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 Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 9:06 pm
Hahaha you want to update the first post to reflect the changed definitions and make them clearer.
I still stand by my answer, though, about equal is the best. I don't like playing into roles, it's restricting. Besides, one of my joys in life is cajoling people into clothes they wouldn't normally wear. Like skirts. Or guys' jeans.
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Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 10:22 pm
am i here in vain
did you not hear a word i said
when i asked you i begged you
to just please let me through undies!!!
umm...i mean,
i dont know :]
i could deal with whatever
like "give it to me, ill wear it as long as your with me bby"
i treat em how they like >] i have fallen now
will you pick me up again
in the face of my failures
i just want you to hear these words
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Posted: Mon Sep 15, 2008 8:13 am
Bermuda shorts for me. I like being in control in certain areas (ahem!), but other times I feel like being all cute and clingy and stuff.
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Posted: Mon Sep 15, 2008 12:59 pm
kageling Hahaha you want to update the first post to reflect the changed definitions and make them clearer.
I still stand by my answer, though, about equal is the best. I don't like playing into roles, it's restricting. Besides, one of my joys in life is cajoling people into clothes they wouldn't normally wear. Like skirts. Or guys' jeans. Id put you as shorts, cause you seem like a person who would LOVE toa take control but also pull back sometimes
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Posted: Mon Sep 15, 2008 10:59 pm
X_xSomething Savagex_X kageling Hahaha you want to update the first post to reflect the changed definitions and make them clearer.
I still stand by my answer, though, about equal is the best. I don't like playing into roles, it's restricting. Besides, one of my joys in life is cajoling people into clothes they wouldn't normally wear. Like skirts. Or guys' jeans. Id put you as shorts, cause you seem like a person who would LOVE toa take control but also pull back sometimes
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Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 6:09 pm
kageling X_xSomething Savagex_X kageling Hahaha you want to update the first post to reflect the changed definitions and make them clearer.
I still stand by my answer, though, about equal is the best. I don't like playing into roles, it's restricting. Besides, one of my joys in life is cajoling people into clothes they wouldn't normally wear. Like skirts. Or guys' jeans. Id put you as shorts, cause you seem like a person who would LOVE toa take control but also pull back sometimes Kage wears shorts -fantasizes- haha JK razz Fluiddd ~~~~~~
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Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2008 6:57 pm
X_xSomething Savagex_X Kage wears shorts -fantasizes- haha JK razz Fluiddd ~~~~~~
Great way to ask the question, though, and something I haven't really seen brought up that much (or asked in that way) here. It's neat to see the responses.
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 5:16 pm
kageling X_xSomething Savagex_X Kage wears shorts -fantasizes- haha JK razz Fluiddd ~~~~~~
Great way to ask the question, though, and something I haven't really seen brought up that much (or asked in that way) here. It's neat to see the responses. If people WOULD respond >.< gonk gonk gonk and both smile but for the forum figuratively
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Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 7:48 pm
It depends,
one her/him.
I can be either. :]
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Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 4:55 pm
i guess i'd have to say shorts since i don't really have a dominant personality but my friends always say other wise just because i look more masculine
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 10:57 am
I'm technically straight, but I think if I weren't, I'd be skirts. I'm kind of a submissive person, I hate to say it. I like being cuddled and protected. whee The worst part is, I consider myself a feminist. Yeaaah...I'm such a hypocrite. But I just don't like being in charge a lot.
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 11:19 am
Michan Starfire I'm technically straight, but I think if I weren't, I'd be skirts. I'm kind of a submissive person, I hate to say it. I like being cuddled and protected. whee The worst part is, I consider myself a feminist. Yeaaah...I'm such a hypocrite. But I just don't like being in charge a lot. You're mistaken. A feminist is someone who fights and advocates for equal rights between men and women, so of course, every one of us here is a feminist, unless a girl here actually WANTS to have her every move controlled by a man... *shivers* But anyways!! Clothes don't necessarily determine the roles you play in a relationship. I'd think that usually, the ones who wear pants are more of the submissive type, since they are the least revealing of all the clothes aforementioned. They would fit a conservative type. Skirts on the other hand, are probably for the dominant ones, as their self confidence truly shines.. And I mean REALLY shines, with those strawberry patterns and sexy legs. XD Shorts can be for either, or for the switch, but then again, clothes don't really tell people if you're the top or bottom person. When it comes down to it, being a seme or a uke is all~ in the personality.
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 6:39 pm
Maki Casanova Michan Starfire I'm technically straight, but I think if I weren't, I'd be skirts. I'm kind of a submissive person, I hate to say it. I like being cuddled and protected. whee The worst part is, I consider myself a feminist. Yeaaah...I'm such a hypocrite. But I just don't like being in charge a lot. You're mistaken. A feminist is someone who fights and advocates for equal rights between men and women, so of course, every one of us here is a feminist, unless a girl here actually WANTS to have her every move controlled by a man... *shivers*
Besides, there's nothing wrong with being submissive or liking to be protected. Some people just are that way, and some people are just the type to be very protective or dominant in relationships. And some people just like to go with the flow. Unless you let someone control your life or consider yourself to be less than someone else...that kind of thing. :]
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 7:17 pm
kageling Maki Casanova Michan Starfire I'm technically straight, but I think if I weren't, I'd be skirts. I'm kind of a submissive person, I hate to say it. I like being cuddled and protected. whee The worst part is, I consider myself a feminist. Yeaaah...I'm such a hypocrite. But I just don't like being in charge a lot. You're mistaken. A feminist is someone who fights and advocates for equal rights between men and women, so of course, every one of us here is a feminist, unless a girl here actually WANTS to have her every move controlled by a man... *shivers*
Besides, there's nothing wrong with being submissive or liking to be protected. Some people just are that way, and some people are just the type to be very protective or dominant in relationships. And some people just like to go with the flow. Unless you let someone control your life or consider yourself to be less than someone else...that kind of thing. :]
Whew! I really liked you guys' responses. I feel a lot better, and what you're saying certainly makes a lot more sense than what some people have been trying to tell me.
I keep running into "feminist" *cough* girls at my university who see me as a "project" and only seem to try to become my friend so they can "toughen me up". It really sucks, because I don't feel the need to be their image of "tough." I really dislike the steriotype that all feminists are mean, angry b***ches and hate men. My dad and brothers consider themselves feminists, and they certainly don't fit that image.
But yeah, a lot of girls at my school try to tell me that "real girls" don't let themselves get rescued, or be the princess in stories, or wear makeup or girly clothes, or whatever. Kinda doesn't fit with my love of Revolutionary Girl Utena, where there's a beautiful and protective "Prince" as well as a lovely and cherished "Princess." Oh, well.
While I prefer to be the one being protected (and babied, lol) in relationships, I would be quite pissed if someone tried actually controlling me, or treating me as inferior in any way. So thanks guys! ^^
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Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2010 7:54 pm
Whaaat? Why are they telling you not to wear make up? I mean, as far as being a feminist goes, I don't see anything about cosmetics that kind of links to misogyny or the ideal of female inferiority. It's used to make yourself look beautiful, although I myself don't like using make up at all. neutral
It seems that these girls are just somewhat androphobic. You like what you like, and girly clothes are for girls, so why shouldn't you wear them?
Besides, your liking of being babied has nothing to do with the desire to be controlled or to be viewed or treated as an inferior being. It's stupidly obvious how these two could be so different, yet their meanings are erroneously interchanged and surprisingly thought to be connected to the other.
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