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 Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 9:55 pm
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I can certainly admit to dismissing most people out of hand even before speaking to them. It isn't necessarily the way they dress, I'm not sure what it is, but before I even speak to someone I know whether or not we will be friends, within a couple meetings I know whether or not we will be lovers. My longest relationship I knew I would love him before I had ever even spoken to him and though I think it's finally died permanently, that was five years. Perfectly predicted by his stride.
So thinking back to that I think it's the way people hold and move their bodies, the way they walk, their expressions, speak volumes.
I don't even get to the point of learning how many hundereds of shoes they have.
My mother owns too many shoes and encourages me to dress more effeminately, but I think we still make ok friends. We can talk about nearly anything and not only have something to discuss, but understand each other's opinions too, someone seeming a little shallow doesn't mean they are.
As far as specifically female though, I tend not to see those really shallow mallrat types. They just don't make it from my eyes to my brain, they don't register as intelligent life to me. So if I did notice them, I probably would think I hated girls too, I know they are ubiquitous. If you can completely ignore their existence though and only turn off auto-pilot for girls who are different you will find a much more agreeable populace.
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I judge people quickly also. I have never been proven wrong, though I do suggest having a couple conversations to make sure you were right and haven't missed out on the best friend or love of your life. Could happen.
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Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 10:06 pm
Ugh... I agree. There are millions of people like that where I live. I hate it here so much... -__-'
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Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 12:29 am
I can see your point but even some of my good friends have there weak points but the good things about them overpower the bad smile and even when I first met a few of my friends for the first time it wasn't an instant friendship as I got to know them more I got to like them more xp
But yeah if there super mean to others or total snobs to people then I usually dont make an effort to approach them o.o
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