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PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 7:51 pm


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Sex in itself is a part of life, but should be done responsibly in the concept that when you do it, you should be able to take the risk of pregnancy.

Whether or not you'd like to admit, it's not a biological need to have sex to live on with your life, it's a biological drive. If sex is a normal part of life, so is pregnancy, and if it's normal for humans to come into existence from sex, then it's abnormal to kill them before giving them a chance to live.


What you are telling me, quite clearly, is that I should not EVER have sex as I am not EVER willing to be pregnant.

Lots of things, Free, are not "biological needs." I could eat rice gruel every day and live. I could live in a tent in Central Park and live. At what point does the quality of my life become a concern to you? What kind of marriage will I have if I don't have relations with my husband? I happen to be a virgin right now at 20; I'm not too horny or lazy to practice abstinence, but I'm not dumb enough to think I can go without physical affection forever, and I don't understand how you can suggest the notion with an assumedly straight face.
PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 8:41 pm


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Sex in itself is a part of life, but should be done responsibly in the concept that when you do it, you should be able to take the risk of pregnancy.

Whether or not you'd like to admit, it's not a biological need to have sex to live on with your life, it's a biological drive. If sex is a normal part of life, so is pregnancy, and if it's normal for humans to come into existence from sex, then it's abnormal to kill them before giving them a chance to live.


What you are telling me, quite clearly, is that I should not EVER have sex as I am not EVER willing to be pregnant.

Lots of things, Free, are not "biological needs." I could eat rice gruel every day and live. I could live in a tent in Central Park and live. At what point does the quality of my life become a concern to you? What kind of marriage will I have if I don't have relations with my husband? I happen to be a virgin right now at 20; I'm not too horny or lazy to practice abstinence, but I'm not dumb enough to think I can go without physical affection forever, and I don't understand how you can suggest the notion with an assumedly straight face.


Why does everyone assume the stereotypical? rolleyes

And why all the faulty analogies? rolleyes

The difference between eating rice gruel everyday, and living in Central park compared to abortion is different and hits the fallacy of hypothesis contrary to fact because:

It does not have the consequence of destroying life, whereas abortion kills an unborn child.

Plus, concerning the quality of life, I am not concerned about how you choose to live your life, I am concerned on how many lives that people will destroy before they are able to even enter the world.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 10:10 pm


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Sex in itself is a part of life, but should be done responsibly in the concept that when you do it, you should be able to take the risk of pregnancy.

Whether or not you'd like to admit, it's not a biological need to have sex to live on with your life, it's a biological drive. If sex is a normal part of life, so is pregnancy, and if it's normal for humans to come into existence from sex, then it's abnormal to kill them before giving them a chance to live.


What you are telling me, quite clearly, is that I should not EVER have sex as I am not EVER willing to be pregnant.

Lots of things, Free, are not "biological needs." I could eat rice gruel every day and live. I could live in a tent in Central Park and live. At what point does the quality of my life become a concern to you? What kind of marriage will I have if I don't have relations with my husband? I happen to be a virgin right now at 20; I'm not too horny or lazy to practice abstinence, but I'm not dumb enough to think I can go without physical affection forever, and I don't understand how you can suggest the notion with an assumedly straight face.


Why does everyone assume the stereotypical? rolleyes

And why all the faulty analogies? rolleyes

The difference between eating rice gruel everyday, and living in Central park compared to abortion is different and hits the fallacy of hypothesis contrary to fact because:

It does not have the consequence of destroying life, whereas abortion kills an unborn child.

Plus, concerning the quality of life, I am not concerned about how you choose to live your life, I am concerned on how many lives that people will destroy before they are able to even enter the world.


I wasn't using those "faulty" analogies for abortion rolleyes

You said SEX (not abortion) wasn't a biological need. Let's assume this is a world without abortion, the analogies still hold true. All I did was illustrate to you in a clear way, that things that are not "biological needs" (SEX, now, not abortion) are far from being expendible aspects of life. This was in clear rebuttal to you telling me I wouldn't die from not having SEX (not abortion).

If I had been comparing eating rice gruel to not having an abortion, then you would have been justified in that little outburst. I resent your exasperation rolleyes , tone rolleyes , and blatant contempt rolleyes , but I'll try to move on.

And as to the rest. Non-sentient life =/= Sentient life. Killing a fetus before it develops the capacity for sentience seems to me about as evil as killing a cow because I felt like steak. I don't need filet mignon to live, either.
PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 5:50 am


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Sorry for I lack time to write a decent argument.

