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 Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 8:48 pm
Aiko Amaya Everyone ever should wait until they are married to have sex.
The End.
No, I'm just kidding. I cant really have a good say on this topic. I BELIEVE that you should wait until you find someone you are so comfortable with and trust and love so much that you are willing and agreeable consent to making love with them. It is indeed, at times, something special to share.
BUT sometimes, you THINK you have that person, and you share it and share it, only to find out that they really ARENT the one you love. Should you feel bad for giving it to them?
Sadly, I lost my virginity at the ripe old age of FOURTEEN. I THOUGHT i was ready, and I THOUGHT I was in love, and I THOUGHT that it would be a great thing to share.
But what the ******** to fourteen year olds know?
Anyway, being a Virgin can be a good thing or not, depending on your priorities and beliefs, but really, whats so great about celebrating the fact that you just put your reproductive organs together?
I guess its special at first, when you think about it that way, but after the first time, gosh, you just wanna do it because it feels good. [and you get that special tingle. surprised ] I don't seem to get much of a tingle. sad Sex seems to feel better when you haven't seen that certain person for a while. I'm with my boyfriend just about everyday, and while we don't do it very often, it still feels better when i haven't seen him for over a week. It could be just us, but everytime we have sex it feels as if we're having a "quickie" instead of a drawn-out romantic one you'd see in chick-flicks....Maybe it's just me, and i need to stop watching movies like that? sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 9:06 pm
well many people my age get caught up with their first lover. It's a whole new world for them. They lose sight of their inhibitions in the passion and well, it's kind of like a fat man in a buffet. He gets so excited with all there is, and so he wants some of everything. He doesn't see that he'd be happy with just the chicken some mashed potatoes & gravy, and corn. No! he wants the chow mein on top of it with a slice of combination pizza and of course like the stereotypical american, will throw on some french fryes. You know what i mean? they get caught up in emotions and want to try everything as soon as they can.
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 10:33 pm
All this peer pressure and s**t. I don't know where we're going -_-.
I don't know, what the *beep* is up with teenagers having sex and getting pregnant. It's as if they think it's the "cool thing to do." No. It's not the cool thing to do. You're not cool when you have a kid at the age of 16 and you have more STDs than a prostitute.
Personally, I think that one's virginity is a gift. You give that gift to your partner when you commit to them. I'm not saying that you can't have sex until you're married, but I would wait until at least a year of dating someone before having sex with them.
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Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 4:56 am
I'll let you guys know a little secret. I am a 13 year old, that has lost his virginity. redface
Pretty pathetic eh? Well yah, but when the girl makes the move, you work with it.
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Posted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 11:46 am
Mr. Geno I'll let you guys know a little secret. I am a 13 year old, that has lost his virginity. redface
Pretty pathetic eh? Well yah, but when the girl makes the move, you work with it.
Let's see, well I'm 16 and a virgin, and frankly I'm aware that I'm not physically ready for sex, even though I may be mentally ready. So I'm holding off. Besides in my opinion you can do lots of "intimate" things without taking the risk of getting pregnant, or STD's
Also, just a side note, I'm a little strange and irrational because if my period's late at all, I flip out, even though I'm a virgin, and semen's been nowhere NEAR there...I was two weeks late once and almost called Planned Parenthood... rolleyes So if I'm that paranoid now, imagine if there WAS a possibility...meeps...
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 9:52 am
Sadly, there is a thirteen year old in my neices school who is eight months pregnant. SHE'S THIRTEEN! MY neice is now freaking out, because her boyfriend wants sex, and she's not ready, but he's pressing. I'm trying to get her to break up with him, and I've told her that she will NOT have sex until she is TWENTY.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 12:38 pm
Personally, I'm a virgin, and I have no intentions of loosing it anytime soon. So far I'm single, I didn't even had my first kiss, and quite honestly, I am fine like this. Of course the fact that I'm a closeted homosexual may have something to do with the whole single thing, but meh. I'm saving myself for the right guy.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 3:13 pm
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. You should actually be proud of it. but recently the media is just showing kids that it's bad to be a virging, and many teenagers and such, think that not very many people are virgins anymore. In fact, alot of people are.
You shouldn't have sex until your married anyways. Minors don't have any business having sex before marriage. Having sex is pracitcally making a bond with your one special person. It's not a thing to chuck away qith someone who supposedly "loves" you.
Waiting for the right person is always good, and just shows how much you love your special someone, and how much you respect your own body.
So being a virgin is a great thing.
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Posted: Tue Nov 21, 2006 3:49 pm
Lost it last year. Don't really miss it, but I would have felt better losing it to someone I cared more about than who I lost it to. (Perhaps someone who cared more about me would be accurate.)
I think it's overrated. When my best friend finally told me he lost it, I asked him if he enjoyed it. He said yes, I told him to have at it, and ******** it. It's not important. It really isn't.
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Posted: Thu Dec 21, 2006 11:37 pm
1) Virginity is part of a person's body. They should be able to choose what to do with it
2) If you can't handle this, then don't talk to people about sex and if they try to tell you, hold your hands over your ears and scream "LALALALALA!"
3) Every time a person gets unwillingly pregnant or infected with STIs, it's not YOU. Just because YOU think it's bad, doesn't mean you have to suffer with whatever happens to other people due to sex.
4) If you have a sex-phobia, you need to learn more about sex, safer sex, and performance anxiety.
5) It took my husband and I about a year or two (and this is way before we married) to get to where sex was fun and pleasurable and orgasm inducing for both of us all of the time. Sex is not always "instant perfect wonderful thing". But it's proof that you're ******** the right person when they stick around through your farts and your fiddling around with bodily parts and your various position suggestions.
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 11:42 am
I always thought Virgin was a beautiful word, and it sounds beautiful and pure. I think it's nothing to be ashamed of, everyone should make the decision to have sexual intercourse when they really want to, not because of peer preasure.
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Posted: Fri May 18, 2007 8:37 pm
I am a virgin. I am mildly displeased with this, but I also feel no huge indescribable need to alter it. It is simply something I have always been. I believe I am in a minority of virgin men that would rather find a girl with similar interests and a complimenting skillset, rather than one that is necessarily attractive.
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Tzeentch The Mutator Crew
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 9:32 am
I like to think that with our societies more and more laid back view on virginity and teenage sex that we are getting close to where its no longer an issue to most people. I don't care anymore that I lost it and I don't think anyone else seems to care. Sex is no longer what it used to be. It has become simply a way to pass time for couples. I don't like that, but it seems to be proven true day by day.
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