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 Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:30 pm
kaenmikoto okay. i will probably be promptly banned again, but water rouge re-invited me. sweatdrop im begining to wonder if people actually DID read the argument. never once did i say that the mods put down unfair rules. sure, i got out of line. but its not like i (or others) havent done it before. and i dont think its against the guild rules to cuss. or even disrespect the mods. (we really need to add that rule though...). what i was angry about and still am (but am not blinded by frustration) is the fact that the decision was made so quickly without my chance to give input (such as creating a different subforum or at least not lopping spam in with the other still active threads). so i think i was unfairly banned. fairly cussed at? yeah. but thats what you (or syko and i at least) do when arguments get heated. and as a side note, i have syko and carma on my ignore list because i fear that if i do talk to them, i will flip a lid and REALLY break some guild rules. sweatdrop why? because if you havent noticed, i wasnt the only one being disrespectful. one reason i became so heated was because of the "tag-team" insults coming from carma/syko. whether they were meant to harm, and if they were, whether they were justified is in the matter of an opinion. and in my opinion, i felt hurt, and therefore hurt back. but apparently you can get banned for that. stare Dude, look.. You said everyone in the entire guild turned into "******** tightwads", implying that our rules have become "unfair" or "just too much". Correct me if I'm wrong, though.
It's not guild rules, but rules none-the-less, in society: Being so disrespectful to someone, who was TRYING to stop an arguement before it got out of hand, because we tend to get intense, real fast, as you already know.
We were willing to listen to your suggestions after we moved it, we all just got so cought up in the arguement, nobody cared anymore, so I'm guessing that was what pissed you off even more, again, correct me if I'm wrong..
The "tag team" insults weren't meant to be "tag team".. We just happened to be on the same side of the arguement.. That's kind of what happens when two people agree, they fight together against the opposing side, though you might have taken it the wrong way, I don't know.
We banned you, yes, but that wasnt' permanent. Mainly just to wait until things cooled off, and now, I think that's happened. So if you're ready to continue the arguement, or give your suggestions like you have been wanting, I'd be glad to hear.
Btw, this is SyKo.. I'm using my mule.. I just want to talk, so don't put me on your ignore list..
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:42 pm
ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto okay. i will probably be promptly banned again, but water rouge re-invited me. sweatdrop im begining to wonder if people actually DID read the argument. never once did i say that the mods put down unfair rules. sure, i got out of line. but its not like i (or others) havent done it before. and i dont think its against the guild rules to cuss. or even disrespect the mods. (we really need to add that rule though...). what i was angry about and still am (but am not blinded by frustration) is the fact that the decision was made so quickly without my chance to give input (such as creating a different subforum or at least not lopping spam in with the other still active threads). so i think i was unfairly banned. fairly cussed at? yeah. but thats what you (or syko and i at least) do when arguments get heated. and as a side note, i have syko and carma on my ignore list because i fear that if i do talk to them, i will flip a lid and REALLY break some guild rules. sweatdrop why? because if you havent noticed, i wasnt the only one being disrespectful. one reason i became so heated was because of the "tag-team" insults coming from carma/syko. whether they were meant to harm, and if they were, whether they were justified is in the matter of an opinion. and in my opinion, i felt hurt, and therefore hurt back. but apparently you can get banned for that. stare Dude, look.. You said everyone in the entire guild turned into "******** tightwads", implying that our rules have become "unfair" or "just too much". Correct me if I'm wrong, though.
It's not guild rules, but rules none-the-less in society, that being so disrespectful to someone, who was TRYING to some way stop the arguement before it got out of hand. Main reason, because we tend to get intense, real fast, as you already know.
We were willing to listen to your suggestions after we moved it, we all just got so cought up in the arguement, nobody cared anymore, so I'm guessing that was what pissed you off even more, again, correct me if I'm wrong..
The "tag team" insults weren't meant to be "tag team".. We just happened to be on the same side of the arguement.. That's kind of what happens when two people agree, they fight together against the opposing side, though you might have taken it the wrong way, I don't know.
We banned you, yes, but that wasnt' permanent. Mainly just to wait until things cooled off, and now, I think that's happened. So if you're ready to continue the arguement, or give your suggestions like you have been wanting, I'd be glad to hear.
