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Dear Bonzi

I have a HUGE crush on someone in Gaia but have no idea on how to tell this someone and this someone is somewhat of a "Ladies Man" if you get my meaning. How do I tell this guy I really really like him?

Thanks

Lost in Crushes sweatdrop

Dear Lost in Crushes,

Well, I'm not sure who this person is, but maybe he enjoys playing the field. Maybe he likes being a "Ladies Man". Or maybe he is just looking for Miss Right, to come along.

It never hurts to ask, the worst he could say is "I'm not interested in a relationship right now."

Or, I guess the worst he could say is "Get away from me, or I'm calling the cops."

But unless you have been stalking him, I doubt he would say that.

Just be honest and true to yourself, and him.

Hope this helps,

Dear Jusfer Fun,

This is a tricky situation, if you give him too much time to be Mr. Right, then you could miss out on the REAL Mr. Right. On the other hand, you could be letting Mr. Right slip right through your fingers.

You must ask yourself this question, "Is he ALWAYS right, or is he just never mistaken?" If he is right in everything that he thinks, BUT when he is wrong, he accepts the fact and learns from it... then he could be Mr. Right... just really smart.

However if he is NEVER wrong... even when his information is incorrect, then that is probably not Mr. Right. He sounds more like Mr. Stuck up, and can't accept that he isn't the smartest person in the world. But then again, he probably hasn't met me.

I am Mr. Right Most of The Time, meaning. Most of what I say is correct, and I am hardly wrong, but when I am, I learn from those times that I am incorrect.

Just ask yourself those questions, and gather some information from them. Then and only then should you make your decision.


Let me know how this turns out.

Dear Bonzi,

I'm alway busy, yet I never seem to accomplish anything. I don't know why. sweatdrop

Can you help?

lost and confused xp

Spoken...the great Bonzi has. 3nodding

Ahh... my loyal followers. xd heart

Dear Wants to Spoil,

Thats kind of tough, you want to do something for someone who spoils you. Perhaps he isn't spoiling you to get something in return, other than the joy of spoiling you.

Has he asked for anything in return? Has he asked you to do anything?

My gut tells me that the answer is no. So, my suggestion would be something that they told you in elementary school, when it was Christmas, or Mothers day. Its not the cost of the item, its what it means. You could draw him a picture or write him a letter telling him how much you appreciate him.

Bottom line is, it dosn't matter what you do, he will love it.

Good luck,