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 Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 10:53 am
Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3  What about learning what pleases her best? Is it just me or does anyone else get off and/or fantasize on females getting off? eek
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:07 pm
Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3
I've since amended my beliefs for various reasons. I am a Christian, but the modern concept of marriage is vastly different from the Biblical one. In Biblical times, marriage was mroe out of convenience, rather than for love. People generally married very young and had little or no say in who they married. Virginity, especially for women, was something to be bought. If a women was not a virgin even through means of rape, it could be very difficult to marry her off. There are even Biblical laws saying she should be married to the man who raped her because, since they had sex, she was now his wife. This begs the question of is the marriage in the marriage ceremony or in the sex itself. There are multiple Bible verses which would suggest if you sleep with someone you are then married to them, and the ceremony is just an outward show of the union.
Today, marriage is more out of love and people tend to wait much longer before settling down. Like I said- very different concept. I think it is perfectly acceptable to engage in sex as long as the couple has been in a long term relationship already, has a healthy relationship, and plan on staying together. I think, ideally, everyone should have only one partner their entire life, but even if you wait until marriage that's unreliable these days. My mother has been married twice, so even if she waited for marriage, she'll still have had two partners, at least. Divorce, premature death of a partner, and other factors can all lead to multiple partners through out one's life.
In the last year or so, I've amended my belief to waiting for love. I found someone I love, and now I'm just waiting until I feel comfortable. We've been together nearly a year now and still haven't had sex, which is fine.
However, I don't by any means have a problem with waiting for marriage. I respect those who do and I think it's a good choice, it just may not be the right choice for everyone. I think, for example, that if a person's relationship with God will be hurt by have premarital sex, it is something they should shy away from. In the same way the Bible says that if a person's relationship with God was hurt by breaking OT laws, they shouldn't do it.
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 6:02 pm
Freelance:
Nono, I didn't mean rules for everyone, just for myself.
Pah, I just think whatever floats your boat for everyone else. :3
And thank you for the intricate post. It really made me think!
Definitely saving it to read again!
Mega: redface
Well um, yes that would probably be on the list too.
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Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 9:22 am
Light up the Night Freelance:
Nono, I didn't mean rules for everyone, just for myself.
Pah, I just think whatever floats your boat for everyone else. :3
And thank you for the intricate post. It really made me think!
Definitely saving it to read again!
As I said, I think waiting for marriage it totally awesome and respectable. If my partner wanted to wait for marriage, I'd be 100% for it, but my boyfriend has made it clear he'd like to have sex eventually xD But he's cool with waiting for me to be ready, whenever that is.
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 1:35 pm
MegamanX0018 Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3 well i just kinda accept the first times gunna suck razz its after the first time i gunan expect it to get good razz
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Posted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 5:57 pm
Wish_on_a_Cloud MegamanX0018 Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3 well i just kinda accept the first times gunna suck razz its after the first time i gunan expect it to get good razz
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Posted: Tue Apr 14, 2009 3:38 pm
freelance lover Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3
I've since amended my beliefs for various reasons. I am a Christian, but the modern concept of marriage is vastly different from the Biblical one. In Biblical times, marriage was mroe out of convenience, rather than for love. People generally married very young and had little or no say in who they married. Virginity, especially for women, was something to be bought. If a women was not a virgin even through means of rape, it could be very difficult to marry her off. There are even Biblical laws saying she should be married to the man who raped her because, since they had sex, she was now his wife. This begs the question of is the marriage in the marriage ceremony or in the sex itself. There are multiple Bible verses which would suggest if you sleep with someone you are then married to them, and the ceremony is just an outward show of the union.
Today, marriage is more out of love and people tend to wait much longer before settling down. Like I said- very different concept. I think it is perfectly acceptable to engage in sex as long as the couple has been in a long term relationship already, has a healthy relationship, and plan on staying together. I think, ideally, everyone should have only one partner their entire life, but even if you wait until marriage that's unreliable these days. My mother has been married twice, so even if she waited for marriage, she'll still have had two partners, at least. Divorce, premature death of a partner, and other factors can all lead to multiple partners through out one's life.