Btw, this is SyKo.. I'm using my mule.. I just want to talk, don't put me on your ignore list. (i'm taking you off my ignore list because it obiously isnt going to stop us from talking) now maybe im just nit-picky, but i used "********" as an adjective to emphasize my point. not the most graceful way, but it was effective. and carma even said that maybe they had become more strict. plus, when i said "turned into" that implied that they changed. im saying that they arent what they used to be. and as i said before, i think carma knew what she was doing and pushed me buttons. i dont think she was trying to stop my fight with you.. (unless you are referring to the discussion i had originally with anime. in which case i responded by "cussing her out". but i already addressed that situation) yes, you are correct. i was pissed that no one even thought to listen to my suggestion for a solution before they carried out the action. weve established that. and in regards to the "tag team", what i found infuriating was that carma was telling me not to insult when both of us were guilty of insulting the other. and my solution to try and "cool off" was a lot less extreme and a lot less scary. i put you two on my ignore list so i wouldnt feel the need to "cuss" either of you out.
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:48 pm
kaenmikoto ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto okay. i will probably be promptly banned again, but water rouge re-invited me. sweatdrop im begining to wonder if people actually DID read the argument. never once did i say that the mods put down unfair rules. sure, i got out of line. but its not like i (or others) havent done it before. and i dont think its against the guild rules to cuss. or even disrespect the mods. (we really need to add that rule though...). what i was angry about and still am (but am not blinded by frustration) is the fact that the decision was made so quickly without my chance to give input (such as creating a different subforum or at least not lopping spam in with the other still active threads). so i think i was unfairly banned. fairly cussed at? yeah. but thats what you (or syko and i at least) do when arguments get heated. and as a side note, i have syko and carma on my ignore list because i fear that if i do talk to them, i will flip a lid and REALLY break some guild rules. sweatdrop why? because if you havent noticed, i wasnt the only one being disrespectful. one reason i became so heated was because of the "tag-team" insults coming from carma/syko. whether they were meant to harm, and if they were, whether they were justified is in the matter of an opinion. and in my opinion, i felt hurt, and therefore hurt back. but apparently you can get banned for that. stare Dude, look.. You said everyone in the entire guild turned into "******** tightwads", implying that our rules have become "unfair" or "just too much". Correct me if I'm wrong, though.
It's not guild rules, but rules none-the-less in society, that being so disrespectful to someone, who was TRYING to some way stop the arguement before it got out of hand. Main reason, because we tend to get intense, real fast, as you already know.
We were willing to listen to your suggestions after we moved it, we all just got so cought up in the arguement, nobody cared anymore, so I'm guessing that was what pissed you off even more, again, correct me if I'm wrong..
The "tag team" insults weren't meant to be "tag team".. We just happened to be on the same side of the arguement.. That's kind of what happens when two people agree, they fight together against the opposing side, though you might have taken it the wrong way, I don't know.
We banned you, yes, but that wasnt' permanent. Mainly just to wait until things cooled off, and now, I think that's happened. So if you're ready to continue the arguement, or give your suggestions like you have been wanting, I'd be glad to hear.
Btw, this is SyKo.. I'm using my mule.. I just want to talk, don't put me on your ignore list. (i'm taking you off my ignore list because it obiously isnt going to stop us from talking) now maybe im just nit-picky, but i used "********" as an adjective to emphasize my point. not the most graceful way, but it was effective. and carma even said that maybe they had become more strict. plus, when i said "turned into" that implied that they changed. im saying that they arent what they used to be. and as i said before, i think carma knew what she was doing and pushed me buttons. i dont think she was trying to stop my fight with you.. (unless you are referring to the discussion i had originally with anime. in which case i responded by "cussing her out". but i already addressed that situation) yes, you are correct. i was pissed that no one even thought to listen to my suggestion for a solution before they carried out the action. weve established that. and in regards to the "tag team", what i found infuriating was that carma was telling me not to insult when both of us were guilty of insulting the other. and my solution to try and "cool off" was a lot less extreme and a lot less scary. i put you two on my ignore list so i wouldnt feel the need to "cuss" either of you out. So I guess you have no intention of reconciling, then..?
I'm telling you, were were WILLING to listen, but the arguement continued to escalate, and you never ONCE even TRIED to give us a suggestion during the arguement.. You just kept telling us we wouldn't listen. We can't listen to something not being said, know what I mean?
