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 Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 8:48 pm
SoulSearcher13 I'm still a virgin because I have trust issues. I keep thinking that if I sleep with my bf, then he'll have gotten what he wanted and then leave me. So, I want to make sure the guy is in it for the long run before I take that step.
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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 7:59 pm
i a in love with kakashi lol he is sexy or he is in my head since i havent seen his face yet *sobs* I have hugged pleanty of guys and did come close to getting a boyfriend once but i moved country just as things were starting to happen sad
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 2:37 am
 Reason huh? I've never dated, or been kissed. So i'm also a lip virgin as well, i've kissed friends on the cheeks, but that's all. I count it when i kiss a boy (I'm straight, and no, i never kissed a girl either) as losing my lip virginity *giggles*
Although i've 'slept' or more like, 'played' mother and father with a childhood friend when i was...6 years old, i don't think that counts, i had NO idea what the hell was going on, so i don't think it was... I hope anyway. xD
I want to wait til marriage, there has been a time when i thought, 'stuff this, i just wanna lose it' but after i think about it, and matured a bit, i'm glad i didn't, and that the situation never rose up, i value my virginity now, and will keep it for someone willing to marry me first.
I know what you mean by loving anime characters although i haven't watched hentai, so i can't say i love that. I love boys in books and anime characters and manga characters and any characters that's not real in the world. It's my way of feeling positive about life instead of thinking, 'ZOMG, when will i get somewhere?!?!?' Which isn't a good way of thinking anyway.
I've had crushes on a BILLION guys, but they're unrealistic (they're HUMAN crushes, i assure you) they're either popular, younger than me, dating someone already, or too busy studying to date. Way outta my range. So, yeah, i'm on square one, but now i'm thinking, 'being in square one isn't that bad.' ^_^ 
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 6:45 am
Ever In The Shadows Reason huh? I've never dated, or been kissed. So i'm also a lip virgin as well, i've kissed friends on the cheeks, but that's all. I count it when i kiss a boy (I'm straight, and no, i never kissed a girl either) as losing my lip virginity *giggles*
Although i've 'slept' or more like, 'played' mother and father with a childhood friend when i was...6 years old, i don't think that counts, i had NO idea what the hell was going on, so i don't think it was... I hope anyway. xD
I want to wait til marriage, there has been a time when i thought, 'stuff this, i just wanna lose it' but after i think about it, and matured a bit, i'm glad i didn't, and that the situation never rose up, i value my virginity now, and will keep it for someone willing to marry me first.
I know what you mean by loving anime characters although i haven't watched hentai, so i can't say i love that. I love boys in books and anime characters and manga characters and any characters that's not real in the world. It's my way of feeling positive about life instead of thinking, 'ZOMG, when will i get somewhere?!?!?' Which isn't a good way of thinking anyway.
I've had crushes on a BILLION guys, but they're unrealistic (they're HUMAN crushes, i assure you) they're either popular, younger than me, dating someone already, or too busy studying to date. Way outta my range. So, yeah, i'm on square one, but now i'm thinking, 'being in square one isn't that bad.' ^_^
Aside from fantasy, I have had some crushes in reality. I think it was one for each grade I was in. Until a very good friend named Brandon showed me the glorious world of Hentai. Even though I was 11 or 12 at the time and didn't know what was happening, I did know that I liked it.
Okay enough of that. Being a virgin is not a concept I have come to understand fully, but I do know I've only got one shot at giving it to someone. *No puns intended* One thing I do know though is that it's an accomplishment to have held it so long in this day and age we live in. So GO ME! xd
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 1:34 pm
I'm shy, anxious, and ..don't like the idea of putting a girl through that.
Being a nice guy gets in the way, maybe?
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Posted: Thu Dec 04, 2008 1:30 pm
SoulSearcher13 So, I want to make sure the guy is in it for the long run before I take that step. yuss i think that too dont wanna look "easy" either want a guy to like for something other than sex and boobs razz (post 7)
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Posted: Thu Dec 04, 2008 3:59 pm
Wish_on_a_Cloud SoulSearcher13 So, I want to make sure the guy is in it for the long run before I take that step. yuss i think that too dont wanna look "easy" either want a guy to like for something other than sex and boobs razz (post 7) but boobs are nice and bouncy....... xd i actualy prefer little boobs rather than large or big boobs, and though you can check if a man is in for the long run....we have it more hard cause we cant see if she is whit us for our package...since she cant see it diferent to boobs were they stood out lol P7
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Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2008 10:04 am
Why am I saving it?
Because I told my boyfriend not yet, I want to save it for marriage.
And he said okay, I'll wait for you.
And it's wonderful, to have someone love you that much, to hear them say something like that to you. It means a ton.
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Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2008 12:21 pm
 Don't break, don't break my heart...Several contributing factors: I believe in saving it for marriage, so that's why I'm still a virgin. Plus, being molested twice kinda helps keep that in tact... o_o; Aaaand... the idea of pregnancy at 17 kinda scares me a tad bit. xD And I really don't want an STD. So yes. xD ...You're the darkest burning star; You're my perfect disease.
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Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2008 12:26 pm
Let's see....Reasons why I am a virgin
1. Never really cared about dating.
2. Overprotective older siblings (yes, I'm the baby of the family)
3. Never been kissed
4. Basically, I treat guys as friends so I'm "one of the guys"
5. Waiting until marriage....
6. Want to get most of my life over with (basically after college...)
7. and looks....
But I always crush on anime guys......:sighs:
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Kitsune Ametheyst Destiny
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Posted: Sun Dec 07, 2008 9:12 pm
I'm just not ready. I love my boyfriend dearly, but I'm not ready for that sort of intimacy.
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Posted: Sun Dec 07, 2008 10:02 pm
I don't trust easily. I like to know someone a long time before I even consider dating them and getting physical is just a little odd to me. Touching is one of those things I've never been able to comprehend easily.
I'm more than likely a virgin still because I turned down sex when I was 17, but me and her weren't in love and we were stupid teenagers. I want to love who I end up getting sexual with.
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Posted: Mon Dec 08, 2008 2:07 pm
MangaJoe I don't trust easily. I like to know someone a long time before I even consider dating them and getting physical is just a little odd to me. Touching is one of those things I've never been able to comprehend easily. I'm more than likely a virgin still because I turned down sex when I was 17, but me and her weren't in love and we were stupid teenagers. I want to love who I end up getting sexual with. thats great you have what we like to call.....a BRAIN....so welcome to the club biggrin P35
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Posted: Mon Dec 08, 2008 2:12 pm
Mauricios MangaJoe I don't trust easily. I like to know someone a long time before I even consider dating them and getting physical is just a little odd to me. Touching is one of those things I've never been able to comprehend easily. I'm more than likely a virgin still because I turned down sex when I was 17, but me and her weren't in love and we were stupid teenagers. I want to love who I end up getting sexual with. thats great you have what we like to call.....a BRAIN....so welcome to the club biggrin P35 I feel like I left my brain out somewhere else, I kinda have made some poor decisions dating wise lately. Nothing but hurt and rejection, well mainly their ignorance. You think a girl would mention she's engaged before going out with you.
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Posted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 6:22 am
I've never dated, never had my first kiss..I didn't even go to prom, or homecoming, or any social dances.I'm a lesbian, & I don't live in a big city, so finding people like me is hard.I realize now that I am incel, & will no doubt die a virgin. crying
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