In the last year or so, I've amended my belief to waiting for love. I found someone I love, and now I'm just waiting until I feel comfortable. We've been together nearly a year now and still haven't had sex, which is fine.
However, I don't by any means have a problem with waiting for marriage. I respect those who do and I think it's a good choice, it just may not be the right choice for everyone. I think, for example, that if a person's relationship with God will be hurt by have premarital sex, it is something they should shy away from. In the same way the Bible says that if a person's relationship with God was hurt by breaking OT laws, they shouldn't do it.
Oh, that's just VERY wrong on so many levels. stressed But there also those who choose to marry just to get to the sex part. Like it's a full-access pass. That's also wrong.
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 2:52 pm
MegamanX0018 freelance lover Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3
I've since amended my beliefs for various reasons. I am a Christian, but the modern concept of marriage is vastly different from the Biblical one. In Biblical times, marriage was mroe out of convenience, rather than for love. People generally married very young and had little or no say in who they married. Virginity, especially for women, was something to be bought. If a women was not a virgin even through means of rape, it could be very difficult to marry her off. There are even Biblical laws saying she should be married to the man who raped her because, since they had sex, she was now his wife. This begs the question of is the marriage in the marriage ceremony or in the sex itself. There are multiple Bible verses which would suggest if you sleep with someone you are then married to them, and the ceremony is just an outward show of the union.
Today, marriage is more out of love and people tend to wait much longer before settling down. Like I said- very different concept. I think it is perfectly acceptable to engage in sex as long as the couple has been in a long term relationship already, has a healthy relationship, and plan on staying together. I think, ideally, everyone should have only one partner their entire life, but even if you wait until marriage that's unreliable these days. My mother has been married twice, so even if she waited for marriage, she'll still have had two partners, at least. Divorce, premature death of a partner, and other factors can all lead to multiple partners through out one's life.
In the last year or so, I've amended my belief to waiting for love. I found someone I love, and now I'm just waiting until I feel comfortable. We've been together nearly a year now and still haven't had sex, which is fine.
However, I don't by any means have a problem with waiting for marriage. I respect those who do and I think it's a good choice, it just may not be the right choice for everyone. I think, for example, that if a person's relationship with God will be hurt by have premarital sex, it is something they should shy away from. In the same way the Bible says that if a person's relationship with God was hurt by breaking OT laws, they shouldn't do it.
Oh, that's just VERY wrong on so many levels. stressed But there also those who choose to marry just to get to the sex part. Like it's a full-access pass. That's also wrong. yup some people are disturbed enough, what freaks me out is that rape within marriage was legal unitll not so long ago neutral
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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2009 4:52 pm
Wish_on_a_Cloud MegamanX0018 freelance lover Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3
I've since amended my beliefs for various reasons. I am a Christian, but the modern concept of marriage is vastly different from the Biblical one. In Biblical times, marriage was mroe out of convenience, rather than for love. People generally married very young and had little or no say in who they married. Virginity, especially for women, was something to be bought. If a women was not a virgin even through means of rape, it could be very difficult to marry her off. There are even Biblical laws saying she should be married to the man who raped her because, since they had sex, she was now his wife. This begs the question of is the marriage in the marriage ceremony or in the sex itself. There are multiple Bible verses which would suggest if you sleep with someone you are then married to them, and the ceremony is just an outward show of the union.
Today, marriage is more out of love and people tend to wait much longer before settling down. Like I said- very different concept. I think it is perfectly acceptable to engage in sex as long as the couple has been in a long term relationship already, has a healthy relationship, and plan on staying together. I think, ideally, everyone should have only one partner their entire life, but even if you wait until marriage that's unreliable these days. My mother has been married twice, so even if she waited for marriage, she'll still have had two partners, at least. Divorce, premature death of a partner, and other factors can all lead to multiple partners through out one's life.
