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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 2:38 pm

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Yeah, and this whole friends with benifits things ended creating like... a year's worth of drama for me xD It was a little crazy.

BUT now I'm in a relationship with a wonderful guy so none of it matters! Wheeee!

That is sad, about the whole year of drama! But, gratz on the cool guy.

Oh, it wasn't just the FWB causing the drama... I have a knack for getting myself into the most awkward situations with guys one can imagine.

Posted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 10:48 pm

I'd just like to point out that I have experienced mostly negative outcomes from friends-with-benefits arrangements.

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Posted: Mon Sep 08, 2008 8:44 pm

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I'd just like to point out that I have experienced mostly negative outcomes from friends-with-benefits arrangements.

You know, people always tell you that but it just seems like a good idea at the time... I think (for me, anyway) there as the subconcious hope it might have led to more. Obviously it didn't and he kinda screwed me over but I actually ended up winning in the longrun xD He and I are (almost) completely cool with one another too now. Though I think we'd be having the issues we're having now even if we hadn't started snogging eachother...

Posted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 10:00 am

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You know, people always tell you that but it just seems like a good idea at the time... I think (for me, anyway) there as the subconcious hope it might have led to more. Obviously it didn't and he kinda screwed me over but I actually ended up winning in the longrun xD He and I are (almost) completely cool with one another too now. Though I think we'd be having the issues we're having now even if we hadn't started snogging eachother...

Well, of course it's a good idea... at the time. And people will use anything to justify the 'at the time.' I don't mean to come down on YOU for it, I'm just noticing a general trait. I've done it myself, just not in the FWB case. I'm glad that, whatever the scenario, things are working out a little better for you.

But... snogging? I haven't heard that word in a LONG time. lol

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Posted: Wed Sep 10, 2008 7:46 am

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You know, people always tell you that but it just seems like a good idea at the time... I think (for me, anyway) there as the subconcious hope it might have led to more. Obviously it didn't and he kinda screwed me over but I actually ended up winning in the longrun xD He and I are (almost) completely cool with one another too now. Though I think we'd be having the issues we're having now even if we hadn't started snogging eachother...

Well, of course it's a good idea... at the time. And people will use anything to justify the 'at the time.' I don't mean to come down on YOU for it, I'm just noticing a general trait. I've done it myself, just not in the FWB case. I'm glad that, whatever the scenario, things are working out a little better for you.

But... snogging? I haven't heard that word in a LONG time. lol

Oh no worries. While I don't regret my descicions, I won't be doing anything like that again for quite a while...

And yes, snogging. I grew up watching brit coms, so... haha.

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