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 Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 8:44 am
Gothic_Angel97 Well i been a bi for yrs and that wnt change.
and i just think girls can be better then guyz somtimes cuz they no how u feel and wnt be a jerk to u. But im 50 50 on girl and guyz for me. but i have dated a gurl in rl and ya we kiss/made out and it felt rt 2 me....cuz i was born this way so i think sometimes ppl are born that way and cant get ride of it. and ya a lot ppl mite think it gross for a guy to kiss a guy or gurls kissing but then ppl like me would be "so wt". I think it mostly when u r born and wt u r raise to think or to be...but ya that wt i think and if u dnt agree then dnt i just want u to no wt i thought so true its the way your raised that control you thoughts i was rasied to love every body and everything so i dont mind kissing or loving a girl or a boy as long as i love that person your in my heart forever ;3
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Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 5:02 pm
Im barely not a lesbian, but I find that I just... well click with other girls more than I ever have with guys. Take the exact same qualities and comparitive traits and Id pick a girl, I cant really explain why I just would rather be with a girl.
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Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 2:05 am
I'd consider myself bi. And its not because of a fad. Its just I've always had a special connection with girls. They know what we go through and understand things more. They are beautiful, sensitive, and just lovely. I have a weakness for stunning blue eyes and curves.
I've always been around guys as friends... And then when it came to being around a girl, it was like my heart was barely beating, and my breath was just taken away... They know what to say to make things good. Well.. I don't mean to be stereotyping, but that's just what I get around the cute non-bitchy girls.
I've been in relationships with guys, but they were never anything special and I felt in a crush [or in love] but it wasn't like being with guys.
I just have a attraction to both.
There's this one girl that I've had a crush on for like a year now. And she knows... And I know it would never work out, because her family is homophobes... and would probably kill her. But... I just can't get her out of my head. All I ever think about is her smiles, sweet voice, blue eyes and blond curly hair... She's like a angel.
[Goshh... I typed alot. Sorry. ] sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu May 20, 2010 2:05 pm
xoSabaku_Kusabana Gothic_Angel97 Well i been a bi for yrs and that wnt change.
and i just think girls can be better then guyz somtimes cuz they no how u feel and wnt be a jerk to u. But im 50 50 on girl and guyz for me. but i have dated a gurl in rl and ya we kiss/made out and it felt rt 2 me....cuz i was born this way so i think sometimes ppl are born that way and cant get ride of it. and ya a lot ppl mite think it gross for a guy to kiss a guy or gurls kissing but then ppl like me would be "so wt". I think it mostly when u r born and wt u r raise to think or to be...but ya that wt i think and if u dnt agree then dnt i just want u to no wt i thought so true its the way your raised that control you thoughts i was rasied to love every body and everything so i dont mind kissing or loving a girl or a boy as long as i love that person your in my heart forever ;3 Not sure I agree. I grew up in a house full of hate - my stepdad was one of those who's prejudiced against anyone who's not like him, I guess.... And my mom never really even told me about gays. I kind of raised myself... I made me into the type of person I am and the fact that I'm gay was just something that was there. 0.0 Although now my stepdad and my mom are divorced and she always said when I was older (before I told her) that she was accepting - it's funny because my ex-stepdad and I still talk sometimes (my little sisters live with him) and he tells me he's really glad I met someone who takes such good care of me... and my mom goes behind my back and says she thinks I'm going thru a phase... Luckily my 20 yr old sis was there and let me kno later!! lol. But I think it's different for everyone. Some people it's how you're raised, some people it's experiences they've had with guys (really bad ones, I mean, not like just they broke their heart or something), that's how they were born, or it's instinct. For me I think it's the last one. When I was young I never knew I was gay or even that I was attracted to girls. I wasn't, in fact. I used to identify myself as bi until I figured that it could've just been instinct. I think there are some really attractive guys out there... but I don't want to sleep with them. Or be married to any of them, either. But I would never say that I haven't ever kissed or gone out with a guy. It just wasn't good - not bad, just nothing special. I have only ever had one real, true relationship, and that is with my current gf - but I have kissed girls before too. There is just something better about it. I'm not sure why, its just how it is... XD
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 7:19 pm
The human heart feels things the eyes cannot see...