I admit, her telling you not to insult me when I was insulting you as well, probably wasn't the best, but I think at that point, she was already over the edge from being targeted and labeled the main antagonist of the entire situation.. Not trying to bail her out or anything, just my two cents..
But, you saying she did on purpose, just to ******** with you, is just absurd. You're telling me I was being biased.. But, dude, you have to admit, blaming her like that with no proof is a bit odd. Carma, Sumi, Puzzles and myself have all agreed, we would have all moved the post either way.
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:50 pm
I will not involve myself into this conversation... i will not yell... i will not even read what is being said... i will not ban anyone yet, until i get the say so... I will however... have a chat... with rouge...
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:52 pm
Nibi no Nekomata I will not involve myself into this conversation... i will not yell... i will not even read what is being said... i will not ban anyone yet, until i get the say so... I will however... have a chat... with rouge... I'm sure Rouge just wants the tention in the guild gone, just like we do.. He's giving us and Kaen the chance to explain ourselves.
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:53 pm
AmErIcAnSyKo Nibi no Nekomata I will not involve myself into this conversation... i will not yell... i will not even read what is being said... i will not ban anyone yet, until i get the say so... I will however... have a chat... with rouge... I'm sure Rouge just wants the tention in the guild gone, just like we do.. He's giving us and Kaen the chance to explain ourselves. I wouldn't want to be tag-teaming anyone... But... if there is even a hint of... any troubles or problems. I will give my... "two-cents" So to speak...
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:00 pm
ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto okay. i will probably be promptly banned again, but water rouge re-invited me. sweatdrop im begining to wonder if people actually DID read the argument. never once did i say that the mods put down unfair rules. sure, i got out of line. but its not like i (or others) havent done it before. and i dont think its against the guild rules to cuss. or even disrespect the mods. (we really need to add that rule though...). what i was angry about and still am (but am not blinded by frustration) is the fact that the decision was made so quickly without my chance to give input (such as creating a different subforum or at least not lopping spam in with the other still active threads). so i think i was unfairly banned. fairly cussed at? yeah. but thats what you (or syko and i at least) do when arguments get heated. and as a side note, i have syko and carma on my ignore list because i fear that if i do talk to them, i will flip a lid and REALLY break some guild rules. sweatdrop why? because if you havent noticed, i wasnt the only one being disrespectful. one reason i became so heated was because of the "tag-team" insults coming from carma/syko. whether they were meant to harm, and if they were, whether they were justified is in the matter of an opinion. and in my opinion, i felt hurt, and therefore hurt back. but apparently you can get banned for that. stare Dude, look.. You said everyone in the entire guild turned into "******** tightwads", implying that our rules have become "unfair" or "just too much". Correct me if I'm wrong, though.
It's not guild rules, but rules none-the-less in society, that being so disrespectful to someone, who was TRYING to some way stop the arguement before it got out of hand. Main reason, because we tend to get intense, real fast, as you already know.
We were willing to listen to your suggestions after we moved it, we all just got so cought up in the arguement, nobody cared anymore, so I'm guessing that was what pissed you off even more, again, correct me if I'm wrong..
The "tag team" insults weren't meant to be "tag team".. We just happened to be on the same side of the arguement.. That's kind of what happens when two people agree, they fight together against the opposing side, though you might have taken it the wrong way, I don't know.
We banned you, yes, but that wasnt' permanent. Mainly just to wait until things cooled off, and now, I think that's happened. So if you're ready to continue the arguement, or give your suggestions like you have been wanting, I'd be glad to hear.
Btw, this is SyKo.. I'm using my mule.. I just want to talk, don't put me on your ignore list. (i'm taking you off my ignore list because it obiously isnt going to stop us from talking) now maybe im just nit-picky, but i used "********" as an adjective to emphasize my point. not the most graceful way, but it was effective. and carma even said that maybe they had become more strict. plus, when i said "turned into" that implied that they changed. im saying that they arent what they used to be. and as i said before, i think carma knew what she was doing and pushed me buttons. i dont think she was trying to stop my fight with you.. (unless you are referring to the discussion i had originally with anime. in which case i responded by "cussing her out". but i already addressed that situation) yes, you are correct. i was pissed that no one even thought to listen to my suggestion for a solution before they carried out the action. weve established that. and in regards to the "tag team", what i found infuriating was that carma was telling me not to insult when both of us were guilty of insulting the other. and my solution to try and "cool off" was a lot less extreme and a lot less scary. i put you two on my ignore list so i wouldnt feel the need to "cuss" either of you out. So I guess you have no intention of reconciling, then..?
