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Me and family and most of my friends believe that you should have sex before marriage at least with the person you WANT to marry. You should do it because you need to see if you're sexually compatible with each other. I mean what if the 2 of you are on completely seperate pages when it comes to sex? It means you will either have THE crappiest sex liver EVE or none at all.

But than again that's my opinion.

I'm for sex before marriage. You can have the mental connection of love with somebody all you want, but you wont know a more exciting and different part of that love without sex. Not saying that the only physical expression of love is sex, it's definetly the easiest, but if you are going to marry somebody, you should know if you are sexually compatiable, and truly in love, which includes sex.