It's like saying you can have sex, and it's normal to have sex. Let's assume having sex is normal.

Sex from a man and woman = chance of pregnancy.

Now these are bare bone facts; so tell me, is this chance of pregnancy normal or abnormal?


Depending on the couple of course. For myself the chance of pregnancy is actually abnormal, the chance of me being able to keep it living, even if I wanted it, past the first trimester is also abnormal. *pokes useless organ known as uterus*

So for sake of argument, sex = pregnancy = abortion. For me that is a percetly normal path. For millions of women across the globe and throughout time that has been a normal responce...

now are you saying this is abnormal or are you saying it is unnatural? Unnatural would fit much better. Yup, its unnatural for a woman to not want a child, oif course its unnatural *that was sarcasm...the following is not* It is unnatural to attempt an abortion, but we strive against nature at every opportunity, just taking an asprin goes against the natural order of things.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 12:06 pm


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Sex in itself is a part of life, but should be done responsibly in the concept that when you do it, you should be able to take the risk of pregnancy.

Whether or not you'd like to admit, it's not a biological need to have sex to live on with your life, it's a biological drive. If sex is a normal part of life, so is pregnancy, and if it's normal for humans to come into existence from sex, then it's abnormal to kill them before giving them a chance to live.


What you are telling me, quite clearly, is that I should not EVER have sex as I am not EVER willing to be pregnant.

Lots of things, Free, are not "biological needs." I could eat rice gruel every day and live. I could live in a tent in Central Park and live. At what point does the quality of my life become a concern to you? What kind of marriage will I have if I don't have relations with my husband? I happen to be a virgin right now at 20; I'm not too horny or lazy to practice abstinence, but I'm not dumb enough to think I can go without physical affection forever, and I don't understand how you can suggest the notion with an assumedly straight face.


Why does everyone assume the stereotypical? rolleyes

And why all the faulty analogies? rolleyes

The difference between eating rice gruel everyday, and living in Central park compared to abortion is different and hits the fallacy of hypothesis contrary to fact because:

It does not have the consequence of destroying life, whereas abortion kills an unborn child.

Plus, concerning the quality of life, I am not concerned about how you choose to live your life, I am concerned on how many lives that people will destroy before they are able to even enter the world.


I wasn't using those "faulty" analogies for abortion rolleyes

You said SEX (not abortion) wasn't a biological need. Let's assume this is a world without abortion, the analogies still hold true. All I did was illustrate to you in a clear way, that things that are not "biological needs" (SEX, now, not abortion) are far from being expendible aspects of life. This was in clear rebuttal to you telling me I wouldn't die from not having SEX (not abortion).

If I had been comparing eating rice gruel to not having an abortion, then you would have been justified in that little outburst. I resent your exasperation rolleyes , tone rolleyes , and blatant contempt rolleyes , but I'll try to move on.

And as to the rest. Non-sentient life =/= Sentient life. Killing a fetus before it develops the capacity for sentience seems to me about as evil as killing a cow because I felt like steak. I don't need filet mignon to live, either.


Explain to me how abortion is a need for biological survival...
PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 5:08 pm


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I wasn't using those "faulty" analogies for abortion rolleyes

You said SEX (not abortion) wasn't a biological need. Let's assume this is a world without abortion, the analogies still hold true. All I did was illustrate to you in a clear way, that things that are not "biological needs" (SEX, now, not abortion) are far from being expendible aspects of life. This was in clear rebuttal to you telling me I wouldn't die from not having SEX (not abortion).

If I had been comparing eating rice gruel to not having an abortion, then you would have been justified in that little outburst. I resent your exasperation rolleyes , tone rolleyes , and blatant contempt rolleyes , but I'll try to move on.

And as to the rest. Non-sentient life =/= Sentient life. Killing a fetus before it develops the capacity for sentience seems to me about as evil as killing a cow because I felt like steak. I don't need filet mignon to live, either.


Explain to me how abortion is a need for biological survival...


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Please read and reread that message until you are sure you comprehend the argument being conveyed.

... maybe I didn't add the phrase, "(SEX, not abortion)" enough times for the message to get through.

Summarily, please stop changing the subject or playing dumb to avoid responding to my points. You were doing that in the ED thread as well.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 10:27 pm


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I wasn't using those "faulty" analogies for abortion rolleyes

You said SEX (not abortion) wasn't a biological need. Let's assume this is a world without abortion, the analogies still hold true. All I did was illustrate to you in a clear way, that things that are not "biological needs" (SEX, now, not abortion) are far from being expendible aspects of life. This was in clear rebuttal to you telling me I wouldn't die from not having SEX (not abortion).