I'm straight, but I've gotta be honest here.
I don't find a p***s attractive. At all. They're...just not pretty. I haven't met a girl who does find them all that attractive.
They're just...gross. But I guess the female parts aren't all that pretty, either so it goes both ways xD
...and knows what the mind cannot understand.
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Posted: Sun May 23, 2010 11:50 pm
I don't consider myself bisexual or a lesbian, but I definitely can appreciate the female figure. I think women are very sexy, I'm not afraid to admit it, a confident woman is absolutely gorgeous, and I love seeing how different women look in clothes and shoes and makeup, but I don't think I'd ever want to be with a woman romantically, intimately; no girl or woman has ever appealed to me in a physical way beyond just superficial appreciation of their beauty. I love seeing women in bustle skirts and corsets, all done up in fishtail skirts and elaborate blouses, their hair wound up and trimmed with feathers and pins and pearls, their necks draped with jewels, faces painted in all the right places, but in no other way than seeing them as beautiful. Guys appeal to me in a deeper way, more personality-based; I find that they're way easier to talk to once you've gotten over the initial fear, like, they're way more laid-back and super-easy to get along with, whereas I find girls are catty and overdramatic a lot of the time; even the most levelheaded girl has her moments. And I couldn't deal with that in a relationship; I need someone more stable than that. But it's different for everyone (:
All the closest people in my life are girls; my mom, my grandma and her partner, all my friends, except one straight guy, and two guys who are currently together, and I'd trust them with my life, but beyond looks, I don't really dig any of them. I did have a crush on one of my guy friends, but he's the one that's dating the other guy, so... that didn't work so well~
I guess his personality was sort of feminine, so who knows? He took really really good care of himself, dressed very well, treated me like gold, liked shopping just as much as I do, liked fashion and all that to the same extent that I do, but he still had a masculine element that attracted me. I guess I just like effeminate, sensitive guys. XD
A sensitive guy is important to me; not all guys are insensitive about our problems, I'd need someone who, even if he's not fully able to relate, he'd at least care, or fake it well enough. Ideally. We'll see how things go I guess D:
I was just up-island visiting my non-blood-related yet-still-amazing family (my grandma's partner's family) and I was talking with her sister's daughter-in-law, who reminds me so much of myself, and with her husband, and I realized that that's the kind of guy I want n.n;;; He's not superficial megajock or arrogant b*****d; he's sweet, kind, endlessly funny, he's supportive of his wife in her professional and personal endeavors, and he's a great father (despite the fact that I'm pretty sure I never want to have kids, this is still important to me in some deeply-rooted evolutionary way), the kind of guy I'd consider husband material. She made a great choice. xP
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2010 11:16 am
Well, this whole love fest with women. Can't says I feel the same. A lot of females can be vicious, hurtful manipulative creatures who would rather stand in the back and let the guy do everything for them. Know Offspring? They have a good point. I'm not saying all girls are this way or anyone in this guild. you guys are awesome. And I'm not saying guys are exempt in any way, but they are way simpler in most cases. I'd rather hang with a guy any day of the week over a girl, just relaxing, mall whoring the arcade, getting a cup o' joe in between may hap, playing videos games and simple down to earth stuff. Girls; let's go and shop, put on a cake layer of make-up before I go out, read magazines about other people's lives that have nothing to do with us or could affect us in any way, get hung up over celebrity hunks! -sighs-
Yes, female's are sexy creatures. I myself have a greater drive then my boyfriend even. I'd still rather hang with the guys.
Sorry ladies wink
Thoughts on male parts; look up Robin Williams in iTunes folks!
