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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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 Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:21 pm
phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. i PMed her what you suggested and she said: i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds no what i mean is the post orgasm hormonal wackyness like from the oxytocin... females have a much longer period of these hormonal shenanigans than do males... and often when the male breaks the bond early, the female gets moody... plus this boyfriend needs to work on his orgasm delivery domokun so what do you suggest she does to help? well... she needs to talk to him... explain to him where/how/what gives her the most pleasure.... thats one... then somehow without offending him, she needs to explain this chemistry deal... like hostile heart says, that soothing feeling... if its not nurtured it can turn sour very easily/fast... epecially if she wasnt fully satisfied... like bad move, is for the dude to go get up and play xbox, thats a really bad move sweatdrop lol! yeh it is a little
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:23 pm
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. i PMed her what you suggested and she said: i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds no what i mean is the post orgasm hormonal wackyness like from the oxytocin... females have a much longer period of these hormonal shenanigans than do males... and often when the male breaks the bond early, the female gets moody... plus this boyfriend needs to work on his orgasm delivery domokun so what do you suggest she does to help? well... she needs to talk to him... explain to him where/how/what gives her the most pleasure.... thats one... then somehow without offending him, she needs to explain this chemistry deal... like hostile heart says, that soothing feeling... if its not nurtured it can turn sour very easily/fast... epecially if she wasnt fully satisfied... like bad move, is for the dude to go get up and play xbox, thats a really bad move sweatdrop lol! yeh it is a little mmmm bad moves.... there should be a what not to do thread lol
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.x.shatterd_innocence.x. Captain
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:24 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 02, 2007 2:26 pm
mighta save me from making that mistake more than once
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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 9:32 am
Hi, i'm going for my first GYN exam soon; i was just wondering what to expect?
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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 5:07 pm
phoebe_phoenix Hi, i'm going for my first GYN exam soon; i was just wondering what to expect?
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Posted: Wed Jan 03, 2007 5:35 pm
Ahaha I have one:
Dear Agony Aunt, I orgasm way to easily, and way too much XD What's the deal? Am I an orgasm freak? rofl
My boyfriend loves it rofl
I'm 100% serious, I'm like a female version of a male premature ejaculator biggrin .... Except I can keep going. 4laugh
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 8:53 am
Bishoujo Samurai Ahaha I have one:
Dear Agony Aunt, I orgasm way to easily, and way too much XD What's the deal? Am I an orgasm freak? rofl
My boyfriend loves it rofl
I'm 100% serious, I'm like a female version of a male premature ejaculator biggrin .... Except I can keep going. 4laugh i have the same problem during outercourse, it's quite annoying because i'll get an orgasm after only a few minutes, sometimes it feels unbelievable but then i cant continue. i have to stop, and i know it's frustrating for my boyfriend. i do get him off through oral once ive 'recoverd' but it's not the same...
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 11:07 am
Bishoujo Samurai Ahaha I have one:
Dear Agony Aunt, I orgasm way to easily, and way too much XD What's the deal? Am I an orgasm freak? rofl
My boyfriend loves it rofl
I'm 100% serious, I'm like a female version of a male premature ejaculator biggrin .... Except I can keep going. 4laugh then whats the problem? seriously... thats more of a good thing than a problem, unlike phoebe_phoenix who has to stop... but @phoebe_phoenix: since you have to stop and recover, why not just fool around while you are recovering... play with him, keep him going a little... then just have sex again... at some point all this stop and go is going to build up until he cant take it anymore and his orgasm will be for the better (assuming he doesn't blue ball first)
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 11:26 am
phoebe_phoenix Hi, i'm going for my first GYN exam soon; i was just wondering what to expect? They will weigh you, check your vitals (like your temperature and blood pressure), make oyu pee in a cup (to test for STDs, Pregnancy, and some other things), probably do a breast exam, as you questions, MAYBE make oyu get blood work, and more than likely a papsmear. Hope that was helpful sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 3:38 pm
phrook Bishoujo Samurai Ahaha I have one:
Dear Agony Aunt, I orgasm way to easily, and way too much XD What's the deal? Am I an orgasm freak? rofl
My boyfriend loves it rofl
I'm 100% serious, I'm like a female version of a male premature ejaculator biggrin .... Except I can keep going. 4laugh then whats the problem? seriously... thats more of a good thing than a problem, unlike phoebe_phoenix who has to stop... but @phoebe_phoenix: since you have to stop and recover, why not just fool around while you are recovering... play with him, keep him going a little... then just have sex again... at some point all this stop and go is going to build up until he cant take it anymore and his orgasm will be for the better (assuming he doesn't blue ball first)
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Posted: Thu Jan 04, 2007 9:31 pm
Disclosed Dear Agony Aunt I have a problem in my sex life. you see I am making sure to save my wife to be until our wedding but we do have outercourse but a problem has come up. you see she cant realy suck of well anything and she has no experiance with this kind of stuff. I absolutly abhore having to push her off and finishing it on my own. she a wonderful girl but Im afraid shes taking my finishing by myself the wrong way ~ a confused man
You say that she has no experience with this kind of stuff? Well maybe you should teach her biggrin Tell her the things that you like her doing, and try to tell her nicely the things you don't like her doing. If she's bad at giving you oral sex, maybe you guys could try something different?
If you explain to to her that you like finishing yourself off, maybe you could teach her how to do it in the same way. Just talk her through it. It might take some time to teach her but it'll be worth it wink
I hope this helped!
Good luck!
~Bishoujo heart
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 4:50 am
Bishoujo Samurai Disclosed Dear Agony Aunt I have a problem in my sex life. you see I am making sure to save my wife to be until our wedding but we do have outercourse but a problem has come up. you see she cant realy suck of well anything and she has no experiance with this kind of stuff. I absolutly abhore having to push her off and finishing it on my own. she a wonderful girl but Im afraid shes taking my finishing by myself the wrong way ~ a confused man
You say that she has no experience with this kind of stuff? Well maybe you should teach her biggrin Tell her the things that you like her doing, and try to tell her nicely the things you don't like her doing. If she's bad at giving you oral sex, maybe you guys could try something different?
If you explain to to her that you like finishing yourself off, maybe you could teach her how to do it in the same way. Just talk her through it. It might take some time to teach her but it'll be worth it wink
I hope this helped!
Good luck!
~Bishoujo heart communication! i second the answer. only you know what you like... and only you can tell her what that is... so if you intend to marry this girl, a little discussion about oral sex should not be beyond the bounds of acceptable conversation. communicate it saves a lot of problems
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 11:15 am
.x.shatterd_innocence.x. phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. phrook .x.shatterd_innocence.x. i PMed her what you suggested and she said: i do orgasm almost everytime, but most are only small and last for like 10 seconds no what i mean is the post orgasm hormonal wackyness like from the oxytocin... females have a much longer period of these hormonal shenanigans than do males... and often when the male breaks the bond early, the female gets moody... plus this boyfriend needs to work on his orgasm delivery domokun so what do you suggest she does to help? well... she needs to talk to him... explain to him where/how/what gives her the most pleasure.... thats one... then somehow without offending him, she needs to explain this chemistry deal... like hostile heart says, that soothing feeling... if its not nurtured it can turn sour very easily/fast... epecially if she wasnt fully satisfied... like bad move, is for the dude to go get up and play xbox, thats a really bad move sweatdrop lol! yeh it is a little also you could just spend time in each others arms for awhile it works very well well i think it dose anyway so you could try that
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