If I had been comparing eating rice gruel to not having an abortion, then you would have been justified in that little outburst. I resent your exasperation rolleyes , tone rolleyes , and blatant contempt rolleyes , but I'll try to move on.

And as to the rest. Non-sentient life =/= Sentient life. Killing a fetus before it develops the capacity for sentience seems to me about as evil as killing a cow because I felt like steak. I don't need filet mignon to live, either.


Explain to me how abortion is a need for biological survival...


GAAAAH! crying

Please read and reread that message until you are sure you comprehend the argument being conveyed.

... maybe I didn't add the phrase, "(SEX, not abortion)" enough times for the message to get through.

Summarily, please stop changing the subject or playing dumb to avoid responding to my points. You were doing that in the ED thread as well.


I honestly didn't read it, I was having to take off to get to anatomy. So now I read it.

And in regards to contempt, I really hold none, if any it's you who should hold contempt to me. I've been basically driving people around in circles just for amusement.

It's obvious that no matter how much I say abortion is not an okay thing, or something to take lightly, there will always be people who disagree for their advantage.

I don't know how I have an advantage by disagreeing with abortion... all I do is get people who think I'm an idiot, or that I'm not in the right place... blah blah blah.

How do people with Herpes have a relationship? Or how about those with HIV? I suppose they can't have a relationship with their spouse... I mean... seriously.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 1:01 am


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I wasn't using those "faulty" analogies for abortion rolleyes

You said SEX (not abortion) wasn't a biological need. Let's assume this is a world without abortion, the analogies still hold true. All I did was illustrate to you in a clear way, that things that are not "biological needs" (SEX, now, not abortion) are far from being expendible aspects of life. This was in clear rebuttal to you telling me I wouldn't die from not having SEX (not abortion).

If I had been comparing eating rice gruel to not having an abortion, then you would have been justified in that little outburst. I resent your exasperation rolleyes , tone rolleyes , and blatant contempt rolleyes , but I'll try to move on.

And as to the rest. Non-sentient life =/= Sentient life. Killing a fetus before it develops the capacity for sentience seems to me about as evil as killing a cow because I felt like steak. I don't need filet mignon to live, either.


Explain to me how abortion is a need for biological survival...


GAAAAH! crying

Please read and reread that message until you are sure you comprehend the argument being conveyed.

... maybe I didn't add the phrase, "(SEX, not abortion)" enough times for the message to get through.

Summarily, please stop changing the subject or playing dumb to avoid responding to my points. You were doing that in the ED thread as well.


I honestly didn't read it, I was having to take off to get to anatomy. So now I read it.

And in regards to contempt, I really hold none, if any it's you who should hold contempt to me. I've been basically driving people around in circles just for amusement.

It's obvious that no matter how much I say abortion is not an okay thing, or something to take lightly, there will always be people who disagree for their advantage.

I don't know how I have an advantage by disagreeing with abortion... all I do is get people who think I'm an idiot, or that I'm not in the right place... blah blah blah.

How do people with Herpes have a relationship? Or how about those with HIV? I suppose they can't have a relationship with their spouse... I mean... seriously.


As for contempt, your sucky attitude of late certainly qualifies, not to mention abuse of the " rolleyes " .

Genital herpes is not a non-stop condition. It occurs in breakouts which can be prevented from spreading to other people and drastically reduced effectively by medicine. RESULT: Non-communicable disease which is only an occasional nuscience. Not a signifigant barrier to intimacy.

Next, HIV. Um, I dunno, Condoms? Not 100%, but I suppose a couple who is aware of one of them being infected would be able to work out a reasonable plan for intimacy. They'd have to be commited to that to make it work. And remember, just because one of them accepts the risk of HIV to be with the other, doesn't mean they should be denied medicine if they get it.

Why are you so bent on asserting that sex can be eliminated from marriage? Most people and all of history contradict you on that point. Sex happens to be an integral part of a normal healthy marriage. Not even the biggest part, to deny it's role is contrary to sense and reality.

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 8:15 am


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As for contempt, your sucky attitude of late certainly qualifies, not to mention abuse of the " rolleyes " .

Genital herpes is not a non-stop condition. It occurs in breakouts which can be prevented from spreading to other people and drastically reduced effectively by medicine. RESULT: Non-communicable disease which is only an occasional nuscience. Not a signifigant barrier to intimacy.