I'm telling you, were were WILLING to listen, but the arguement continued to escalate, and you never ONCE even TRIED to give us a suggestion during the arguement.. You just kept telling us we wouldn't listen. We can't listen to something not being said, know what I mean?
I admit, her telling you not to insult me when I was insulting you as well, probably wasn't the best, but I think at that point, she was already over the edge from being targeted and labeled the main antagonist of the entire situation.. Not trying to bail her out or anything, just my two cents..
But, you saying she did on purpose, just to ******** with you, is just absurd. You're telling me I was being biased.. But, dude, you have to admit, blaming her like that with no proof is a bit odd. Carma, Sumi, Puzzles and myself have all agreed, we would have all moved the post either way. you might have been willing to listen, but it was too late. its like giving a kid detention THEN asking his side of the story. i believe that if she truly wished to stop the argument, she wouldn't have targeted only me. she would have done something like asked us to not fight, or told us. or even delete the thread (which consequently probably would have been worse... o.O) but water rouge, anime, and myself agree it was rash. and i plan on reconciling when i am ready. im not ready quite yet, and if you push me or question this decision, an apology will not come any faster.
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:02 pm
Nibi no Nekomata I will not involve myself into this conversation... i will not yell... i will not even read what is being said... i will not ban anyone yet, until i get the say so... I will however... have a chat... with rouge... you will not. xp you did what you thought best by banning me, and he did what he thought best by inviting me back
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:06 pm
kaenmikoto Nibi no Nekomata I will not involve myself into this conversation... i will not yell... i will not even read what is being said... i will not ban anyone yet, until i get the say so... I will however... have a chat... with rouge... you will not. xp you did what you thought best by banning me, and he did what he thought best by inviting me back Too late, i sent him a Pm... He will however, get the full, i cant find the word im looking for... so i will use fury, fury of this particular arguement... And, about your above post, we were talking quite abit on MSN... Furthermore... As also stated in the above posts... you said "an apology will not come any faster." Does this mean that there is a chance you will appologize?
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:07 pm
kaenmikoto ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto okay. i will probably be promptly banned again, but water rouge re-invited me. sweatdrop im begining to wonder if people actually DID read the argument. never once did i say that the mods put down unfair rules. sure, i got out of line. but its not like i (or others) havent done it before. and i dont think its against the guild rules to cuss. or even disrespect the mods. (we really need to add that rule though...). what i was angry about and still am (but am not blinded by frustration) is the fact that the decision was made so quickly without my chance to give input (such as creating a different subforum or at least not lopping spam in with the other still active threads). so i think i was unfairly banned. fairly cussed at? yeah. but thats what you (or syko and i at least) do when arguments get heated. and as a side note, i have syko and carma on my ignore list because i fear that if i do talk to them, i will flip a lid and REALLY break some guild rules. sweatdrop why? because if you havent noticed, i wasnt the only one being disrespectful. one reason i became so heated was because of the "tag-team" insults coming from carma/syko. whether they were meant to harm, and if they were, whether they were justified is in the matter of an opinion. and in my opinion, i felt hurt, and therefore hurt back. but apparently you can get banned for that. stare Dude, look.. You said everyone in the entire guild turned into "******** tightwads", implying that our rules have become "unfair" or "just too much". Correct me if I'm wrong, though.
It's not guild rules, but rules none-the-less in society, that being so disrespectful to someone, who was TRYING to some way stop the arguement before it got out of hand. Main reason, because we tend to get intense, real fast, as you already know.
We were willing to listen to your suggestions after we moved it, we all just got so cought up in the arguement, nobody cared anymore, so I'm guessing that was what pissed you off even more, again, correct me if I'm wrong..
The "tag team" insults weren't meant to be "tag team".. We just happened to be on the same side of the arguement.. That's kind of what happens when two people agree, they fight together against the opposing side, though you might have taken it the wrong way, I don't know.
We banned you, yes, but that wasnt' permanent. Mainly just to wait until things cooled off, and now, I think that's happened. So if you're ready to continue the arguement, or give your suggestions like you have been wanting, I'd be glad to hear.