In the last year or so, I've amended my belief to waiting for love. I found someone I love, and now I'm just waiting until I feel comfortable. We've been together nearly a year now and still haven't had sex, which is fine.
However, I don't by any means have a problem with waiting for marriage. I respect those who do and I think it's a good choice, it just may not be the right choice for everyone. I think, for example, that if a person's relationship with God will be hurt by have premarital sex, it is something they should shy away from. In the same way the Bible says that if a person's relationship with God was hurt by breaking OT laws, they shouldn't do it.
Oh, that's just VERY wrong on so many levels. stressed But there also those who choose to marry just to get to the sex part. Like it's a full-access pass. That's also wrong. yup some people are disturbed enough, what freaks me out is that rape within marriage was legal unitll not so long ago neutral
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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2009 1:41 pm
freelance lover Wish_on_a_Cloud MegamanX0018 Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3 well i just kinda accept the first times gunna suck razz its after the first time i gunan expect it to get good razz Not 100%, because what if it's the first time in a relationship and the girl has had sex before? And not to mention the fact that if the male is good enough a virgin woman couldn't even tell that she just lost it. This isn't true for every occasion, but it can happen. Plus, if you wait a moment and let the pain recide then the occasion can be just like any other sexual encounter.
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Posted: Fri Apr 17, 2009 2:52 pm
Jarc_The_Mighty freelance lover Wish_on_a_Cloud MegamanX0018 Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3 well i just kinda accept the first times gunna suck razz its after the first time i gunan expect it to get good razz Not 100%, because what if it's the first time in a relationship and the girl has had sex before? And not to mention the fact that if the male is good enough a virgin woman couldn't even tell that she just lost it. This isn't true for every occasion, but it can happen. Plus, if you wait a moment and let the pain recide then the occasion can be just like any other sexual encounter.
I was referring more to my first time having sex, not the first time when I'm married. I figure if I have low expectations, I'll enjoy it more! I'm sure I'll enjoy sex the first time so long as I'm with someone I love.
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Posted: Sun Apr 19, 2009 9:13 pm
`apple dumpling Jarc_The_Mighty freelance lover Wish_on_a_Cloud MegamanX0018 Light up the Night Prepare for le sexo:
1. Birth control.
2. Marriage.
Simple as that ;3 well i just kinda accept the first times gunna suck razz its after the first time i gunan expect it to get good razz Not 100%, because what if it's the first time in a relationship and the girl has had sex before? And not to mention the fact that if the male is good enough a virgin woman couldn't even tell that she just lost it. This isn't true for every occasion, but it can happen. Plus, if you wait a moment and let the pain recide then the occasion can be just like any other sexual encounter.
I was referring more to my first time having sex, not the first time when I'm married. I figure if I have low expectations, I'll enjoy it more! I'm sure I'll enjoy sex the first time so long as I'm with someone I love.Mmm hmm. :3 Though... I hate the little voice that worries and says what if. So many people are like: LOL I NEED A TEST DRIVE.
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Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 12:51 pm
Light up the Night `apple dumpling Jarc_The_Mighty freelance lover Wish_on_a_Cloud well i just kinda accept the first times gunna suck razz its after the first time i gunan expect it to get good razz Not 100%, because what if it's the first time in a relationship and the girl has had sex before? And not to mention the fact that if the male is good enough a virgin woman couldn't even tell that she just lost it. This isn't true for every occasion, but it can happen. Plus, if you wait a moment and let the pain recide then the occasion can be just like any other sexual encounter.
I was referring more to my first time having sex, not the first time when I'm married. I figure if I have low expectations, I'll enjoy it more! I'm sure I'll enjoy sex the first time so long as I'm with someone I love.Mmm hmm. :3 Though... I hate the little voice that worries and says what if. So many people are like: LOL I NEED A TEST DRIVE.
I think the "I need a test drive" think is kinda lame, to be honest. If I love the guy, I'm going to care less about how good in bed he is. I mean, he can't suck, but I'm sure if I was unsatisfied we could work on it and it'd be fine. I really just like being near the one I love- sex isn't an obligation.
