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All lovers are masochists. Love is great while it lasts, but it hurts way more than you thought it could when love is gone. At least the first time you get dumped, anyway.

As far as I can tell, relationships are pretty simple. Your significant other is just a really good friend, only you get to have sex. Or something like that.

Believe it or not, there are a lot of people out there with the same insecurities and fears you have. I'm sure your friends delight in telling you horror stories about the bad parts of a relationship, but the good parts more than make up for the bad parts in my opinion.

If you have a problem, it's expecting too much from life. You can't expect your first kiss to be pure magic, or expect your first relationship to be perfect, life just isn't like that. You just have to move on and learn from your mistakes. Taking risks is the only way to grow as an individual.

I think I had my first kiss in first grade, and it was completely unremarkable. I remember her lips were cold and wet (Ha!). Point being, the only significance a first kiss or "losing your virginity" or whatever has is the significance you give it. It's ultimately completely unimportant, and I don't think they should be viewed as "life goals". Also, stop worrying so much about how you're going to ******** eveything up, take a ******** chance! Confidence is much more likely to attract a mate.

I have to work on New Years Eve. I don't really give a s**t, the new years raves are lame and I had no real plans... but ********, it means someone from the sales team said 'hey i bet the people who actually have to put this event together wont mind!' It pisses me off that they have so little consideration for the people that do the real work for them. All they have to do is sell a date, time and place. But I'm on the the other end, the one that says 'WTF how exactly do they expect us to bring this into reality?'

I worked Thanksgiving day, and missed my entire family gathering. The person who sold that event might as well have bent over and taken a s**t on my head, because obviously they had no real concern for the result of their actions, only that they made bank off of a client. I was the one who had to make sure a family I didn't know, never met, and didn't give a ******** about was pleased... my job was to make certain they were happy on Thanksgiving. The family who scheduled the event (that in itself shows that the wealthy don't give a ******** about those underneath, who just want to get by and survive) were kind enough to at least say they were sorry for having me work on Thanksgiving. The employers above me barely noticed what I had given them. That I had sacrificed any time with my family on this holiday to the end of making them look good. They didn't deserve this. They scheduled and accounted for this event, they should be the ones to serve and clean up after their client has finished. But instead, the responsibility fell on me.

And that is how things are in my industry.

Maybe it's just me, but iTunes is really irritating when it tries to be helpful.

If I were you (or vice versa), you'd be in deep. I never save those, hahaha.

moderately attractive people can = EXTREMELY photogenic. 3nodding

It annoys me to no end when bands like this want to add me to their myspace.

Pregnant With Worms. How badass is that name? rolleyes

Not to mention imo their music blows.

Denied.

I hate moving