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theredwolf_13
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 8:02 am


I am so glad to hear this is helping people. biggrin
PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 11:14 pm


I've had sex (fingering, toys, oral) with one girl - a LOT. I've pretty much agreed with most of what this site says for the past three years or so. But it made me think about something I hadn't realized before:

Shortly after my now-ex and I had sex (my first time, she had before), a lesbian friend of mine had sex for the first time. She said there was fingering, just like my first time. She and the girl liked each other and it was consensual. But then this friend of mine didn't like that girl anymore and she now says that she's still a virgin. But if she's still a virgin, then I'm still a virgin. My ex cheated on me, dumped me, kicked me out of our apartment the next day, and engaged the girl with whom she cheated on me. Just because I hope my ex gets chlamydia doesn't mean we didn't have sex. Disliking the person with whom you had consensual sex doesn't mean you didn't have sex.

Sorry for that rant . . .

kleokriesel


Dystopia Lycanthropia

PostPosted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 7:02 pm


My heart stops beating only for you, baby...

Okay. Posting in here again after a long time...

I consider losing your virginity to be when you participate in any meaningful sexual activity. For example: A couple months ago, my best friend spent the night. Long story short, I had her over for the purpose of... having sex. >P Sounds bad, I know... but it's really not. After we did... sexual things, I no longer considered myself a virgin.

However, I don't recommend any kind of sex with someone you're not in a relationship with. There's always that risk of emotional attachment. I got emotionally attached to my friend for a while. ^.^;; Though my first time was still with someone I really care about, it still wasn't good for me to get attached to her like that. (I'm over it now, though. I have the love of my life. <3)
For your loving...
PostPosted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 8:35 am


theredwolf_13
I thought that many of you may find this helpful.

Virginity: What it means to you


Hm. I'll have to remember to read this later...

Shino Mikami

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