Next, HIV. Um, I dunno, Condoms? Not 100%, but I suppose a couple who is aware of one of them being infected would be able to work out a reasonable plan for intimacy. They'd have to be commited to that to make it work. And remember, just because one of them accepts the risk of HIV to be with the other, doesn't mean they should be denied medicine if they get it.

Why are you so bent on asserting that sex can be eliminated from marriage? Most people and all of history contradict you on that point. Sex happens to be an integral part of a normal healthy marriage. Not even the biggest part, to deny it's role is contrary to sense and reality.


I'm advocating that if sex is to be done there should that it should at least take into account the life of the unborn. What I get from most people fromt he pro-choice is stuff like...

Fantastic sex is worth the risk of pregnancy, because I can just get an abortion if the contraceptives fail.

And last night I got an argument about people with a mental problem having sex and this whole justification process for it saying since I'm a virgin I can't say a word about it.

In any case, throughout history, that is if you want to bring history into the equation, the fetus was still considered a child, so are you going to just bring in one part of the equation and not the other?
PostPosted: Fri Apr 29, 2005 9:19 pm


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I'm advocating that if sex is to be done there should that it should at least take into account the life of the unborn. What I get from most people fromt he pro-choice is stuff like...

Fantastic sex is worth the risk of pregnancy, because I can just get an abortion if the contraceptives fail.

Who the hell says this? Introduce me to them, because I've never met one. It is not representative of the majority of pro-choicers. Even if it was, should we outlaw alchohol because some people abuse it? What do you expect responsible people to do about the irresponsible ones?


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And last night I got an argument about people with a mental problem having sex and this whole justification process for it saying since I'm a virgin I can't say a word about it.
Could you rephrase this part so I can know what the hell you're talking about and respond accordingly?

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In any case, throughout history, that is if you want to bring history into the equation, the fetus was still considered a child, so are you going to just bring in one part of the equation and not the other?

What the hell kind of history are you looking at? The history of what planet? Because it's certainly not Earth's history you're talking about. In almost every culture people weren't considered people until they were at least a certain number of months or years old. For the hindu it was 2 years old. Attempts at Birth Control have been around since people figured out that sex could end in pregnancy, and attempts at abortion have been around as long as people figured out that pregnancy could end with a baby. And culturally accepted infanticide has been around as long as people figured out that they didn't want that baby. It is a fact that for almost every culture in the world, this heartfelt concern for the life of the unborn is a very very new feature. They had to think of *something* to use as an excuse to why abortion should suddenly become bad, now that "preserving the race/class" and other such reasons were unnaceptable.

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PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2005 10:06 am


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I'm advocating that if sex is to be done there should that it should at least take into account the life of the unborn. What I get from most people fromt he pro-choice is stuff like...

Fantastic sex is worth the risk of pregnancy, because I can just get an abortion if the contraceptives fail.

Who the hell says this? Introduce me to them, because I've never met one. It is not representative of the majority of pro-choicers. Even if it was, should we outlaw alchohol because some people abuse it? What do you expect responsible people to do about the irresponsible ones?


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And last night I got an argument about people with a mental problem having sex and this whole justification process for it saying since I'm a virgin I can't say a word about it.
Could you rephrase this part so I can know what the hell you're talking about and respond accordingly?

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In any case, throughout history, that is if you want to bring history into the equation, the fetus was still considered a child, so are you going to just bring in one part of the equation and not the other?

What the hell kind of history are you looking at? The history of what planet? Because it's certainly not Earth's history you're talking about. In almost every culture people weren't considered people until they were at least a certain number of months or years old. For the hindu it was 2 years old. Attempts at Birth Control have been around since people figured out that sex could end in pregnancy, and attempts at abortion have been around as long as people figured out that pregnancy could end with a baby. And culturally accepted infanticide has been around as long as people figured out that they didn't want that baby. It is a fact that for almost every culture in the world, this heartfelt concern for the life of the unborn is a very very new feature. They had to think of *something* to use as an excuse to why abortion should suddenly become bad, now that "preserving the race/class" and other such reasons were unnaceptable.


1st Quote, Rei Duck... second quote.. Reiduck.

Historical documentation about the Unborn has people valuing the fetus as a child. This of course was before the 19th Century.

I suppose you and I both forgot to mention culture. I'm sure in western civilization they didn't care.
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I'm advocating that if sex is to be done there should that it should at least take into account the life of the unborn. What I get from most people fromt he pro-choice is stuff like...

Fantastic sex is worth the risk of pregnancy, because I can just get an abortion if the contraceptives fail.

Who the hell says this? Introduce me to them, because I've never met one. It is not representative of the majority of pro-choicers. Even if it was, should we outlaw alchohol because some people abuse it? What do you expect responsible people to do about the irresponsible ones?