Granted, you need to be sexually compatible but you can tell that before you have sex. My boyfriend and I are very sexually compatible, and we haven't had sex. I knew this long before we even became as physical as we are.
The main reason I probably won't wait for marriage is because I don't want to miss out on an experience with someone I love just because I don't have legal documentation. That doesn't mean I'd take it lightly- I'd have to view the guy as someone I could marry and intended to be with for a long time. I just don't want to regret missing that experience just because the timing wasn't right.
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Posted: Thu Apr 23, 2009 1:44 pm
`apple dumpling Light up the Night `apple dumpling Jarc_The_Mighty freelance lover Wish_on_a_Cloud well i just kinda accept the first times gunna suck razz its after the first time i gunan expect it to get good razz Not 100%, because what if it's the first time in a relationship and the girl has had sex before? And not to mention the fact that if the male is good enough a virgin woman couldn't even tell that she just lost it. This isn't true for every occasion, but it can happen. Plus, if you wait a moment and let the pain recide then the occasion can be just like any other sexual encounter.
I was referring more to my first time having sex, not the first time when I'm married. I figure if I have low expectations, I'll enjoy it more! I'm sure I'll enjoy sex the first time so long as I'm with someone I love.Mmm hmm. :3 Though... I hate the little voice that worries and says what if. So many people are like: LOL I NEED A TEST DRIVE.
I think the "I need a test drive" think is kinda lame, to be honest. If I love the guy, I'm going to care less about how good in bed he is. I mean, he can't suck, but I'm sure if I was unsatisfied we could work on it and it'd be fine. I really just like being near the one I love- sex isn't an obligation.
Granted, you need to be sexually compatible but you can tell that before you have sex. My boyfriend and I are very sexually compatible, and we haven't had sex. I knew this long before we even became as physical as we are.
The main reason I probably won't wait for marriage is because I don't want to miss out on an experience with someone I love just because I don't have legal documentation. That doesn't mean I'd take it lightly- I'd have to view the guy as someone I could marry and intended to be with for a long time. I just don't want to regret missing that experience just because the timing wasn't right.
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Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 11:52 am
MegamanX0018 `apple dumpling Light up the Night `apple dumpling Jarc_The_Mighty Not 100%, because what if it's the first time in a relationship and the girl has had sex before? And not to mention the fact that if the male is good enough a virgin woman couldn't even tell that she just lost it. This isn't true for every occasion, but it can happen. Plus, if you wait a moment and let the pain recide then the occasion can be just like any other sexual encounter.
I was referring more to my first time having sex, not the first time when I'm married. I figure if I have low expectations, I'll enjoy it more! I'm sure I'll enjoy sex the first time so long as I'm with someone I love.Mmm hmm. :3 Though... I hate the little voice that worries and says what if. So many people are like: LOL I NEED A TEST DRIVE.
I think the "I need a test drive" think is kinda lame, to be honest. If I love the guy, I'm going to care less about how good in bed he is. I mean, he can't suck, but I'm sure if I was unsatisfied we could work on it and it'd be fine. I really just like being near the one I love- sex isn't an obligation.
Granted, you need to be sexually compatible but you can tell that before you have sex. My boyfriend and I are very sexually compatible, and we haven't had sex. I knew this long before we even became as physical as we are.
The main reason I probably won't wait for marriage is because I don't want to miss out on an experience with someone I love just because I don't have legal documentation. That doesn't mean I'd take it lightly- I'd have to view the guy as someone I could marry and intended to be with for a long time. I just don't want to regret missing that experience just because the timing wasn't right.Lol, that's not really anything that any of us can explain to you Mega. Or at least, if someone could explain it, your face would be a darker shade of red than if your mom walked in on you watching hentai. Point being, it's something that's experienced...then and only then will you really understand it... If anyone would like to try to explain it, go ahead and embarrass the hell out of him, lol!
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