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Talking about the whole sex thing, because I know like nothing about Catholic stuff. (except there's a guy called the Pope and he's like uber pimp.)

Everybody physically wants sex. They may want to wait until their a certain age, to be in a relationship a certain amount of time, until marriage, until engagement etc. but they all WANT it. Human's are animals, we can't escape the feelings of raging hormones.

I waited until Colin and I had been dating a year (Well, actually it was 10 days before one year, but frigging close enough.) before we had sex. The magical stuff that happens the first time? Yeah, um, it's not true. Try searing pain, gradually increasing.

Also there's really nothing lovey about sex, so if you're going to have sex with your partner to show them how much you love them. Don't. Don't be suckered into that, it's not true. It can be lovey before, and after but not during. During is just hormones unleashed.

So yeah, with that said masturbation is your friend. Learn to do it right girlies and you're set for life. Guys... yeah I don't think I need to say anything to you. xd

Yup, I couldn't imagine having sex without emotions involved. The after part is amazing, you feel extremely close to the other person and just want to lie there forever.

Sex is fun, definitally, but the after part is my favorite. The closeness you feel to the person right after is unimaginable.

*blushes and shuffles feet* Have nothing to say....Waiting. Waiting. Must. Be. Married. Of course, there's my religion. That fuels it. But then, there are many logical reasons. If I had sex before I was married, I'd be emotionally screwed for life and I know it. So I guess some guy's gonna have to be willing to do a WHOLE lot of waiting if he wants to marry me....and hey, if no one's willing, I'll just go to abortion clinics and pay women large sums of money to have their children and let me adopt as opposed to having them aborted. Alright, wouldn't work. That's like buying kids (which people actually do, kinda sad). But I always wanted to open an adoption center and my dream was crushed by the harsh reality that I don't have what it takes.

i'm sure it isn't ugly! lol jk. hmm, lol, I'll see it when I see it. heh, sorry, I sorta started a chat unintentionally. redface

here we go, one where i"m not hidden by other people or 8 years old. though I must say I was a cute kid.



Yes. I have red eyes. Sorta. that's not redeye. it matches my hair. Dead serious. Well maybe a little redeye, but I don't think much.

That's an adorable picture! Heehee, what a cute kid you were.

Lol thanks. Eh. I don't. trust. Males. Sorry guys, I just don't trust you. You're really good liars. so are Females. In fact, I'm gonna go board myself up in a hut. domokun eh, well, alright, I'm not that completely paranoid. Erm, nevermind, yes I am.

He sounds great. biggrin biggrin biggrin I dunno, I had a pretty good one, except I've got this whole lyme thing going on and he was pretty....well, he was extremely sincere sounding. But then a week later, he came back...he'd asked another girl out and she'd said no. I mean, I'd have expected something like that, except we'd been dating a year and I"d FINALLY gotten my guard down a bit. So now...I definitely don't trust guys. blaugh


Edit: Oh yeah, he asked the girl out and when she turned him down, came back to me. now the first time he did it, I was like, eh, natural to get curious. The second time I'd figured out that he was just sorta, well, she's good for now until the next one comes along. Who needs needs being second fiddle to every pretty girl who comes along? confused

twisted note to self...

And seriously, Toxic's right about the masturbation thing. If you're the type who thinks it's icky just try it. wink