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And last night I got an argument about people with a mental problem having sex and this whole justification process for it saying since I'm a virgin I can't say a word about it.
Could you rephrase this part so I can know what the hell you're talking about and respond accordingly?

Quote:
In any case, throughout history, that is if you want to bring history into the equation, the fetus was still considered a child, so are you going to just bring in one part of the equation and not the other?

What the hell kind of history are you looking at? The history of what planet? Because it's certainly not Earth's history you're talking about. In almost every culture people weren't considered people until they were at least a certain number of months or years old. For the hindu it was 2 years old. Attempts at Birth Control have been around since people figured out that sex could end in pregnancy, and attempts at abortion have been around as long as people figured out that pregnancy could end with a baby. And culturally accepted infanticide has been around as long as people figured out that they didn't want that baby. It is a fact that for almost every culture in the world, this heartfelt concern for the life of the unborn is a very very new feature. They had to think of *something* to use as an excuse to why abortion should suddenly become bad, now that "preserving the race/class" and other such reasons were unnaceptable.


1st Quote, Rei Duck... second quote.. Reiduck.

Historical documentation about the Unborn has people valuing the fetus as a child. This of course was before the 19th Century.

I suppose you and I both forgot to mention culture. I'm sure in western civilization they didn't care.


Reiduck? I've never heard her say anything like that, so I must assume your cynical mind has warped the message by leaving out any mention of birth control and implying that Reiduck is not in favor of using it responsibly.

And I don't see how Reiduck is an answer to the second one, or even the relevence it has on this conversation.

Next...

Thomas Coram wrote in 1741 about "...the daily sight of infant corpses on the dust heaps of London" Hell, if you didn't want to do that, you could just wrap it in a burlap sack, and chuck the kid into the Thames.

Evidence also points to widely practiced infanticide in the ancient civilization of Rome.

The killing of youth, both born and unborn, were widespread practices in the western world as well as the eastern one. It was called "exposing" and it was generally culturally accepted and rarely was a penalty sought against someone who commited such a crime.

True, I'm sure you can find documentation of respect for fetal life, but it doesn't mean anything if the people of that age didn't practice what they preached.

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PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2005 9:09 am


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I'm advocating that if sex is to be done there should that it should at least take into account the life of the unborn. What I get from most people fromt he pro-choice is stuff like...

Fantastic sex is worth the risk of pregnancy, because I can just get an abortion if the contraceptives fail.

Who the hell says this? Introduce me to them, because I've never met one. It is not representative of the majority of pro-choicers. Even if it was, should we outlaw alchohol because some people abuse it? What do you expect responsible people to do about the irresponsible ones?


Reiduck says this.

And how can you say people practiced sex in history if men in ancient Greece and Rome married a woman only to have infidelities with other men?

We can find documents on that, so how does that relate to your idea of what marriage meant in history?
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And how can you say people practiced sex in history if men in ancient Greece and Rome married a woman only to have infidelities with other men?

We can find documents on that, so how does that relate to your idea of what marriage meant in history?


The logic really fails here. The if = then formula doesn't work if you base it of of a false assumption, Free.

False Logic
If people have sex outside of marriage, then none of the purposes of getting married are to have sex. -- Doesn't make sense.

If people eat food outside of restauraunts, then the none of the purposes of going to a restauraunt are to eat food. --- Doesn't really make sense either does it?


Being unfaithul to your spouse doesn't mean you're not having sex with her. These men were getting heirs from thier wives, not their homosexual lovers, and I don't think turkey basters had been invented yet. Marital infidelity does not deny the existance of marriage as a sexual relationship.

Try again.

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PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2005 9:49 am


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And how can you say people practiced sex in history if men in ancient Greece and Rome married a woman only to have infidelities with other men?

We can find documents on that, so how does that relate to your idea of what marriage meant in history?


The logic really fails here. The if = then formula doesn't work if you base it of of a false assumption, Free.

False Logic
If people have sex outside of marriage, then none of the purposes of getting married are to have sex. -- Doesn't make sense.

If people eat food outside of restauraunts, then the none of the purposes of going to a restauraunt are to eat food. --- Doesn't really make sense either does it?


Being unfaithul to your spouse doesn't mean you're not having sex with her. These men were getting heirs from thier wives, not their homosexual lovers, and I don't think turkey basters had been invented yet. Marital infidelity does not deny the existance of marriage as a sexual relationship.

Try again.


Why should I try again just because you don't like it?
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