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kiki_takonori

PostPosted: Fri Jun 09, 2006 12:50 pm


I say pray and ask God to help you with your temptation. hey, girls have temptations too, and that is why i tend to do. then avoid situations that you would have that temption ( even if it is just thoughts aobut .. something ) then keep your mind busy with something else.
God bless you!
kiki
PostPosted: Thu Jun 15, 2006 8:31 pm


kiki_takonori
I say pray and ask God to help you with your temptation. hey, girls have temptations too, and that is why i tend to do. then avoid situations that you would have that temption ( even if it is just thoughts aobut .. something ) then keep your mind busy with something else.
God bless you!
kiki

I agree with her.

Foxprincess09


emilami

Striking Muse

PostPosted: Sun Jun 18, 2006 2:21 am


You could always try drowning it out by reading or listening to music or something... but just finding distractions tend to cause other problems. I know when I tried to just distract myself from things, I ended up just feeling overwhelmed and ended up getting into cutting as an attempt to punish myself. That kind of just gave me a whole new addiction, even though it wasn't something I acted on often.

I don't know if this is a crazy idea or not, but this thought just entered my head. Why not, when admiring the looks of someone, run with it. Take it and turn it into a prayer for blessings. Pray thanks to God for the way that he built women to be so physically appealing, and perhaps even go into details. Just run on with it as a prayer of thanks for other things... and just run with whatever comes into your mind to be thankful about.

Perhaps then it will become a sort of habit whenever you see something or someone beautiful. Maybe it can change your way of thinking about it.

I don't know, it's not something I have tried. Lust is one of my struggles as well.
PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 1:22 am


I don't know if this is a crazy idea or not, but this thought just entered my head. Why not, when admiring the looks of someone, run with it. Take it and turn it into a prayer for blessings. Pray thanks to God for the way that he built women to be so physically appealing, and perhaps even go into details. Just run on with it as a prayer of thanks for other things... and just run with whatever comes into your mind to be thankful about.
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That sounds like an Idea, I'll try it.

Sir BlackHeart
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Sir BlackHeart
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 1:23 am


NewFoundLight
Better yet ask GOD to deal with it.
Also an option, but bear in mind the YHWH gave you the hormones in the first place. I don't think He would interfere with a natural process off hand. Of course, research has shown that not masturbating can lead to prostate cancer as the sperms are reabsorbed into the body, so it can be beneficial.
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What the heck, how does that work
PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 4:11 pm


NewFoundLight
What the heck, how does that work
(Between the new site layout and the way you quoted that, I wasn't even sure whom you were talking to at first. blaugh )

I'd link you to the main article, but it's so caught up in technical jargon that it's really hard to understand. Here's the Wiki summary instead (the main article can be found linked there).
Wikipedia on Masturbation
On July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer. The study also indicated that this would be more helpful than ejaculation through sexual intercourse because intercourse can transmit diseases that may increase the risk of cancer instead.

Shatari


Sir BlackHeart
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 9:13 pm


Shatari
NewFoundLight
What the heck, how does that work
(Between the new site layout and the way you quoted that, I wasn't even sure whom you were talking to at first. blaugh )

I'd link you to the main article, but it's so caught up in technical jargon that it's really hard to understand. Here's the Wiki summary instead (the main article can be found linked there).
Wikipedia on Masturbation
On July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer. The study also indicated that this would be more helpful than ejaculation through sexual intercourse because intercourse can transmit diseases that may increase the risk of cancer instead.
hhmm...thats would be a good topic to bring up with the mens prayer group of Gaia.
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 8:53 pm


NewFoundLight
Shatari
NewFoundLight
What the heck, how does that work
(Between the new site layout and the way you quoted that, I wasn't even sure whom you were talking to at first. blaugh )

I'd link you to the main article, but it's so caught up in technical jargon that it's really hard to understand. Here's the Wiki summary instead (the main article can be found linked there).
Wikipedia on Masturbation
On July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer. The study also indicated that this would be more helpful than ejaculation through sexual intercourse because intercourse can transmit diseases that may increase the risk of cancer instead.
hhmm...thats would be a good topic to bring up with the mens prayer group of Gaia.
Hey! New Scientist has an article too. They’re a very reliable source. ^_^

Shatari


Sir BlackHeart
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PostPosted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 3:13 am


Shatari
NewFoundLight
Shatari
NewFoundLight
What the heck, how does that work
(Between the new site layout and the way you quoted that, I wasn't even sure whom you were talking to at first. blaugh )

I'd link you to the main article, but it's so caught up in technical jargon that it's really hard to understand. Here's the Wiki summary instead (the main article can be found linked there).
Wikipedia on Masturbation
On July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer. The study also indicated that this would be more helpful than ejaculation through sexual intercourse because intercourse can transmit diseases that may increase the risk of cancer instead.
hhmm...thats would be a good topic to bring up with the mens prayer group of Gaia.
Hey! New Scientist has an article too. They’re a very reliable source. ^_^
even though it has been proven to help you with colon cancer, I believe it violates a few Biblical Idea's 1. you wouldn't be able to get it up it the first place unless aroused by something sexual often time pornography(lust) and 2. it can become addictive, and believe me I should know.
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