Btw, this is SyKo.. I'm using my mule.. I just want to talk, don't put me on your ignore list. (i'm taking you off my ignore list because it obiously isnt going to stop us from talking) now maybe im just nit-picky, but i used "********" as an adjective to emphasize my point. not the most graceful way, but it was effective. and carma even said that maybe they had become more strict. plus, when i said "turned into" that implied that they changed. im saying that they arent what they used to be. and as i said before, i think carma knew what she was doing and pushed me buttons. i dont think she was trying to stop my fight with you.. (unless you are referring to the discussion i had originally with anime. in which case i responded by "cussing her out". but i already addressed that situation) yes, you are correct. i was pissed that no one even thought to listen to my suggestion for a solution before they carried out the action. weve established that. and in regards to the "tag team", what i found infuriating was that carma was telling me not to insult when both of us were guilty of insulting the other. and my solution to try and "cool off" was a lot less extreme and a lot less scary. i put you two on my ignore list so i wouldnt feel the need to "cuss" either of you out. So I guess you have no intention of reconciling, then..?
I'm telling you, were were WILLING to listen, but the arguement continued to escalate, and you never ONCE even TRIED to give us a suggestion during the arguement.. You just kept telling us we wouldn't listen. We can't listen to something not being said, know what I mean?
I admit, her telling you not to insult me when I was insulting you as well, probably wasn't the best, but I think at that point, she was already over the edge from being targeted and labeled the main antagonist of the entire situation.. Not trying to bail her out or anything, just my two cents..
But, you saying she did on purpose, just to ******** with you, is just absurd. You're telling me I was being biased.. But, dude, you have to admit, blaming her like that with no proof is a bit odd. Carma, Sumi, Puzzles and myself have all agreed, we would have all moved the post either way. you might have been willing to listen, but it was too late. its like giving a kid detention THEN asking his side of the story. i believe that if she truly wished to stop the argument, she wouldn't have targeted only me. she would have done something like asked us to not fight, or told us. or even delete the thread (which consequently probably would have been worse... o.O) but water rouge, anime, and myself agree it was rash. and i plan on reconciling when i am ready. im not ready quite yet, and if you push me or question this decision, an apology will not come any faster. Lol. Well, it's hard to pay attention to suggestions when you have to read between "********, s**t's, and b***h's". rofl
Nibi handles things differently, just like everyone else in the world. She thought the best way, would've have just been to move it and get it over with; Hell, I don't blame her. It sounded like a smart idea.
Wasn't pushing you.. Just making sure you planned on it some time. Some people may think it, about me, but I really don't like to argue for long periods of time.. cool
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:09 pm
Nibi no Nekomata kaenmikoto Nibi no Nekomata I will not involve myself into this conversation... i will not yell... i will not even read what is being said... i will not ban anyone yet, until i get the say so... I will however... have a chat... with rouge... you will not. xp you did what you thought best by banning me, and he did what he thought best by inviting me back Too late, i sent him a Pm... He will however, get the full, i cant find the word im looking for... so i will use fury, fury of this particular arguement... And, about your above post, we were talking quite abit on MSN... i believe it was good of him to invite me back so we could work this out. why are you angry at him? i tried to stop the argument between the three of us by ignoring you two. you tried to stop it by banning me. obviously the argument is over, so what is wrong with us talking? i took you off my ignore list.
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:12 pm
AmErIcAnSyKo kaenmikoto ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto okay. i will probably be promptly banned again, but water rouge re-invited me. sweatdrop im begining to wonder if people actually DID read the argument. never once did i say that the mods put down unfair rules. sure, i got out of line. but its not like i (or others) havent done it before. and i dont think its against the guild rules to cuss. or even disrespect the mods. (we really need to add that rule though...). what i was angry about and still am (but am not blinded by frustration) is the fact that the decision was made so quickly without my chance to give input (such as creating a different subforum or at least not lopping spam in with the other still active threads). so i think i was unfairly banned. fairly cussed at? yeah. but thats what you (or syko and i at least) do when arguments get heated. and as a side note, i have syko and carma on my ignore list because i fear that if i do talk to them, i will flip a lid and REALLY break some guild rules. sweatdrop why? because if you havent noticed, i wasnt the only one being disrespectful. one reason i became so heated was because of the "tag-team" insults coming from carma/syko. whether they were meant to harm, and if they were, whether they were justified is in the matter of an opinion. and in my opinion, i felt hurt, and therefore hurt back. but apparently you can get banned for that. stare Dude, look.. You said everyone in the entire guild turned into "******** tightwads", implying that our rules have become "unfair" or "just too much". Correct me if I'm wrong, though.