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2010 6:53 pm
both guys and girls have thier good features. i think guys are cute, and strong looking. they can be really great. but girls have their points, too. they are softer, and more shapely. they are also more understanding. if you cant tell, i am bi. i sorta came to this conclusion about a month ago.
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2010 7:17 pm
i was in a three year relationship with a guy that was almost exactly like me, but he was so sweet and made me feel like a whole person. since he died, i've not been attracted to a single male, but seem drawn toward females. it's almost like they feel safer to be with, the softer forms and sympathetic nature of females is quite nice.
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2010 7:24 pm
This is going to be odd.
I'm bi, and I don't really have a criteria for girls. I've never noticed any similarities between the girls I like.
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Posted: Sun Jun 06, 2010 6:06 pm
Matron Mord Sith Personally and I know this is going to sound harsh but I don't see whats so attractive about girls neutral I'm not against people being attracted to girls its just that I don't understand why guys find a v****a attractive. I know how you feel. I think vaginas are gross looking. Not that I have anything against women, or people who like them. I just can't see liking a v****a. Although, penises are kind of odd looking too.
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Posted: Sat Jun 12, 2010 7:57 am
I like pretty things. Girls are pretty.
But I like the occasional boy.
So....I prefer women, but I'm open to the idea of a boyfriend.
I wouldn't consider myself bisexual or a lesbian.
I don't think I really can be labeled.
I prefer dark hair and eyes, with small chests and large hips. Usually shorter than me. Longer hair. xP
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Posted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 1:35 pm
Wow, I think I should start being aactive in this guild...sorry sweatdrop
Anywho, I have this theory...that EVERYONE. Yes every single person.. Has an attraction to both sexes. Confusing? Yes, let me try to explain.
So we're all girls, I bet, everysingleoneofyou[straight/bi/homosexual] has looked at a girl and thought Well, she's stunning!/She's beautiful!/She's so pretty. Right? We do that...and as girls, we find it normal....but in truth of the matter, it's an attraction.
Making sense?
Let's try the math way; Some people are 90% Straight...but they still find the other sex hot/pretty/etc. that 10% of the time.
Some people are the opposite, 10% Straight and 90% lesbian/gay.
Some are just smack dab in the middle, aka bi.
Comprede? biggrin
o 3o
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Posted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 2:38 pm
Onyx_Muffin Wow, I think I should start being aactive in this guild...sorry sweatdrop
Anywho, I have this theory...that EVERYONE. Yes every single person.. Has an attraction to both sexes. Confusing? Yes, let me try to explain.
So we're all girls, I bet, everysingleoneofyou[straight/bi/homosexual] has looked at a girl and thought Well, she's stunning!/She's beautiful!/She's so pretty. Right? We do that...and as girls, we find it normal....but in truth of the matter, it's an attraction.
Making sense?
Let's try the math way; Some people are 90% Straight...but they still find the other sex hot/pretty/etc. that 10% of the time.
Some people are the opposite, 10% Straight and 90% lesbian/gay.
Some are just smack dab in the middle, aka bi.
Comprede? biggrin
o 3o My mother always told me love was a bullshit emotion that only fools and dreamers believed in... I'll admit, I think women are beautiful, but I'm not attracted to them at all. It's like seeing a flower, it's beautiful, but that's all it's ever going to be, a beautiful flower. Like a bird, a baby or the ocean. I think they're beautiful, just like I do women, but I'm not attracted to them. I'm 100% straight, and I'm sticking to it. I don't have anything wrong with lesbians, gays or bis, but I'm not even a tiny bit bi and you can't label everyone as that :/
...so she told me to be the fool with a dream...
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Posted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 2:42 pm
Oh my, I'm not saying label anyone...such a harsh word/:
I mean to say, there are 3 main categories and it's...not..hm. not..exact? I don't know. Here I go confusing myself|:
I don't mean to offend anyone, so sorry if I did. I do consider myself straight. But I do find...literally every girl I see gorgeous. No clue why.o;
o 3o
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