his face. But noooooooo he ruins my evil plans by going through my room and reading a note I was writing with a friend. So.. Now.. I'm out with him ;_; Surprisingly he hasn't said anything to me about it... So I'm guessing he's in denial, which is good for me... But just the fact he knows, pisses me off ><
But ya... my stepmom says she supports me... so that's good. *sighs* So... now I have to tell my mom. She suspects already anyways, and I know she supports it... So it shouldn't be that hard... ...
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 6:04 pm
Mikajino Grah! I ******** hate, hate, hate, hate parents who read through their children's notes and letters! I didn't plan on coming out to my dad at least till I move out, and then I wanted to say it to his face. But noooooooo he ruins my evil plans by going through my room and reading a note I was writing with a friend. So.. Now.. I'm out with him ;_; Surprisingly he hasn't said anything to me about it... So I'm guessing he's in denial, which is good for me... But just the fact he knows, pisses me off >< But ya... my stepmom says she supports me... so that's good. *sighs* So... now I have to tell my mom. She suspects already anyways, and I know she supports it... So it shouldn't be that hard... ... I know your pain D: my mom did the same thing. Read meh post. It's like parents just want to give themselves grey hairs!! IT'S CRAZY I TELL YOU!!
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