It's not guild rules, but rules none-the-less in society, that being so disrespectful to someone, who was TRYING to some way stop the arguement before it got out of hand. Main reason, because we tend to get intense, real fast, as you already know.
We were willing to listen to your suggestions after we moved it, we all just got so cought up in the arguement, nobody cared anymore, so I'm guessing that was what pissed you off even more, again, correct me if I'm wrong..
The "tag team" insults weren't meant to be "tag team".. We just happened to be on the same side of the arguement.. That's kind of what happens when two people agree, they fight together against the opposing side, though you might have taken it the wrong way, I don't know.
We banned you, yes, but that wasnt' permanent. Mainly just to wait until things cooled off, and now, I think that's happened. So if you're ready to continue the arguement, or give your suggestions like you have been wanting, I'd be glad to hear.
Btw, this is SyKo.. I'm using my mule.. I just want to talk, don't put me on your ignore list. (i'm taking you off my ignore list because it obiously isnt going to stop us from talking) now maybe im just nit-picky, but i used "********" as an adjective to emphasize my point. not the most graceful way, but it was effective. and carma even said that maybe they had become more strict. plus, when i said "turned into" that implied that they changed. im saying that they arent what they used to be. and as i said before, i think carma knew what she was doing and pushed me buttons. i dont think she was trying to stop my fight with you.. (unless you are referring to the discussion i had originally with anime. in which case i responded by "cussing her out". but i already addressed that situation) yes, you are correct. i was pissed that no one even thought to listen to my suggestion for a solution before they carried out the action. weve established that. and in regards to the "tag team", what i found infuriating was that carma was telling me not to insult when both of us were guilty of insulting the other. and my solution to try and "cool off" was a lot less extreme and a lot less scary. i put you two on my ignore list so i wouldnt feel the need to "cuss" either of you out. So I guess you have no intention of reconciling, then..?
I'm telling you, were were WILLING to listen, but the arguement continued to escalate, and you never ONCE even TRIED to give us a suggestion during the arguement.. You just kept telling us we wouldn't listen. We can't listen to something not being said, know what I mean?
I admit, her telling you not to insult me when I was insulting you as well, probably wasn't the best, but I think at that point, she was already over the edge from being targeted and labeled the main antagonist of the entire situation.. Not trying to bail her out or anything, just my two cents..
But, you saying she did on purpose, just to ******** with you, is just absurd. You're telling me I was being biased.. But, dude, you have to admit, blaming her like that with no proof is a bit odd. Carma, Sumi, Puzzles and myself have all agreed, we would have all moved the post either way. you might have been willing to listen, but it was too late. its like giving a kid detention THEN asking his side of the story. i believe that if she truly wished to stop the argument, she wouldn't have targeted only me. she would have done something like asked us to not fight, or told us. or even delete the thread (which consequently probably would have been worse... o.O) but water rouge, anime, and myself agree it was rash. and i plan on reconciling when i am ready. im not ready quite yet, and if you push me or question this decision, an apology will not come any faster. Lol. Well, it's hard to pay attention to suggestions when you have to read between "********, s**t's, and b***h's". rofl
Nibi handles things differently, just like everyone else in the world. She thought the best way, would've have just been to move it and get it over with; Hell, I don't blame her. It sounded like a smart idea.
Wasn't pushing you.. Just making sure you planned on it some time. Some people may think it, about me, but I really don't like to argue for long periods of time.. cool once again, i only cussed after the thread was moved. you never "listened" while the thread was still in the main forum. (and did i really use all that? >.>) that was to stop my "discussion" with anime. and in a sense, it did. but because of that action, a new argument was started, due to the injustification of that action. (in my opinion)
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:14 pm
kaenmikoto Nibi no Nekomata kaenmikoto Nibi no Nekomata I will not involve myself into this conversation... i will not yell... i will not even read what is being said... i will not ban anyone yet, until i get the say so... I will however... have a chat... with rouge... you will not. xp you did what you thought best by banning me, and he did what he thought best by inviting me back Too late, i sent him a Pm... He will however, get the full, i cant find the word im looking for... so i will use fury, fury of this particular arguement... And, about your above post, we were talking quite abit on MSN... i believe it was good of him to invite me back so we could work this out. why are you angry at him? i tried to stop the argument between the three of us by ignoring you two. you tried to stop it by banning me. obviously the argument is over, so what is wrong with us talking? i took you off my ignore list. Nothing is wrong with talking... And, not to be rude... but the reason why i am mad at rouge is, well, my business. It is about you, but telling you, will not help in any way.
