Das_Naughty!
why si there a guild when no one helps. It is only getting wrose and i can't help.
i guess the reason i didn't type anything was because i'm not sure what i would do in your situation. but now you've gone and made me feel guilty
crying .
but i could put in my tarnished two cents; i think that being strong for everyone probably isn't a good idea. if your brother is fighting you, you either need to fight him back (meaning no nicey nice), or you need to find a way in. i mean, i don't know you or him... but if you really care, and he's really going through something tough, then showing that you aren't so strong and okay would be a better way to relate.
hospitals from what i heaa can be very traumatic places to be. he probably feels betrayed, and probably is directing that anger at family in general, you included. you know, you could pm me if you wanted, but that's a generic offer at best for comfort... and there are other people i'm sure you'd rather talk to.
but my best advice is to not try to be so tough...you've got to open up. it may be what he needs to trust you and let you in-seeing that you're human, too.