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 Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 4:04 pm
Lalobee RevanStar though this is a relavent question to the topic of the guild. I am pretty damn sure you didnt get the ok to make this. I might be wrong but still. I'm sure you've been notified of the rules here, please fallow them. neutral If you are so sure why has noone of you asked Yuki but started this hunt instead? I feel betrayed and really hurt by this. And about f ollowing the rules, I'm doing it. You might want to revisit your typing though, according to the same rules you like to wave around. sad heh, my typing isnt going to change...i cant spell worth s**t and Yuki knows that mad p
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 4:35 pm
Yeah I do think that you can be bi and still have guy and girl friends. I have had few relationships and I have lots of friends. I ocasionally think sexualy about one of them but they are my friends first and so it more than cancels out the other feeling.
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 4:49 pm
Lalobee It really makes me wonder sometimes. People keep telling that males and females can't have real friendship because there would always be some sexual part in between. And it makes me wonder how hard it must be for us bi people to have real friendship? You got that from Harry met Sally. Sexual attraction is always there its a part of us. Don't worry about being attracted to your friends, quite likely a few of them are sometimes attracted to you too.
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2005 6:17 pm
I've been seriously attracted to only a select few of my friends. I only hint at dating those who I expect feel the same. I would never flirt with a friend who would just end up as a fling, it's just doesn't seem worth it, ya' know? Actually, in the past, I've been offended by friends flirting with me when I am not interested. Maybe it's just me...
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Posted: Sat Apr 02, 2005 5:45 pm
I'm straight, but I have bi friends. I mean, it isn't like bi people like every single person they meet.
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2005 6:26 pm
lol can't have thoughts about my best friend brittney because her bro can like always read my mind when im gawking off into space.. her bro will tear me into peices. ooo i hava feeling he likes meh. lol. ( Bi's roooooool!!!)
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Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 10:40 am
I think I were like you in the beginning having sexual thoughts about at least some of my friends, but after awhile I realised that it was just curiosity about my own sexuality because I've actually not been together with anyone of my own sex before... and I still haven't sweatdrop these days I'm over it, and have not one sexual thought about my friends...
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Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 10:47 am
essenceofthedark I think I were like you in the beginning having sexual thoughts about at least some of my friends, but after awhile I realised that it was just curiosity about my own sexuality because I've actually not been together with anyone of my own sex before... and I still haven't sweatdrop these days I'm over it, and have not one sexual thought about my friends... Oh I forgot: just because I'm bi doesn't mean I feel attracted to every single person I meet, far from it, most people I meet I doesn't like or thinks nothing of!
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 11:37 am
Lalobee It really makes me wonder sometimes. People keep telling that males and females can't have real friendship because there would always be some sexual part in between. And it makes me wonder how hard it must be for us bi people to have real friendship? I can just tell for myself, I guess I've found some true friends. But nevertheless I can't really deny it that some sexual thoughts about the one or the other of them comes up. So I wonder if this is just me, I don't consider myself being that fixed on sexuality, but still it happens. Do the others of you also have this feelings sometimes? Do you feel bad about them? Do you speak with the others about it? If so, how do they react? Just some simple rules for this thread: The usual guild rules, pretty please read them. I think you are cute if you guess this is a nice thread and you want to bump it, but don't. If the thread is going to die then I know it's a non-issue. If it is going to stay it would be fine, but there is no need to bump. If you like bumping go to the chatterbox. Thanks for any input of yours, I'll appreciate it. Lalobee Edit made by YukiDo NOT ask is Lalobee got permission to make this thread. She did, so please don't ask anymore questions regaurding that matter. Thank you. Yes I thought the same as you once I found out i was bi. I was afraid of my friends hating me and not having any friendships afterwards. But I was wrong. All my friends from before are still my friends
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 11:53 am
it comes to mind occationally, but I never tell them about it. It's sad to think that people like us, apparently, can't have normal friendships in the eyes of everyone else.
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 11:55 am
Nexa I'm straight, but I have bi friends. I mean, it isn't like bi people like every single person they meet. I get ripped on by my mother all the time over that issue. She thinks I'm attracted to everything walking with genitals. So she's mainly concluded that I'm a whore and shouldn't be let out of the house unless for work or I'm with her.
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 11:58 am
Drosis I've been seriously attracted to only a select few of my friends. I only hint at dating those who I expect feel the same. I would never flirt with a friend who would just end up as a fling, it's just doesn't seem worth it, ya' know? Actually, in the past, I've been offended by friends flirting with me when I am not interested. Maybe it's just me... Nah, you're normal. o.o I got offended by this guy I work with when he asked me out. (And he was 14 yrs older than me, missing most of his teeth)
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 12:05 pm
Most of my friends are bisexual, one of them is even a lesbian, i do have feelings for most of them but i just realize that we never can really be more then friends... unless they want to be...that is...
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 2:04 pm
[ - LizarD - ] Most of my friends are bisexual, one of them is even a lesbian, i do have feelings for most of them but i just realize that we never can really be more then friends... unless they want to be...that is... same go's for me on this kind of subject
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 4:24 pm
TC Crabtree Drosis I've been seriously attracted to only a select few of my friends. I only hint at dating those who I expect feel the same. I would never flirt with a friend who would just end up as a fling, it's just doesn't seem worth it, ya' know? Actually, in the past, I've been offended by friends flirting with me when I am not interested. Maybe it's just me... Nah, you're normal. o.o I got offended by this guy I work with when he asked me out. (And he was 14 yrs older than me, missing most of his teeth) lmao!! i hope you said yes... or maybe no. with no teeth he coulda gummed u to death.
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