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:15 pm
kaenmikoto AmErIcAnSyKo kaenmikoto ChronicPsychosis kaenmikoto (i'm taking you off my ignore list because it obiously isnt going to stop us from talking) now maybe im just nit-picky, but i used "********" as an adjective to emphasize my point. not the most graceful way, but it was effective. and carma even said that maybe they had become more strict. plus, when i said "turned into" that implied that they changed. im saying that they arent what they used to be. and as i said before, i think carma knew what she was doing and pushed me buttons. i dont think she was trying to stop my fight with you.. (unless you are referring to the discussion i had originally with anime. in which case i responded by "cussing her out". but i already addressed that situation) yes, you are correct. i was pissed that no one even thought to listen to my suggestion for a solution before they carried out the action. weve established that. and in regards to the "tag team", what i found infuriating was that carma was telling me not to insult when both of us were guilty of insulting the other. and my solution to try and "cool off" was a lot less extreme and a lot less scary. i put you two on my ignore list so i wouldnt feel the need to "cuss" either of you out. So I guess you have no intention of reconciling, then..?
I'm telling you, were were WILLING to listen, but the arguement continued to escalate, and you never ONCE even TRIED to give us a suggestion during the arguement.. You just kept telling us we wouldn't listen. We can't listen to something not being said, know what I mean?
I admit, her telling you not to insult me when I was insulting you as well, probably wasn't the best, but I think at that point, she was already over the edge from being targeted and labeled the main antagonist of the entire situation.. Not trying to bail her out or anything, just my two cents..
But, you saying she did on purpose, just to ******** with you, is just absurd. You're telling me I was being biased.. But, dude, you have to admit, blaming her like that with no proof is a bit odd. Carma, Sumi, Puzzles and myself have all agreed, we would have all moved the post either way. you might have been willing to listen, but it was too late. its like giving a kid detention THEN asking his side of the story. i believe that if she truly wished to stop the argument, she wouldn't have targeted only me. she would have done something like asked us to not fight, or told us. or even delete the thread (which consequently probably would have been worse... o.O) but water rouge, anime, and myself agree it was rash. and i plan on reconciling when i am ready. im not ready quite yet, and if you push me or question this decision, an apology will not come any faster. Lol. Well, it's hard to pay attention to suggestions when you have to read between "********, s**t's, and b***h's". rofl
Nibi handles things differently, just like everyone else in the world. She thought the best way, would've have just been to move it and get it over with; Hell, I don't blame her. It sounded like a smart idea.
Wasn't pushing you.. Just making sure you planned on it some time. Some people may think it, about me, but I really don't like to argue for long periods of time.. cool once again, i only cussed after the thread was moved. you never "listened" while the thread was still in the main forum. (and did i really use all that? >.>) that was to stop my "discussion" with anime. and in a sense, it did. but because of that action, a new argument was started, due to the injustification of that action. (in my opinion) Lol. I know. But like I said, we didn't want a repeat of the arguement I had with the whole guild about the post moving thing.. So we tried to stop it before it could spread farther. Like cancer. (LOL)
And yes.. We did use quite a few cuss words. Very diverse. 3nodding
Like I said, people handle things in different ways.. At the time, we just wanted it handled, period.. Even though it might have been a little quick to move it.
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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 10:20 pm
we need to differentiate between two situations...
situation one:
while my thread was in the main forum, i was having a discussion with anime about the placement of the thread. then carma moved it to "stop the fighting". i dont think she was targeting me at all. i think it was a decision that should have been carried out AFTER i was done discussing with anime, and thats what sparked the argument
situation two:
when you and i were arguing heatedly in the spam forum, carma stepped in and said i shouldnt be insulting/cussing. THAT is what i thought was targeted toward me and should have been targeted to both of us.
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