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 Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 6:25 pm
Well it seems it doesn't matter anyway. I got a phone call from her today nothing like her saying, "Its just not going to work I'm sorry." instant heart break but I guess it was to be expected. If anyone wants to get ahold of me I'm gonna be drinking until I can't feel stuff.
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 6:59 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 9:42 pm
B_type13sback Well it seems it doesn't matter anyway. I got a phone call from her today nothing like her saying, "Its just not going to work I'm sorry." instant heart break but I guess it was to be expected. If anyone wants to get ahold of me I'm gonna be drinking until I can't feel stuff. It sounds to me that she was using the whole "trust" thing as a guise to try and let you down. That wench (and I use that term in the derogatory sense, not to insult anyone who is a reputable wench).
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 10:17 pm
U-235 B_type13sback Well it seems it doesn't matter anyway. I got a phone call from her today nothing like her saying, "Its just not going to work I'm sorry." instant heart break but I guess it was to be expected. If anyone wants to get ahold of me I'm gonna be drinking until I can't feel stuff. It sounds to me that she was using the whole "trust" thing as a guise to try and let you down. That wench (and I use that term in the derogatory sense, not to insult anyone who is a reputable wench). probably but right now I just don't give a ******** anymore. Like honestly if she didn't want the whole relationship thing it would have been alot better for her to just come out and say it. But oh no instead she does all this s**t, makes me feel bad and then just says it aint gonna work. I'm just glad beer was invented it is really good therapy.
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 11:58 pm
You want some advise? Sit and be quiet and listen.
Do you absolutely love her? If you do, don't show it through access to a computer, show it to her by sitting her down in front of you, look into her eyes and ask her why she feels you don't trust her, tell her that you do, and tell her the feelings you have, tell her that to you, access to your system was trust, but perhaps not what she was looking for, you have to be open to her, truthful, do what you can, and never let her go if you truly love her, cause if you do, then it will never work, you both have to hold on, and talk to each other, sort it out dude, don't come here for social advise on your girl, although sometimes people on here can be of help, this is C&T regulars, everyone is a geek wink .............. but seriously, sit down and talk with her, explain yourself and tell her how much you lover her and how much you do trust her, and you always have and always will...... you get the general idea now?
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 10:24 am
Arethic You want some advise? Sit and be quiet and listen. Do you absolutely love her? If you do, don't show it through access to a computer, show it to her by sitting her down in front of you, look into her eyes and ask her why she feels you don't trust her, tell her that you do, and tell her the feelings you have, tell her that to you, access to your system was trust, but perhaps not what she was looking for, you have to be open to her, truthful, do what you can, and never let her go if you truly love her, cause if you do, then it will never work, you both have to hold on, and talk to each other, sort it out dude, don't come here for social advise on your girl, although sometimes people on here can be of help, this is C&T regulars, everyone is a geek wink .............. but seriously, sit down and talk with her, explain yourself and tell her how much you lover her and how much you do trust her, and you always have and always will...... you get the general idea now? Dude I never loved her like that, she was just someone I wanted to be good friends with. You all assumed that I wanted a relationship when I told you all that she said it wasn't gonna work out. Well I never wanted a relationship like that with her to begin with, she assumed that I did as well. But I couldn't have cared less about going for the romantic type of relationship now, what I wanted was to get a large group of friends together like I used to have back home, but she doesn't even want to be my friend now and I have no ******** clue what to make of it. So as far as I'm concerned I'm done figuring her out.
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 1:54 pm
B_type13sback Arethic You want some advise? Sit and be quiet and listen. Do you absolutely love her? If you do, don't show it through access to a computer, show it to her by sitting her down in front of you, look into her eyes and ask her why she feels you don't trust her, tell her that you do, and tell her the feelings you have, tell her that to you, access to your system was trust, but perhaps not what she was looking for, you have to be open to her, truthful, do what you can, and never let her go if you truly love her, cause if you do, then it will never work, you both have to hold on, and talk to each other, sort it out dude, don't come here for social advise on your girl, although sometimes people on here can be of help, this is C&T regulars, everyone is a geek wink .............. but seriously, sit down and talk with her, explain yourself and tell her how much you lover her and how much you do trust her, and you always have and always will...... you get the general idea now? Dude I never loved her like that, she was just someone I wanted to be good friends with. You all assumed that I wanted a relationship when I told you all that she said it wasn't gonna work out. Well I never wanted a relationship like that with her to begin with, she assumed that I did as well. But I couldn't have cared less about going for the romantic type of relationship now, what I wanted was to get a large group of friends together like I used to have back home, but she doesn't even want to be my friend now and I have no ******** clue what to make of it. So as far as I'm concerned I'm done figuring her out. Tell her this then, let her know. That is what you have to do, don't start any problems between you both, let her know basically all that you just told us.
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 2:14 pm
Arethic Tell her this then, let her know. That is what you have to do, don't start any problems between you both, let her know basically all that you just told us. I prefer the beer method, to be honest. Which is saying something, since I am rigidly opposed to drinking.
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 4:32 pm
U-235 Arethic Tell her this then, let her know. That is what you have to do, don't start any problems between you both, let her know basically all that you just told us. I prefer the beer method, to be honest. Which is saying something, since I am rigidly opposed to drinking. That and it seems to work real well when she wont talk to you/ return your calls and seems to avoid you on campus. The way I see it is this, there are atleast 50,000 other people on campus I can certainly find another group of likeminded people to hang out with. So I'm not about to bend over backwards trying to get someone to talk to me over something that I have no clue about. Again some women are just pure drama queens and are not meant to be understood. Besides my friend mr. MGD seems to have solved the problem.
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 7:54 pm
B_type13sback some women are just pure drama queens and are not meant to be understood. Besides my friend mr. MGD seems to have solved the problem. amen sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 8:44 pm
B_type13sback MGD seems to have solved the problem. You do realize the irony there, right? I meant to point it out yesterday.
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 8:53 pm
Kiretsu B_type13sback MGD seems to have solved the problem. You do realize the irony there, right? I meant to point it out yesterday. where is the Irony in that? Sorry I must be missing something?
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 11:32 pm
B_type13sback Kiretsu B_type13sback MGD seems to have solved the problem. You do realize the irony there, right? I meant to point it out yesterday. where is the Irony in that? Sorry I must be missing something? *points to your sig image*
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Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 12:03 am
lols I get it now but I really am done with drinking for a long time. I've been partying for 3 weeks straight and my liver is really starting to get pissed off with me. So stopping is definately a good idea.
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2004 11:47 pm
Well I have some kickin news, the girl who sits next to me in stats seems to be digging my sense of humor and seems to try to make all attempts for conversation with yours truly so maybe I'll get off my a** and make a move on her. Bren might have been bit slapped by the cruel gods of relationships lately but hey I could make a comeback. And if not well its still fun to have someone that shares my undieing boredom with stats class.
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