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 Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 1:16 am
Yeah true...... Don't be raped it's bad very bad
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 2:07 am
loopylizzy Potu Awww you poor thing i honestly dont know what to say except that i know as cheesy as it sounds, I couldnt possibly know what your going through but that sometimes things happen in life that seem like a taste of what hell has to offer but if you take it in to help you become a stronger person. I'm sure your twin wouldn't want you to feel this way about her death as for parents they are the people who love and care for you doesnt matter if they are your biological or fostered. I'm not trying to be mean or anything like that i just say what i can that i think will help in any way. If i told you the rest of my problems you would think i was lying but i swear it is all the truth.....so if i seem weird moody or upset at times..... It's just something about me i can't help...... One more question. Any of you know how to get over rape? or have any of you been raped? Well no and yes... i used to date a guy that would not take no for an answer and i would usually give in crying, he wanted to get me pregnant so he could keep me. It was all mainly an ego trip for him, trying to make himself feel powerful. Thats why rapists do it to make themselves feel powerful, so they go after someone who weak and vaunrable and overpower them and the fear of the victim turns them on. Why i'm saying this is because the power over the victim doesn't end even after the rape. They hold they victim in fear and depression for years after. The best way to break the hold the rapist still has is to move on.. i know it doesn't sound easy, but if you reamain in dispair the rapist is still raping you, of your life. Break the hold, lose the fear stop being afraid and withdrawn, stand tall and use this to empower yourself because if you can stand tall through this you'll find you'll have the power to run your life and your emotions. Dont let Him win just shrug him off like a piece dust ignore his exsistance. I hope this helps in some way, it will take time but you'll be a stronger and happier person for it.
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 2:25 am
Potu loopylizzy Potu Awww you poor thing i honestly dont know what to say except that i know as cheesy as it sounds, I couldnt possibly know what your going through but that sometimes things happen in life that seem like a taste of what hell has to offer but if you take it in to help you become a stronger person. I'm sure your twin wouldn't want you to feel this way about her death as for parents they are the people who love and care for you doesnt matter if they are your biological or fostered. I'm not trying to be mean or anything like that i just say what i can that i think will help in any way. If i told you the rest of my problems you would think i was lying but i swear it is all the truth.....so if i seem weird moody or upset at times..... It's just something about me i can't help...... One more question. Any of you know how to get over rape? or have any of you been raped? Well no and yes... i used to date a guy that would not take no for an answer and i would usually give in crying, he wanted to get me pregnant so he could keep me. It was all mainly an ego trip for him, trying to make himself feel powerful. Thats why rapists do it to make themselves feel powerful, so they go after someone who weak and vaunrable and overpower them and the fear of the victim turns them on. Why i'm saying this is because the power over the victim doesn't end even after the rape. They hold they victim in fear and depression for years after. The best way to break the hold the rapist still has is to move on.. i know it doesn't sound easy, but if you reamain in dispair the rapist is still raping you, of your life. Break the hold, lose the fear stop being afraid and withdrawn, stand tall and use this to empower yourself because if you can stand tall through this you'll find you'll have the power to run your life and your emotions. Dont let Him win just shrug him off like a piece dust ignore his exsistance. I hope this helps in some way, it will take time but you'll be a stronger and happier person for it. I'll try to make sense of that in my small pee brain...... I know ill kill the B*****D
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 2:34 am
That would only take you down to his level.
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 2:45 am
Yes i know but it will make me feel better
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 2:52 am
Only for about a week then you'd be back to the same. Revenge doesn't solve anything and it doesn't make you a better person.
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 2:57 am
Potu Only for about a week then you'd be back to the same. Revenge doesn't solve anything and it doesn't make you a better person. Yeah i know.... Never run away from you fears cause when they catch up, your to tired to fight
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 3:04 am
loopylizzy Potu Only for about a week then you'd be back to the same. Revenge doesn't solve anything and it doesn't make you a better person. Yeah i know.... Never run away from you fears cause when they catch up, your to tired to fight Exactly face them and become stronger for it. One of my philosiphy's in life is "never regret anything cause it leads you to where you are now" and "when one door shuts another one opens".
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 3:20 am
Potu loopylizzy Potu Only for about a week then you'd be back to the same. Revenge doesn't solve anything and it doesn't make you a better person. Yeah i know.... Never run away from you fears cause when they catch up, your to tired to fight Exactly face them and become stronger for it. One of my philosiphy's in life is "never regret anything cause it leads you to where you are now" and "when one door shuts another one opens". Okay ill just get on with life
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 3:28 am
Take your time and dont rush yourself, and it'll be easy wink
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 7:37 am
Potu Take your time and dont rush yourself, and it'll be easy wink Im to lazy to rush. I've been telling myself for the past 3 hours to go get somemat to eat but i can't be bothered
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 6:37 pm
I don't think anyone is on when I'm on.
I try to regret nothing and fear little.
Thats sorta hard to do whenyou can't even lok at a needle, let alone get stuck with one.
and I always have this fear for my family.
But I know people who fear a lot. Like Death. Or ageing. But theres no point in fearing something that you know will come.
I just want to write a book and have my NAME remembered. I don't just want to be a some body in the grave yard. I wany my name tobe on more than just a rock.
But that kinda seems normal to me I geuss.
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Paineverlasting Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 1:04 pm
Paineverlasting I don't think anyone is on when I'm on. I try to regret nothing and fear little. Thats sorta hard to do whenyou can't even lok at a needle, let alone get stuck with one. and I always have this fear for my family. But I know people who fear a lot. Like Death. Or ageing. But theres no point in fearing something that you know will come. I just want to write a book and have my NAME remembered. I don't just want to be a some body in the grave yard. I wany my name tobe on more than just a rock. But that kinda seems normal to me I geuss. I told my foster parents that when i die i want them to throw me in a ditch and forget i was ever born
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 4:11 pm
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 4:49 pm
oooo i just got warm cuddly feeling down my spine
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